Americans are increasingly losing patriotism but embracing big government socialism. They don't like their country, but they rather favor the government, especially if it's a real big government that promises to solve their problems for them. Americans are losing interest in faith in God, family, children, community, and relationships in favor of self-definition, self-worship, self-everything, isolation, and gender dysphoria. The slide in values appears to be accelerating (just over the last 3 years). We enumerate the causes as a generational revolution (that has gotten worse over 3 successive generations), educational systems, and peer culture. What are our ultimate values?