An Aries and Pisces Walk Into a Coffee Shop

We’re still playing opposites, embracing being an amateur to be an expert. Then we get into deconstructing personality and identity, because what is reality anyway? It’s all contextual and faceted. Put on the mask, take it off, we’re deconditioning societal conditioning and embracing complexity. 💎 🎭 💫

Recorded on June 12, 2025.

🪄 in this episode:

• embracing the amateur archetype to own the expertise
• how do coping skills shape personality and identity
• navigating feeling like lying with masking in neurodivergence and queerness
• de-conditioning religious messaging around thinking thoughts
• peanut witch update 🥜 🪶
• practicing being in the present moment with birds
• “good morning” as a spell 🪄

📋 resources mentioned:

• Amy Sigil's Improv Team Sync Dance school

🗓️ ps - we're taking a summer & mental health break after this episode. see you when we return! 🖤✨

📱 where to find us:

🖤 brigitte: @brigittemarie.energydesign

✨ tiffany: @marlawyrd

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There is so much to catch up on! Come travel with us through portals, through time, and through experience. We’re visiting our teenage selves and considering what it means to be adults who believe we can have everything we need. Even when it’s unclear or wobbly. Isn’t it wild we all chose to incarnate? Let’s talk about it. ✍️ 🥜 🧹

Recorded on May 22, 2025.

*Audio disclaimer: some of the audio is glitchy on this episode - sorry about that!

🪄 in this episode:

• overstimulation & flexibility: chronic pain
• 2020 akashic records time capsule
• choosing the human experience
• concepts as portals ✍️
• what does it feel like to have everything you need?
• redefining enough-ness
• being held in supportive community
• joyful bird updates 🥜 🪄
• Chicago dust storm 🧹
• revisiting our teenage selves fashion

📋 resources mentioned:

• Napoleon Dynamite - Give me some of your tots
• Portal writing with interstellar bruja Rios de la Luz
• What the Akashic Records

📱 where to find us:

🖤 brigitte: @brigittemarie.energydesign

✨ tiffany: @marlawyrd

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Hang out with us back in Aries season as you enjoy the blooming of Venusian Taurus energy. The sweet spot! The time for shedding identities. We can let go of old patterns and ways of being. They’ll decompose to nourish the growth of our becoming and becoming and becoming. 🌀🌱🌀

Recorded on March 26, 2025.

🪄 in this episode:

• what should we actually care about?
• shyness as a coping mechanism
• update: the blanket saga
• what would you bring to a magical circle to summon us?
• archetypal and deity connections
• neurodivergent witchcraft
• astrology archetypes

📋 resources mentioned:

• Alok Vaid-Menon’s 2025 resolutions
• Wacky Waving Inflatable Arm Flailing Tubemen
• Pythia Botanica Oracle

• Brigitte’s Notion Second Brain walkthrough

• Sea Witch Botanicals - Incense
• June Hymn by The Decemberists
• La Soy Emmy - Protective Magic course
• Your Astrologer Friend

📱 where to find us:

🖤 brigitte: @brigittemarie.energydesign

✨ tiffany: @marlawyrd

🪄 send us a tip: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/ariesandpisces

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Confidence is rebellion in a society that profits on us being kept small. So, get the tattoo, unapologetically hug your stuffed animal, lay down in rhythm with nature, allow yourself to move. Your wants can be needs. Be indulgent, Taurus season is around the corner, and you deserve this. 🐰 🗡️ 🛏️

Recorded on March 11, 2025.

🪄 in this episode:

• the giant peep saga
• wants and needs and allowing
• tattoos as self care
• equating confidence with rebellion
• blaming our virgo moons on negative self talk
• seasonal horizontal orientation
• slowing down the aries sun
• allowing fidgeting and movement

📋 resources mentioned:

• the artist’s way
• ADHD Love: podcast on shame

📱 where to find us:

🖤 brigitte: @brigittemarie.energydesign

✨ tiffany: @marlawyrd

🪄 send us a tip: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/ariesandpisces

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We’re contemplating what full fun could look like, while infusing whimsy and delight into the mundane day to day. There is much grief, and this is the way we move through. Intention, curiosity, and communication are the timbers to the boat we float on the river of ableism, white supremacy, capitalism, and learning unlearning. 🚣🌊🤔

Recorded on March 4, 2025.

🪄 in this episode:

• finding pockets of fun when it feels hard to tune into
• intentional collections 🐰
• why is this so hard? ableism grief & anger
• reframing neurodivergent frustration
• what does literal thinking in autism look like
• practicing asking for clarity
• are you making fun of me?!

📋 resources mentioned:

• @drbeckyatgoodinside facebook reel on learning & frustration
• Literal thinking in autism reel

• @retrorollergirl on IG

📱 where to find us:

🖤 brigitte: @brigittemarie.energydesign

✨ tiffany: @marlawyrd

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This week we delve into how our beliefs shape our experiences. There is power in rewriting the narrative, shifting perspective, and allowing space for curiosity, trust, reflection, and ease. This week there is joy to be had in the shape of geese, puppies, and cats. There are messages everywhere, you just have to take a moment to slow down, and listen. 🪶🐕🐱

Recorded on February 12, 2025.

🪄 in this episode:

• Wild Kuan Yin Oracle reflection
• self belief & self trust
• ceiling time 👀
• silly cat mannerisms 🗑️🐱
• walking snow pups
• goose 💩 observation 🌾

📋 resources mentioned:

• Wild Kuan Yin Oracle
• Two-Minute Meditation (Doing No - Thing)
• Self-Healing with Guided Imagery Audiobook
• Brigitte’s habit tracker notion template
• Abbot Elementary Mr. Johnson “it’s trash”
• Earth at Night in Color Documentary
• “life finds a way”

📱 where to find us:

🖤 brigitte: @brigittemarie.energydesign

✨ tiffany: @marlawyrd

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Take off your masks, speak the truth, and get back in touch with your body. This week we’re talking about the exhaustion of cramming oneself into societal norms. To be alive is to be dysregulated; it is data for discernment. There is danger in being ignorant to that which upsets our nervous systems. There is liberation in somatic experiencing. We’re not projects to be fixed. We’re alive beings worthy of taking it easy. 🎭🕯️🐱

Recorded on February 5, 2025.

🪄 in this episode:

• right timing: winter solstice rituals on imbolc
• our tells
• masking & unmasking
• nervous system regulation reframing
• individual vs systemic responsibility

📋 resources mentioned:

• June Hymn by The Decemberists
• costco/home goods neurodivergent shut down reel
• What If Dysregulation Is a Form of Resistance? by pat.radical.therapist on IG
• "things are not getting worse, they are getting uncovered. we must hold each other tight & continue to pull back the veil." Adrienne Maree Brown

📱 where to find us:

🖤 brigitte: @brigittemarie.energydesign

✨ tiffany: @marlawyrd

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Are you setting arbitrary rules for yourself? This is the revolution, we’re not doing that any more. Come along as we dismantle the idea that there is “one right way” to do things. Learn from children how to take care of yourself. We don’t have to prove ourselves to unnecessary standards. We bring value to others, let’s start recognizing and celebrating it. 🙅🚩🎉

Recorded on January 22, 2025.

🪄 in this episode:

• girl dinner update
• food hack: small plates 🍽️
• awareness around family patterns
• celebrating practicing self care
• learning from younger generations
• letting go of self judgements & apologizing for existing
• not proving ourselves anymore
• cat birthdays
• bluetooth headphone 💀 hack

📋 resources mentioned:

• loop earplugs
• meowbox

📱 where to find us:

🖤 brigitte:@brigittemarie.energydesign

✨ tiffany:@marlawyrd

🪄 send us a tip:https://www.buymeacoffee.com/ariesandpisces

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It is the end of 2024 in this recording, and we unpack an intention for the new year: shift decades of connotation around the word self-centered. There is deep community building magic when each person is centered in themselves. It allows us to keep our resources bountiful, and shareable. A centered self creates deeper and more stable connections with others. This is self care as community care. This is being our most authentic selves. What are your intentions for 2025? 🎢🛝🎯

Recorded on December 13, 2024.

🪄 in this episode:

📋 resources mentioned:

📱 where to find us:

🖤 brigitte: @brigittemarie.energydesign

✨ tiffany: @marlawyrd

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Come spend the last month of 2024 with us! We’re learning the lesson of joy through the goose, who is resilient and resourceful. We also delve into Human Design permission slips to be who we are in a world that doesn’t always support us. So, how does your energy and motivation manifest? We unpack the different ways this shows up, and how we’re learning to work with those cycles. 🪶🔋🤝

Recorded on December 6, 2024.

🪄 in this episode:

📋 resources mentioned:

📱 where to find us:

🖤 brigitte: @brigittemarie.energydesign

✨ tiffany: @marlawyrd

🪄 send us a tip: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/ariesandpisces

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