Episode 215 – Ten Commandments – Part 11 – The Dignity of Desire
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Script:
“You shall not covet your neighbor’s house. You shall not covet your neighbor’s wife, or his male or female servant, his ox or donkey, or anything that belongs to your neighbor.”
Exodus, Chapter 20, verse 17, New International Version
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VK: Hello! Welcome to Anchored by Truth brought to you by Crystal Sea Books. I’m Victoria K. We’re glad that you are able to join us for another episode of Anchored by Truth. Today, we are nearing the conclusion of our series on the Ten Commandments because today we are going to discuss the 10th commandment. We heard the 10th commandment in our opening scripture. This is a particularly important commandment and as we will see if was placed as number 10 for a reason. To help us with understanding the critical role the 10th commandment plays we have RD Fierro in the studio. RD is an author and the founder of Crystal Sea Books. RD, before we actually get into our discussion of the command against coveting anything that belongs to our neighbor are there any big ideas that concern all of the commandments that we should review?
RD: Well, before we get to that I would also like to welcome everyone to this episode of Anchored by Truth. We have a lot to get to today so I don’t want to spend too much time on a review ...
VK: And anyone who would like to hear any of our previous episodes can always find them on our website: crystalseabooks.com.
RD: Yes. But I will mention two big ideas that we have mentioned as we have gone through this series on the Ten Commandments. One big idea that we have mentioned is that the Ten Commandments were given to man, to us, for our benefit. Sure, they come from God but God doesn’t get anything out of the commandments. We do when we obey them. The commandments are sometimes divided into two groups called tables. The first table is often considered to consist of the first four commandments and this so-called first table helps us have a better relationship with God.
VK: And the second table consists of the last six commandments and when we obey them it helps people have a better relationship with other people.
RD: Right. God gave us the Ten Commandments to help us have better lives – not just on this world but on into eternity. So, that is one big idea that we need to keep in mind. And another big idea is to note that the common thread that is woven throughout all the commandments is that all of the commandments are concerned with dignity, especially the dignity of God.
VK: The first 3 commandments are all about the dignity of God’s nature. There is only one God who is infinitely holy, powerful, and present. Therefore, we must not worship any other Gods, or demean God by creating false images of Him or misusing His holy name. And the 4th and 5th commandments are concerned with the dignity of God’s creation. The 4th commandment to honor the Sabbath concerns the period of God’s creative activity and the 5th commandment to honor our fathers and mothers concerns the product of God’s creative activity – because man was the only creature created in God’s image.
RD: Yes. And the 6th through 10th commandments are also concerned with dignity. The 6th commandment is concerned with the dignity of human life, the 7th the dignity of marriage, and the 8th the dignity of work. The 8th commandment, which says, “do not steal” is concerned with the dignity of work because it is through our labor that we produce the goods and services that we need to sustain our lives. If someone steals any of those goods or services, regardless of the amount or value, they have exhibited a blatant disrespect for the labor and work of another person. And we saw in our last episode of Anchored by Truth that the 9th commandment which is the prohibition against lying is concerned with the dignity of words and truth. Words are so important that God used them when he created the heavenly bodies, the land and sea, and living creatures. And, of course, truth is so important that Jesus identified personally with the Truth. We hear that in our show opening in every episode. Jesus said, “I am the way, the truth, and the life.”
VK: In our culture we almost take it for granted that every person tells lies at some point. Lying is so pervasive we start to see lying or one of its many forms – political spin, misleading advertisement, misstatements on tax forms, etc. – as being no big deal. But lying in any form is a big deal to God. So, it should be a big deal to us.
RD: Exactly. So, we see that the first 9 commandments are all concerned with dignity. And, to complete the thread, as odd as it may sound the 10th commandment is concerned with the dignity of desire.
VK: The “dignity of desire” – you mentioned that last time. And as we said, that’s a phrase you probably don’t hear every day. So, let’s get into that. What is the dignity of desire?
RD: The dignity of desire is a way of saying that God built human beings with a desire for Him.
VK: This built-in desire for God has been recognized by many of the greatest Christian thinkers. For instance, the French mathematician, Blaise Pascal wrote Pensées, [PAHN-SEE] which was a defense of the Christian religion. The word Pensées means a thought or a reflection. In the book, Pascal said: “What else does this craving, and this helplessness, proclaim but that there was once in man a true happiness, of which all that now remains is the empty print and trace? This he tries in vain to fill with everything around him, seeking in things that are not there the help he cannot find in those that are, though none can help, since this infinite abyss can be filled only with an infinite and immutable object; in other words by God himself.”
RD: Pascal recognized that when God made man in His own image God ensured that His image bearer would always be drawn to the source of that image – God himself. The image bearer would have a desire to know the source and to be known by the source. That desire, like all others, was corrupted by the fall. And, as a consequence, fallen man’s desires began to wander to lesser things – so much so that today we almost think of “desire” as being a bad thing, but it didn’t start out that way and it shouldn’t be that way.
VK: Too often, we equate the words “desire” and “lust.” And, as a general rule, lust is sinful. So, we think we are to avoid it. And, of course, we should avoid sinful lusts. But desire need not be sinful. The Bible commands us to desire good things. For instance, in the opening lines of the Lord’s Prayer Jesus taught us to pray for “[God’s] kingdom to come and [God’s] will be done.” If we want God’s kingdom to come and God’s will to be done, then obviously we are to desire those things. We are to desire to live holy lives, to have faith, and to please God. We are to desire to spend an eternity with God in heaven. Desire is a basic attribute of being human and there is nothing wrong with desire. There is a lot wrong with allowing our desire to be transformed into sinful lusts.
RD: The 10th commandment not to covet anything of our neighbors helps us see where and how to draw the line. The 10th commandment is concerned with the preserving the dignity of desire. One way to think about the 10th commandment is to recognize that there is nothing wrong with covetousness itself but there is a lot wrong with coveting the wrong things. I think it might be fair to say that the gist of the 10th commandment is that we should never covet “lesser things” – things other than God himself or those things that God has commended to our use and good.
VK: I see where you are going with saying that we should never covet “lesser things.” God built us to covet a strong, close relationship with Him. The moment we turn our attention away from God we are automatically turning our attention to lesser things. There is nothing higher and greater than God. There can be nothing higher and greater than God. God is perfectly pure, holy, just, and beautiful. So, as long as we keep our desires focused on God and His will we will be protected from coveting lesser things. This does not mean that we cannot or will not possess lesser things – the things we need from this creation necessary for life and existence. But we must keep our priorities straight. Jesus told us this in the Gospel of Matthew, chapter 6, verses 31 through 33 when He said: “Don’t worry about these things, saying, ‘What will we eat? What will we drink? What will we wear?’ These things dominate the thoughts of unbelievers, but your heavenly Father already knows all your needs. Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need.” That’s from the New Living Translation.
RD: Exactly. We need to be careful when we think about the 10th commandment because we sometimes think it says “don’t covet.” But that’s not what it says at all. The 10th commandment tells us not to covet things that belong to our neighbor – their house, their spouse, their animals or any of their property. One basic reason for this is that to covet anything that belongs to our neighbor exhibits dissatisfaction with God’s provision for us. It’s a form of ingratitude. It’s a way of saying that God has been good to our neighbor but not good to us. When we covet that which belongs to our neighbor it’s a refusal to acknowledge that God has been good to us.
VK: So coveting what belongs to our neighbor actually expresses displeasure for what God has provided for us. In a way, we think that covetousness for something that belongs to someone else shouldn’t be that serious. Covetousness is, after all, mental or a psychological. It’s not like stealing or lying where we have actually taken an action that injures another person. Coveting is internal not external. So, it would be easy for us to say to ourselves “at least I didn’t hurt anyone else” like the liar or thief. But when we start considering the fact that covetousness betrays a subtle disrespect for God we can begin to see its true sinfulness.
RD: Yes. We disrespect God when we covet what He has chosen to supply to our neighbor. But, of course, when God gave the 10th commandment God was well aware that sinful human beings rarely end their sin with the thought. Sinful thoughts become sinful deeds. That’s what happened in the Garden of Eden. Eve’s lust for the forbidden fruit began in her eyes, moved to an unholy desire to be like God, and then finally came to fruition …
VK: Fruition ... no pun intended.
RD: No pun intended ... the sin which began in her mind came to fruition in full blown disobedience of the single prohibition God had given our first parents. And that’s pretty much the way sin always progresses. Sin may begin in the mind but it rarely stays there.
VK: Jesus explained that very clearly to His disciples. In the Gospel of Matthew, chapter 15, verses 16 through 20 Jesus said” “Don’t you understand yet? … Anything you eat passes through the stomach and then goes into the sewer. But the words you speak come from the heart—that’s what defiles you. For from the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, all sexual immorality, theft, lying, and slander. These are what defile you. Eating with unwashed hands will never defile you.” That’s also from the New Living Translation.
RD: Exactly. God gave man the capacity to think and be aware of the world around them. God also gave us the capacity to experience desire. But God also gave us the choice about we would employ those capacities. He gave us free choice. So, we are permitted to direct our desire to a relationship with God or the parts of the created order that are good for us or we can direct our desire to lesser things most of which will not be good for us. And as we mature most of us realize that it is very difficult, if not impossible, to simply squelch desire.
VK: Just about everybody who has ever decided they need to lose 10 pounds knows that the moment they make a decision to go on a diet they began to think about food way more than they did a day earlier. Just about everybody who has decided to quit smoking or any other bad habit knows that merely making the decision to quit doing something triggers the desire to do it. And the desire gets stronger the more we intend to avoid it. It can be a devastating cycle.
RD: So, rather than just trying to squelch a desire a better strategy is to redirect it from something unhealthy to something healthy. We may have a hard time quenching desire but we can replace one desire with another.
VK: But the cynic may just say “why try to quench a desire? Why not just give in to it?” After all, life is short and comes with plenty of pain so why shouldn’t we just enjoy the things for which we have desire.
RD: If all our desires were healthy or holy we could or should give in to them. But one of the big problems with unholy desires is that giving in to them may produce destruction but it rarely produces satisfaction. The wisest man who ever lived found that out.
VK: You’re thinking about the book of Ecclesiastes which most scholars attributed to King David’s son, Solomon. Solomon was a very rich king. He could literally afford to indulge his every desire – and according to Ecclesiastes he did. Despite his indulgence, however, ultimately Solomon didn’t find his desire quenched by indulgence.
RD: Solomon had almost unlimited political power and wealth. Yet, he found that neither brought him a sense of fulfillment. Solomon indulged in just about every sensual pleasure possible. He tried sex, building huge structures, and developing elaborate gardens but none of it produced the satisfaction he was seeking. Even when Solomon turned to wisdom and philosophy he ultimately found that they did not give him a sense of meaning or fulfillment. So, Solomon tried quenching his desire by simply giving into it, by indulging in any and every passion that came his way. None of it worked. The depth of the desire which God implanted in Solomon, and in everyone for that matter, simply overwhelmed the ability of the world or the flesh to satisfy them.
VK: So, we are back to that “God-sized hole” in every man. We cannot simply stamp our desire like it is a campfire. And we can definitely not eradicate it by indulging it. One of the major lessons of the 10th commandment is that even if we went ahead and stole our neighbor’s house, spouse, or pets that would ultimately be a futile act. The covetousness which animated our action would be defeated even if we acted upon it. As Solomon put it in Ecclesiastes, chapter 1, verse 2, “Everything is meaningless … completely meaningless!”
RD: Well - almost. After working his way through a description of everything that he had tried to satisfy his various longings, his covetousness, Solomon concluded his meditations in Ecclesiastes in chapter 12. Verses 6 and 7 of chapter 12 say, “Yes, remember your Creator now while you are young, before the silver cord of life snaps and the golden bowl is broken. Don’t wait until the water jar is smashed at the spring and the pulley is broken at the well. For then the dust will return to the earth, and the spirit will return to God who gave it.” And in the final verses of chapter 12, verses 13 and 14 Solomon said, “That’s the whole story. Here now is my final conclusion: Fear God and obey his commands, for this is everyone’s duty. God will judge us for everything we do, including every secret thing, whether good or bad.” That’s the New Living Translation.
VK: So, really what God was doing when he gave the ancient Israelites and us the 10th commandment is to help us avoid the pain and anguish that covetousness causes. Coveting our neighbor’s possessions is a longing for things that God did not intend for us. And since God is the One who implanted desire in us to begin with He knows the things that will satisfy us. And, of course, the one longing that we are always encouraged to pursue is a longing for a deeper relationship with our Creator. Solomon says, “remember your Creator while you are young.” If we follow Solomon’s advice, and establish a relationship with God when we are young we will live far more fulfilled and fulfilling lives as we go through life.
RD: So, the point of all this is that the 10th commandment, like the commandments that precede it is concerned with dignity and concerned with helping us live better lives. One thread that ties all of the commandments together is that are concerned with the dignity of God and the dignity of people because they are God’s image bearers. The last 5 of the commandments would not have been necessary if the fall had never occurred because their primary purpose is to restrain sin in the fallen creation. But even these commandments are bound together by dignity. The 6th commandment is concerned with the dignity of their lives, the 7th the dignity of marriage, and the 8th the dignity of work. The 9th commandment is concerned with the dignity of words, speech, and truth. And the 10th commandment is concerned with the dignity of desire – especially our desire for God. One final point we should cover before we close for today is all of these observations point us back to reality of the creation record that is contained in Genesis.
VK: So, really the 10th commandment is a perfect bookend for the 1st commandment. The first commandment tells us there is only one true God and that we are not to have any other gods before Him. The 10th commandment prohibits from coveting our neighbors’ possessions but what it is really doing is reminding us that we should never covet anything other than what God has intended and supplied. And we will automatically be protected from coveting anything that belongs to our neighbor if we do covet God and the things of God. We are not prohibited from coveting. We are prohibited from coveting anything lesser than God himself and the blessings that, in His sovereign determination, He wants to supply to us.
RD: God’s plan always was that man would have a role in the created order that was different from that of all other creatures because God made man in His image. God then gave man the desire to have a relationship with Him and the capacity to act on that desire. Sadly, Adam and Eve yielded to the temptations of Satan and began to desire the fruit of the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil more than they desired the fruit of obedience to God’s commands. That first act of disobedience led to untold mischief such that the wisest man who ever lived would be forced to acknowledge that he could find no true satisfaction in anything of this earth.
VK: It’s impossible to say what the world would have been like if the fall hadn’t occurred. It did. But we can see the reliability of the Biblical account of creation from the fact that the sin introduced in Eden has continued to plague man throughout his history. God gave the Ten Commandments to the people He was sending to found a new nation to give them a firm moral and ethical foundation upon which to build their lives and that nation. Sadly, the ancient Hebrews were no more successful at obeying the Ten Commandments than our first parents were at obeying their one prohibition. And frankly we can see all about us the fact that the original commandment God gave to Adam and Eve was not only necessary but right. And we can see from the widespread disobedience to the Ten Commandments that they are not only necessary but right. Whether one commandment or ten mankind has a poor history of accepting God’s instructions even when those instructions would produce far better, happier, and more prosperous lives.
RD: In a very real sense the continued, widespread presence of sin shows that the Ten Commandments were a very wise precaution God took to try to forestall the ultimate decline of His people. And the failure of all of us to honor the Ten Commandments points to our profound need for a Savior to rescue us from our own rebellion. Adam and Eve’s sin in the Garden of Eden kicked off a sad sequence that continued through the flood, the captivity of the Hebrews in Egypt, and the ultimate fall of both the northern and southern kingdoms that the exodus produced in Palestine. But throughout this sad sequence God continued to unfold His marvelous plan of redemption and that plan would be consummated in Palestine 1,500 years after God gave the Ten Commandments. And one of the things we would really like for listeners to see is exactly that – that there is a sequence of history, man’s behavior, and the continued presence of sin in our world that demonstrates the validity and the reliability of the Bible. In our next episode of Anchored by Truth we are going to wrap up this series on the Ten Commandments. But at a minimum we want people to understand that the Ten Commandments are not a set of isolated instructions given to an ancient people to just put restrictions on their behavior. The Ten Commandments are part of the remarkable unity demonstrated in the Bible’s recounting of the grand saga of creation, fall, and redemption.
VK: Well, this sound like a good time to end for today and go to prayer. Today let’s listen to a prayer for the Son of God who is the One who was the subject of the plan of redemption and who makes our personal salvation possible. We will live far more fulfilled and fulfilling lives as we go through life if we obey the Ten Commandments, but praise the Lord even when we don’t Christ Jesus has made it possible for us to be saved and enjoy an eternity where we enjoy the blessings of His perfect obedience.
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(Opening Bible Quote from the New International Version)
Exodus, Chapter 20, verse 17, New International Version
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