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- Day 157: Does "Building Comfort" Matter? (Patreon Question)
Do you need to "build comfort" with girls before having sex with them? (Hint: no, but not for the reason you think).
Ed's question was:
Why is “building comfort” considered such an important part of mainstream PUA philosophy, but it’s hardly discussed at all within KYILor GLLAccording to mainstream advice, women need to have spent time and connect emotionally with a man before they are willing to have sex with him. Is there something missing from this view of sex and female attraction? If building comfort is important, why do women have casual sex when they “barely know” a guy?
Hint -- I think I know part of the answer: lust and physical attractiveness is driving the attraction in these casual sex relationships. Excitement, risk, and “moving fast” is an attraction in itself. No one questions a roller coaster ride by asking “aren’t you afraid?” The response is simply “duh, it’s supposed to be a little scary and exciting, that’s why it’s fun!”
SHOWNOTES:
My Patreon:
https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserAttraction vs Lust:
https://theinnerwinnershow.com/108/Why Losing Fat Matters Above All Else for Getting Laid:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/why-losing-fat-matters-above-all-else/🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective
🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call
▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter24 min - Day 156: Radical Ideas: My Top 5 Flaws
I'm a bit of a fuckup, like we all are. Here's my top 5 flaws.
SHOWNOTES:Radical's Video:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M3iQ8nhCBh8
Bathmate:
https://theinnerwinnershow.com/bathmate
Discipline and Willpower Don't Fucking Matter:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/discipline-willpower-dont-matter
Weekly Accountability Check-ins:
http://theinnerwinnershow.com/40
My Forums:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums
Self-Sabotage podcast:
http://theinnerwinnershow.com/133
No More Mr Nice Guy:
https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#no-more-mr-nice-guy
When I Say No, I Feel Guilty:
https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#when-i-say-no-i-feel-guilty
🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective
🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call
▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter26 min - Day 155: 3 Ways to Live with a Woman and Still Be Productive
My top 3 techniques for making sure you - and she - absolutely crush your goals without distracting each other when you live together.
SHOWNOTES:
Bathmate (free shipping with my link, plus you directly support me - cheers):
https://killyourinnerloser.com/bathmateSleep is Paramount:
https://kyil-extra.com/sleep-is-paramount/Blue-light-blocking Glasses:
https://kyil-extra.com/sleep-is-paramount/#blue-light-blocking-glassesWeekly Check-ins:
https://theinnerwinnershow.com/40/🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective
🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call
▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter12 min - Day 154: Winner's Mindset vs Loser's Mindset (Female Listener)
Do you have to be perfect in order to have True Love™ ? Is The Red Pill correct that every woman will eventually leave you? Can women find happy monogamy in an age of casual sex?
SHOWNOTES:Previous podcast answering a woman's questions:
https://theinnerwinnershow.com/100
Why You are NOT Meant to Live My Lifestyle Forever:
https://theinnerwinnershow.com/11
Eventually You'll End Up Settling Down:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/settling/
There is No Such Thing as Alpha:
http://killyourinnerloser.com/alpha
My Patreon (early access to episodes, I answer your questions, and even free monthly coaching calls with me):
https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloser🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective
🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call
▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter31 min - Day 153: Radical Ideas: Go Outside More
Turn off my podcast, get off my website, turn off your computer and go outside.
SHOWNOTES:Radical's YouTube video:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7gTjIJ7V7kQ
Bathmate (use my link for free shipping + you're supporting my work):
https://theinnerwinnershow.com/bathmate
My Forums:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums
Talk about what you HAVE done, not what you WILL do:
https://theinnerwinnershow.com/32
Most Pickup Artists are Theatrical Wizards:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/pickup-artists-are-theatrical-wizards
How I Beat My Approach Anxiety:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/how-i-beat-my-approach-anxiety
My Patreon (early access to all these episodes, plus heaps more bonuses):
https://www.patreon.com/killyourinnerloser
🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective
🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call
▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter9 min - Day 152: When Should I Lower or Raise My Standards? (The Ebb & Flow of Standards)
Andy answers the age-old question, as to when you should raise or lower your standards when it comes to girls.
SHOWNOTES:Bathmate:
https://theinnerwinnershow.com/bathmateYou're Not Obligated to Have Sex with Someone:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/not-obligatedAlways Keep an Open Mind:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/always-keep-an-open-mind🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective
🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call
▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter12 min - Day 151: How You Can Encourage Others (Even If You're a Total Newbie)
How sharing a little bit of encouragement helps you retain girls, build an awesome life for yourself and make the world a better place.
SHOWNOTES:
Coaching I Offer (I guarantee I'll absolutely change your damn life):https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching
Why I Write for This Site:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/why-i-write-for-this-site
My Forums:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums
🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective
🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call
▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter33 min - Day 150: How to Take the Lead Without Being Controlling
How do you differentiate between taking the lead/being masculine... vs being too controlling?
SHOWNOTES:Bathmate:
How I Use the Bathmate (Guide)No More Mr Nice Guy:
https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#no-more-mr-nice-guyWhen I Say No, I Feel Guilty:
https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#when-i-say-no-i-feel-guilty🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective
🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call
▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter10 min - Day 149: How to Avoid STDs (Are They as Scary as People Make Out?)
Are STDs something to freak out over - or are the risks overblown?
SHOWNOTES:
Bathmate:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/bathmate
Honest Guide to STDs (by Mark Manson):
https://markmanson.net/std-guide
Everybody is Lying to You, All The Time:
https://theinnerwinnershow.com/51/🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective
🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call
▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter23 min - Day 148: What Counter-Strike Can Teach Us About Self-Improvement [Part 3]
Why I love the video game Counter Strike, and the life lessons I've learned from the people who play it. [Part 3]
Want to check out Counter Strike but have no idea where to start? These two are a good starting place:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vLecFQCsHi8
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e46rLEW5KUI
SHOWNOTES:
My Patreon:
https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloser
Thorin's Thoughts - s1mple's Hidden Insights (CS:GO):
https://www.youtube.com/watch?app=desktop&v=MXetDuIjxUQ
If You Don't Take Yourself Seriously, How Can You Expect Anyone Else To?
https://theinnerwinnershow.com/126/
Interview with Jason Lake:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t5El0_6FavU
Duncan's Open Letter to K0nfig:
https://t.co/bGIUtWnEAB?amp=1
Demystifying Your Successes:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wBYcdfBmeBU
What is Honour? - The Riddle of Ned Stark's Honour - Thorin's Side (Philosophy):
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l9Bjhq-Guyw
Thorin (Duncan):
https://www.youtube.com/user/Thooorin
Richard Lewis:
https://www.youtube.com/user/RLewisReports
🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective
🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call
▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter26 min
About Andy Wells
From the publisher's feed
I'm Andy - I went from depressed & suicidal to living a live of abundance & joy. If I can do it, you sure as hell can too.
I went from depressed, suicidal, obese & alone…
to a life full of friends & love, having plenty of wild sexual adventures, 3somes and more, making 5-figures a month from my coaching, helping other men and women live a life that's true to themselves, & living my own abundant & peaceful life I'm incredibly grateful for. Best of all, this community - you guys and gals - have come to feel like my family. Life is amazing, and I'm here to help you follow in my footsteps.
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