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- Day 138: Even More Questions to Ask Yourself [Part 3/3]
Final round of questions to ask yourself if you want to lead an epic, amazing life.
Full article with all the questions written out:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/questions-to-ask-yourself/- Do I deserve happiness?
- What does happiness mean to me?
- What do I want?
- What do I value?
- Do I deserve?
- Am I important?
- Are my needs more important than other people? Do I have the right to ask for what I want?
- What am I scared of? Is there anything I’m avoiding/putting off?
- (If you're depressed) Is my depression serving me some purpose?
- What makes me happy?
- Is there something I’ve never dealt with?
- What am I grateful for?
- Is it ok if I'm not perfect? Is it ok if I'll never be perfect?
- If I could change one thing about my life, what would it be?
- What's stopping me from making that change right now? What's holding me back?
- If I fail or run into some roadblocks, am I a failure?
- Am I honest with people? Could I be more open and real?
- What do I like about myself?
- What do I dislike about myself? If I could change anything, what would I change first?
- I most likely will never complete my todo list before I die (there’ll always be more to do). Am I ok with this? Am I ok with never getting everything done?
- Do I have a fear of death?
- Do I let my fear of death dictate my actions? Do I let my fear of death rule me and make me procrastinate working on my goals?
- What am I so afraid of?
- (If you're depressed) Do I need my depression or can I let it go?
- Who are the people that are most important to me? Have I told people I'm grateful for them?
- (If you had a rough childhood or some past trauma) Did I deserve the bad things that happened to me? Did I “earn” those things or was it just random bad luck?
- What is the meaning of life?
- What is happiness?
- Why do we want things?
- What is existence?
- How did I come to be?
- Why am I here?
- Why does achieving a goal make me feel so good?
- Will we ever have everything we want? If not, is that still a satisfying/successful life?
SHOWNOTES:
My Forums:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/
Coaching with me:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective
🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call
▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter13 min - Day 137: More Questions to Ask Yourself [Part 2/3]
Full article with all the questions written out:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/questions-to-ask-yourself/
Even more questions to ask yourself:- What are your goals? Not what do you deserve, but what do you want? Dream big, even if you think it's stuff you'll never actually have.
- What are your main blockages? What's holding you back?
- Are you just asking me for permission to go all-in and make getting laid your number 1 goal?
- Do you have a fear that girls won't like you if they see the real, vulnerable you?
- Do you worry if you have sex with too many girls, the girls will think you're a bad person/not like you?
- Do you worry about what other people will think of you?
- Do you worry you're not good enough to get laid; you're not really a player, you're not equal to Chris/Scotty/me/anyone else?
- Do you worry that having a tonne of sex will ultimately be meaningless - you'll achieve all you want to achieve with girls but will still be unhappy at the end of it?
- Do you worry having too much sex is "disrespectful" to the girls you bang; do you worry about using them for sex? (That doesn't have to be the case - it isn't for me).
- Do you resent women? Are you jealous of them, or think they have it easier than guys, or hate that they get to be the choosers - they can reject you for any reason they want?
- What places are you scared to hit on girls? (Supermarket will give different anxiety vs train station vs a girl sitting down vs a girl walking fast, etc)
- Anything else you worry about, or any fears or "sticking points"?
Want to support the show? Join my Patreon for exclusive content not seen anywhere else: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloser🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective
🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call
▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter41 min - Day 136: Questions to Ask Yourself [Part 1/3]
Full article with all the questions written out:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/questions-to-ask-yourself/
Questions to ask yourself:- Why does Andy (and other successful players) deserve to get laid a lot, but not me? Why am I special?
- Andy was a total loser at the start, so if he can get laid a lot, why can’t I?
- Am I just putting up bullshit excuses like these ones?
- Why does Andy deserve to overcome his depression, but not me?
- Why wouldn’t girls like me? Is there really something wrong with me? Can I improve that or work around it?
- Do I want to feel helpless and hopeless? Does my hopelessness help or protect me in some way – am I getting something out of it? (Watch this podcast, it covers this topic in great detail and will blow your mind).
- Do my flaws really mean no women will ever like me? Can I make up for my flaws by having some really strong, awesome strengths?
- What attributes would a player have, that I don’t?
- Can I work on getting those attributes?
- Do I deserve to be miserable and unhappy? Why? Why do other people deserve to be happy, but not me?
- Am I destined to be a failure for life, or can I change that?
- Did the universe/God/whatever preordain me to be a failure? Does that have to be the case, or can I rise up and change the course of my own life?
- The guys that are players – not all of them were players at the start [I – Andy – am a good example of this]. So they literally learned how to get laid a lot, learned how to improve themselves, learned how to lose fat, learned how to make friends, learned how to beat depression, learned how to overcome their negative thoughts… Can’t I just learn all those skills too, one by one?
SHOWNOTES:
If You Don't Take Yourself Seriously, How Can You Expect Anyone Else to?https://theinnerwinnershow.com/126/
The Only Thing that Matters: Just Don't Ever Fucking Quit:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/71/
Hopeless and Helpless:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/hopeless-and-helpless/🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective
🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call
▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter39 min - Day 135: Why Am I Getting Shit Tested?
Hint: If you're getting shit-tested a tonne, it's because you look like absolute trash. No stress; just improve your appearance and keep working on your own self-improvement.
SHOWNOTES:
Shit Tests Article:https://killyourinnerloser.com/shit-tests/
How to Improve Your Appearance:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide/#chapter-2-improving-your-looks
My Forums:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/
🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective
🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call
▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter23 min - Day 134: Stop "Shoulding" Yourself.
Why you should stop saying should. Or not. Do whatever you WANT, not what you think you "should" do.
SHOWNOTES:
Bathmate pump:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/bathmate🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective
🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call
▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter10 min - Day 133: Self-Sabotage and Self-fulfilling Prophecies
YOU are most likely the only thing standing in the way of your own success. So stop fucking it up.
SHOWNOTES:You Get What You Subconsciously Believe:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/you-get-what-you-subconsciously-believe/
If You Feel Hopeless and Helpless:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/hopeless-and-helpless/
Coaching with me:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective
🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call
▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter40 min - Day 132: Have Fun During Your Approaches
Some easy ways to make approaching/daygame a little more fun, and a little less of a chore.
SHOWNOTES:Bathmate:
https://theinnerwinnershow.com/bathmate/
How to Develop a Sense of Humour:
https://theinnerwinnershow.com/72/
🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective
🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call
▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter22 min - Day 131: Merry Christmas, Plans for My Website/Podcast, a Look Back at 2020
A retrospective look back at 2020, as well as my plans for my site and podcast going forward. Exciting things to come!
SHOWNOTES:
Work/Life Balance is Bullshit:https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/6906074
Patreon (early access to all the episodes I record, usually weeks before everyone else gets them):
https://www.patreon.com/killyourinnerloser
Weekly Accountability Checkins:
https://theinnerwinnershow.com/40/
Bathmate Pump:
http://killyourinnerloser.com/bathmate🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective
🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call
▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter45 min - Day 130: Couples Shouldn't Blindly Jump into a 3some
Why it's imperative you take a little extra time before getting into a 3some, if you're in a longterm relationship with a committed partner.
SHOWNOTES:
Bathmate pump:http://killyourinnerloser.com/bathmate
Coaching with me:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching
How to Beat Performance Anxiety:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/performance-anxiety/
Why newbies should NOT get into open relationships:
https://theinnerwinnershow.com/115/🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective
🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call
▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter30 min - Day 129: "Work/Life Balance" Means You Hate Your Job
Why sticking at a job you hate makes you a total piece of shit.
SHOWNOTES:
If you want coaching from me, I'll kick your ass into gear and force you to be successful. Coaching:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching
Society is Lying to You About Everything:
https://theinnerwinnershow.com/51/🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective
🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call
▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter18 min
About Andy Wells
From the publisher's feed
I'm Andy - I went from depressed & suicidal to living a live of abundance & joy. If I can do it, you sure as hell can too.
I went from depressed, suicidal, obese & alone…
to a life full of friends & love, having plenty of wild sexual adventures, 3somes and more, making 5-figures a month from my coaching, helping other men and women live a life that's true to themselves, & living my own abundant & peaceful life I'm incredibly grateful for. Best of all, this community - you guys and gals - have come to feel like my family. Life is amazing, and I'm here to help you follow in my footsteps.
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