Andy Wells

A female listener asks a bunch of questions for Imogen to answer - how can women flirt with another woman, how to find a solid group of female friends & whether men or women make better creatives!

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Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/killyourinnerloser

Got your own relationship questions you'd like to ask us, or are you a female listener who'd like to ask Imogen some questions? Fire away - ask us here:
https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact

SHOWNOTES:

Imogen and my first 3some (story) :
https://killyourinnerloser.com/my-first-3some/

Love languages:
https://www.5lovelanguages.com/

🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective

🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
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$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call

▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com

▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter

There's almost nothing in life you "can't" do, as long as you hold this as your philosophy: "I'll stop focusing on my problems and start looking for solutions."

Products that'll change your fucking life: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/recommendations
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/killyourinnerloser

Want to contact me, or have your own questions you'd like me to cover on the podcast?
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SHOWNOTES:

Fiverr:
https://fiverr.com

Upwork:
https://www.upwork.com/

My forums:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/

GoodLookingLoser forums:
http://goodlookingloser.com/forums

My girlfriend's art Fiverr page:
https://www.fiverr.com/immydraws?up_rollout=true

🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective

🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching

$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call

▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com

▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter

Should you schedule dates with 2 different women for the same day - and how do you go about setting that up?

Products that'll change your fucking life: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/recommendations
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/killyourinnerloser

Got sex/self-improvement/relationship questions you'd like to ask us, or are you a female listener who'd like to ask Imogen some questions? Fire away - ask us here:
https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact

SHOWNOTES:

Interview with Sigma:
https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/5258731

Want to contact me, or have your own questions you'd like me to cover on the podcast?
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🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls

🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching

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Andy & Imogen answer a listener's questions about feeling like change is "impossible" for him.
Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/7FydNtklQr0

Products that'll change your fucking life: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/recommendations
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/killyourinnerloser

Want to contact me, or have your own questions you'd like me to cover on the podcast?
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SHOWNOTES:

My Youtube:
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxqSbTtRlqz3hTWFlis1_bA

You Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought BOOK:

https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#you-cant-afford-the-luxury-of-a-negative-thought

My Podcast Episode talking about the book:

https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/5117656

5 Minute Meditator

https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#5-minute-meditator

Mark Manson Fuck Your Feelings:

https://markmanson.net/fuck-your-feelings

How to have fun with approaching:

https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/5446105

Hopeless and Hopeless:

http://killyourinnerloser.com/hopeless-and-helpless

Want to contact me, or have your own questions you'd like me to cover on the podcast?
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😊 My "Play to Win: How I Built a Winner's Mindset" video course (just pay $1): https://playtowinmindset.com

🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls

🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching

▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser

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Andy and Immy answer a friend's questions about whether you should pursue sex and having fun - or going all-in with money/career/finances.

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Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/killyourinnerloser

Want to contact me, or have your own questions you'd like me to cover on the podcast?
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SHOWNOTES:

Eventually You'll End Up Settling Down:

https://killyourinnerloser.com/settling/

Should you get back with an ex? 

https://killyourinnerloser.com/how-to-breakup/#lets-just-be-friends%E2%84%A2

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😊 My "Play to Win: How I Built a Winner's Mindset" video course (just pay $1): https://playtowinmindset.com

🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls

🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching

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Andy's got two awesome tips for making your approaches far more fun.

Want to contact me, or have your own questions you'd like me to cover on the podcast?
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SHOWNOTES:

Be coached by me:

https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching/

🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective

🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching

$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call

▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com

▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter

Should you focus on improving your looks as a priority - or can you neglect that and learn "game"/routines/social skills?

Want to contact me, or have your own questions you'd like me to cover on the podcast?
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SHOWNOTES:

Podcast episode with Will:
https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/5428537

Proof:

https://killyourinnerloser.com/proof

Why Losing Fat Matters Above All Else for Getting Laid:

https://killyourinnerloser.com/why-losing-fat-matters-above-all-else/#why-losing-fat-matters-most

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😊 My "Play to Win: How I Built a Winner's Mindset" video course (just pay $1): https://playtowinmindset.com

🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls

🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching

▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser

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Andy is joined by Will from his forums to discuss how sex is exactly like sales, shortcomings and positives of The Red Pill, and how to go out to bars alone. Oh, and why BPD girls are nuts.

Want to contact me, or have your own questions you'd like me to cover on the podcast?
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SHOWNOTES:

My Forums:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/

The Red Pill Reddit:

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/

This is All Just a Big Experiment:

https://killyourinnerloser.com/this-is-all-just-a-big-experiment/

Oh No, You've Angered the Gods:

https://killyourinnerloser.com/youve-angered-the-gods/

There is No Such Thing as Alpha:

https://killyourinnerloser.com/alpha/

Going Out Alone Program (free):

https://www.goodlookingloser.com/how-to-go-out-alone-to-bars-part-1

How to Make Friends:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/surround-yourself-with-good-people/

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😊 My "Play to Win: How I Built a Winner's Mindset" video course (just pay $1): https://playtowinmindset.com

🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls

🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching

▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser

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Struggling to keep yourself accountable with your goals? Do what Andy and Imogen do - use a weekly check-in to keep yourself on-task.

The questions Imogen and I ask each other every Sunday:

Questions to ask Andy:

• Look at where I'm at with money/my site/coaching
• What can Imogen do to help me on my mission?
• Talk about what I'm going to do to make progress in the following week.
• Talk about my future goal (eg pay all my bills from my coaching).
• Talk about how we get closer to that goal.
• Do I have a hopelessness and am I self sabotaging by thinking I can't reach that goal?
• Am I holding back and not going all in ( eg. Enquiry emails I haven't replied to, client work I haven't done, taking too long?)
• Is there more I can do to go all in (marketing, posting on forums, writing next big content series rather than easy articles, etc).
• When was the last time I posted article on reddit to share them? (Needs to be at least once a week).
• What can I do to support Imogen this week with her goals?

Questions to ask Imogen:

• Have I been nice to myself this week? Talk about the positive / negative self talk that has come up this week.
• Have I practiced challenging my negative thoughts this week? 
• How is my weight loss going? 
• Is there a little change that I can make as the next step towards weight loss? Or am I making progress now? 
• How did I feel about my art this week? 
• What can I do next week to enjoy my art? 
• What have been my successes this week? And for all of my goals what am I working towards next week? 

SHOWNOTES:

Interview with David:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PPrS18XzXco

Want to contact me, or have your own questions you'd like me to cover on the podcast?
https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact/

🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective

🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching

$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call

▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com

▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter

Andy answers a listener's question: "How do you differentiate between deal breakers and flaws?"

Want to contact me, or have your own questions you'd like me to cover on the podcast?
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SHOWNOTES:

Timewasters (Red Flags to Look Out For):
https://killyourinnerloser.com/timewasters/

_____________________________________
😊 My "Play to Win: How I Built a Winner's Mindset" video course (just pay $1): https://playtowinmindset.com

🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls

🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching

▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser

❤️ Donate to us (much appreciated!): https://kyil-extra.com/donate
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