Another Day With MaryJane

Survival is not just about walking away from something—it’s about waking up to something. It forces you to pause and examine everything- Live better. Live clearer. Live lighter. But above all, live with intention.

We often treat life like it will always make room for us to catch up, fix things, or try again later. But the truth is, moments like this remind us—life is fragile. And when you’re given a second chance, it’s not to return to who you were. It’s to rise, to shed the unnecessary, and to step into something more aligned.

Our presence—whether physical or simply in spirit—is a gift. Life is short. If your presence isn’t being valued, maybe it’s time to refocus your energy. Give it to people and places where it matters, where it’s appreciated. Let’s open our lives to the ones who genuinely celebrate our worth, who support our mission with integrity, and who sincerely want to see us rise. Because here’s the truth: We are our energy.
And wasting it on the wrong people is a great disservice we can do to ourselves. And do not allow any circumstance to diminish your worth, your brilliance, or your purpose.


To my mother, Thank you for your love, your strength, your faith, and your presence. At 89, you’re still teaching me that being is enough. That silence can be healing. Your stillness has been my sanctuary.

And to every mother, every daughter, every woman listening today—I honor you. You may not always be seen. You may not always be celebrated. But your love, your presence, your quiet strength—it matters more than you know.

Happy Mother’s Day!

Healing is anything but linear. It’s a process and it asks us to sit with the uncomfortable. It teaches us to rest. It teaches us to listen—to our bodies, to listen to our hearts, and the quiet spaces, the silence, in between. Through the tears, the my writing, my journaling, the long talks with God, and the support of people who cares, I am starting to find a different kind of strength. One that doesn’t always roar. Sometimes, it simply whispers: “You’re still here. So keep going.” I am both humbled and inspired.

I almost didn’t make it. There’s no other way to say it. It was a miracle I survived. And it has taken me days to even find the strength to talk about it out loud. Physically, I’m recovering. But emotionally... that’s where the real healing begins. We don’t always get a second chance. But if we do—we owe it to ourselves to be grateful and treasure it. This is my new beginning.

Thank you that you are still here and thank you for waiting for me.

One thing that I can share with you is the significance of how we can make use of our time. So here are my three simple tips for you.

One, for those who are distracting you from achieving your goals, in anyway, spend limited time with them. Second, for those discouraging you to reach your full potential, do not spend time with them. Third, for those who are pushing you and encouraging you, to become the best version of yourself, spend more time with them. Embrace them and celebrate their presence in your life.

Growth is never easy, but it’s always worth it. Challenges push us to be stronger, lessons teach us what we need to grow, and moments of gratitude remind us how far we’ve come. Every struggle shapes us, every experience guides us, and every small win is a reason to be thankful. Embrace the journey, trust the process, and keep moving forward—you’re becoming the best version of yourself.

Spending time with the children I’ve been mentoring is a powerful reminder that true impact isn’t about words—it’s about the actions we take and the lives we touch. It’s more than just a responsibility; it’s a commitment to their dreams, their potential, and their future.

Every conversation, every piece of guidance, and every opportunity given is a step toward helping them believe in themselves and see a world beyond their current circumstances. These moments remind me why I do what I do: to empower the next generation to rise above challenges, dream boldly, and know they are capable of greatness.

Mindset is your superpower. As I sit here in my home in the province, listening to the rain and waiting for it to pass, I’m reminded how much success is like the weather. We can’t control the storms that come our way, but we can control how we prepare and respond. Success starts with the right mindset—believing in your vision, even on the cloudy days—and staying focused on what truly matters.

Life will knock you down—it’s inevitable. But here’s the real question: will you let it define you, or will you rise from it stronger? We’ve all faced hardships, and I’ve had my fair share. But I’ve learned that it’s not the setback that matters—it’s what you do after.