Antonio Borrello

Have you ever fallen in love with a man, but he thinks of you only as a ‘friend’? Maybe you spend a lot of time together and always have a great time, but whenever you flirt with him or bring up wanting something more he says, “I only want to be friends.” Are you trapped in the friend zone?
In this video, I’m going to explain a powerful step by step approach to get him more attracted to you and get you out of the friend zone and into the relationship Zone.

OK.. let’s jump right into the friend zone scenarios.
See if you fit one of these?

* • The first one is A newer friendship where you have developed strong feelings for a man and you believe those feelings are not being reciprocated?
* • Or a friend who you’ve know a couple years, but whenever things get heated he says, “I only want to be friends” or “I don’t want anything serious, I don’t like labels.”
* • Lastly, a very common one, the longtime friend who you can tell all your secrets to, but anytime you bring up something more romantic, they change subjects?

Well, here are the five steps that will help you shake off these friendzone traps.

I’m Dr Antonio Borrello, and I’m a psychologist and relationship coach. This channel is all about helping you build great relationships so you can grow happy with the people you love. So, if you’re interested in dating advice and relationship advice that is focused on making your love life the best part of your life, start now by subscribing here.

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Hi everyone, I'm Dr antonio Borrello. Welcome to my channel.
In this video, we discuss Rule #16 which is concerned with getting mixed messages from the person you're dating.

Do not nurture relationships with people who are sending you mixed messages.

IF A PERSON WANTS YOU, THEY WILL MAKE IT KNOWN BEYOND ANY SHADOW OF DOUBT.

In all relationships, we communicate simultaneously on at least two levels; what we say, and what we do.
Usually, a person’s verbal and actual behaviors convey the same message. In other words, if I'm telling you I think you're funny, I'm probably also laughing at your jokes and laughing when I'm with you.

But Mixed messages are inconsistencies in communication, where a person may say one thing, but act in a completely different way.

Here's a common one... a person tells you they really like you and like spending time with you, yet they never call or make plans with you.

Getting mixed messages from a person you really like makes them difficult to understand, and harder to trust.

I've found that when people with different relationship goals / expectations begin to date, One person often feels like they are getting "mixed messages". That's usually the one who invests in the relationship in hopes of a formal commitment, while the other begins more casually and refuses to make a formal commitment.

I can't tell you how many times I've worked with people who struggle with this. They begin dating a person who does not want a commitment yet they are acting like they are a couple and reap all the benefits of a relationship. The partner who wants the commitment refuses to accept what they are being told in favor of what they want to believe.

Don’t get caught up in this arrangement, especially if a long term relationship is what you want.

Doing so ultimately results in feelings of resentment and frustration and fosters a relationship void of honesty, emotional intimacy, and trust. Make sure the person you’re dating shares your plans for the future and communicates a consistent message with both their words and their actions.

People don’t send mixed messages. We only use that to excuse their disappointing behavior. Remember what it feels like to have zero doubts about what your partner wants from You.

When a person wants to be with someone, they make it crystal clear. They leave no room for error or doubt. But When you’re getting mixed messages, that’s a message in itself.....

Lose the person who is afraid of a commitment and replace them with the person who's afraid of losing you.

What do you all think? Do you agree with this rule? Disagree? Leave a comment and share your thoughts too. I'd love to hear them.

Welcome to my channel. I'm Dr. Antonio Borrello, a psychologist and dating and relationship expert and author of Dating 3.0: Finding Love in the Age of Social Media and the Smart Phone.

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In this video, you’re going to learn the 7 things you should never reveal to the man you're dating, no matter how deep your connection. I’m psychologist and relationship coach Dr. Antonio Borrello and I know that many of you will disagree with me about this controversial topic, but, I promise you this…. if you make the mistake of sharing these 7 things with your man, you'll be putting your relationship in jeopardy because you’re going to be judged unfairly and you’re setting yourself up for relationship problems in the future. And it all starts with the first one…

I’m Dr Antonio Borrello, and I’m a psychologist and relationship coach. This channel is all about helping you build great relationships so you can grow happy with the people you love. So, if you’re interested in dating advice and relationship advice that is focused on making your love life the best part of your life, start now by subscribing here.

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In this video, I outline five of the earliest signs that you're dating a narcissist.
1. Idealization - Placing People on Pedestals
2. Smear Campaigns Against Prior Lovers
3. Narcissistic Control through Imposed Isolation
4. Emotion Dodging \ Emotionally Unavailable
5. Emotional Projection

The signs and symptoms of narcissistic personality disorder are outlined in the article here:

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/are-you-dating-a-narcissist-5-warning-signs-you_us_58001440e4b06f314afeb131

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In this video, you’re going to learn the difference between when you’re overthinking a situation and when you should trust your intuition. So, if find yourself constantly questioning whether you're seeing red flags in your relationship or if you’re just overanalyzing things, then this is the video for you. stay tuned because you’re going to learn how to confidently trust your gut instincts without ever having to second guess yourself again.

Starting a new relationship with someone you're really into is like stepping into a fairy tale. Your heart races, you feel giddy and elated, and every moment feels like it's straight out of a movie. But of course, with all of that intensity, you’re bound to come across situations that make you feel anxious and concerned. For example, Maybe he doesn’t respond to a text message for a long time, or perhaps he seems a little distant during a date, or he has to cancel plans with you. In these situations, Experiencing some anxiety or overthinking is understandable and even expected because you’re still getting to know him and trust takes time to develop.

But there are other times when your intuition is trying to tell you that something is not right.
It's that gut feeling that something is off, or there are red flags in the relationship that you SHOULD pay attention to. I mean You have intuition for a reason, right? It’s there to protect you and save you from potential heartache and emotional turmoil, so it’s important for you to be able to trust your intuition.

The problem is, when you are prone to overthinking and relationship anxiety, you can get stuck in a state of uncertainty and ambiguity about what’s really going on.
That leaves you questioning your own thoughts and feelings, wondering if you are overthinking things or if there is cause for concern. But if you follow the steps I’m about to share, you are going to be able to recognize when you are overthinking, AND you’ll also know when you need to trust your intuition because YOU’RE ACTUALLY SEEING RED FLAGS.

I’m Dr Antonio Borrello, and I’m a psychologist and relationship coach. This channel is all about helping you build great relationships so you can grow happy with the people you love. So, if you’re interested in dating advice and relationship advice that is focused on making your love life the best part of your life, start now by subscribing here.

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If you've been in a committed relationship, whether it was for months or for years, you know that breaking up is hard to do. For some, the official ending of the relationship is something they expected for quite a long time, and when it happens, they experience a sense of freedom and relief. Others are blindsided by the relationships end and experience more difficulty trying to cope. And when we have a broken heart, friends and family are quick to offer support and advice on how to heal. Caution: there are no immediate fixes for a broken heart!

While dating again can be exciting and offer some temporary distraction from your grief, beginning too soon may set yourself up for more disappointment. That's why it's critical to know when it's too early to think about someone new.

Here are six signs you should put the brakes on dating.
1) When you're still Communicating, Negotiating and Denying.
2) When you're Ruminating About Your Ex?
3) When you still feel Anger and Guilt
4) When you're Hunting and Haunting
5) When you're dating out of Desperation
6) When your Making Comparisons

The lesson here is a simple one: Dating again before healing from your last relationship isn't a cure for your broken heart. Remember, a breakup is a transitional period and should be a time for self-reflection and healing, not beginning a new relationship.

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In this video, you will learn 5 steps to becoming a priority in your guy’s life. So, if you’re dating a guy who makes you feel more like an option than a priority, then this is the video for you. 

Have you heard the saying.. don’t make someone your priority when you are simply their option?  It’s a powerful quote that hits differently because it is so relatable, yet it is profound.  That’s because when you’re a guys second option, rather than his priority, you're fooled into thinking you matter, except it's really not true.

Instead, You're just getting bits and pieces of his attention when it’s convenient for him, and just enough of his time and effort to keep you hanging on believing that things will change and he will make you a priority in his life.  And as you know, being in this state of limbo and being his option is a very frustrating and disappointing position to be in.   The good news.. you’re going to learn the 5 steps to turn things around and he will quickly recognize and prioritize you and your relationship.
oh and then I’m going to share the most important point of this whole video… so make sure you stick around and get the last and most important point.

I’m Dr Antonio Borrello, and I’m a psychologist and relationship coach. This channel is all about helping you build great relationships so you can grow happy with the people you love. So, if you’re interested in dating advice and relationship advice that is focused on making your love life the best part of your life, start now by subscribing here.

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In addition to the usual challenges that dating presents, divorced parents face three important questions:

1. Are you ready to begin dating?
2. Are your children ready for you to begin dating?
3. Are you ready to introduce your children to a new partner?

In this video, I address these questions and offers tips to help you (and your children) transition through a difficult time.

I expect some people will find it difficult to agree with my suggestions. After all, “Take things slowly with Mr. or Miss. Wonderful” is not advice that is easy to hear. So check out the video and let me know what you think. Do you agree with my timeline regarding getting into a new relationship? Leave a comment and let's start a discussion. =)

Are you still Hung Up on Your Ex? Check out this video to find out
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uvQhSh36Bc4

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In this video, you will learn how to make a guy think about you constantly –
5 psychologically based tips that use the power of dopamine to keep him thinking about you all the time .  
 
The powerful tips I'm sharing here work by activating dopamine in his brain at just the right times to keep him thinking about you and craving you constantly. I’m going to go into some detail here and explain what to do step by step so be sure you get all of the tips because they work best when they are used together. And that starts with the first tip.

I’m Dr Antonio Borrello, and I’m a psychologist and relationship coach. This channel is all about helping you build great relationships so you can grow happy with the people you love. So, if you’re interested in dating advice and relationship advice that is focused on making your love life the best part of your life, start now by subscribing here.

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When did dating become So difficult? So frustrating? Perhaps you’re experiencing a touch of dating burn out. In this video, I address dating burn out and share some strategies for turning things around.
So what is dating burn out and when does it happen? Online dating is responsible for this newer phenomenon known as dating burn out. Let me explain why.. When we are meeting people “virtually” through dating apps or online, it’s easy to get carried away with what you imagine a person is like. You look at these attractive photos and read about their history… And if you like what you’re reading and seeing, you begin to imagine what that person is like in real life based on very limited, very staged, and very prepared information. In fact, there are professionals out there that will help you to write a winning profile, pick out your wardrobe, and have your profile photos professionally shot
See, before we have complete information about a person, our brain fills in the gaps (good and bad) to complete the story. Using the little information we gather from amazing profile photos and witty text messages, we create an image of our potential date that could be far from reality. Then, we meet them in person and find that they are not at all what you thought. When this happens, we can definitely feel disappointed and let down. And when you experience a string of disappointing dates, feeling jaded and dating burn out might be right around the corner.

Here are some of the common signs of dating burn out.
1. When you start to feel like you’re NEVER going to meet anyone wonderful
2. When you dismiss or disqualify people immediately.
3. When you are constantly making excuses to cancel dates.
4. When it starts to feel like work.
5. When disappointing dates make you question if you’re good enough. Look, dating in today’s world is difficult.

I'm Dr. Antonio Borrello, a psychologist and dating and relationship expert and author of Dating 3.0: Finding Love in the Age of Social Media and the Smart Phone.

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