Hello, and welcome back to Live with Dr. Jodi! In today's episode, we're diving into the powerful topic of allowing yourself to feel your emotions without judgment. So often, we're afraid to feel negative emotions like sadness or anxiety because they feel chaotic, but what if I told you that embracing those emotions could lead to peace? Stay with me as we explore how to navigate through emotional turmoil, practice self-compassion, and ultimately find emotional resilience. Whether you're joining me solo or with a loved one like my daughter, this episode is here to guide you.
Episode Summary:
In this episode, Dr. Jodi Aman explains why allowing yourself to feel your emotions without judgment is essential for emotional healing. Drawing on personal stories and psychological insights, Dr. Jodi delves into why we avoid feelings like sadness, anxiety, and grief and how this avoidance can worsen the emotional chaos. She shares a relatable story about her mother’s grief and how our culture tends to criticize emotional responses. The discussion is rich with practical advice, including a powerful exercise called “Two Minutes to Peace,” designed to help listeners sit with their emotions without attaching to the stories we tell ourselves. Dr. Jodi is later joined by her daughter Lily, who shares her own experiences with emotional healing, providing a comforting, real-life example of how difficult but rewarding it can be to practice self-compassion.
Key Takeaways from Episodes: Rest resets the dopamine cycle.
- Avoiding feelings can lead to more emotional chaos. It's essential to allow yourself to feel.
- Self-compassion is the antidote to negative self-judgment. Validate your emotions as part of being human.
- The “Two Minutes to Peace” exercise helps you connect with your feelings without getting trapped in stories or judgments.
- Visualizing and breathing through your feelings can offer relief, even in just 10 breaths.
- Healing doesn't happen in isolation—compassion from others and yourself plays a vital role.
Resources mentioned in this show:
- Watch the video of this episode at the blog: https://jodiaman.com/blog/breaking-bad-habits/
- Self-compassion is the Key to Self-Acceptance
- Embrace Compassion and Love for Yourself! Podcast Ep. 4:7
- Practice Self-Compassion for Instant Emotional Relief
- How to DO Self-Compassion
- Dr. Jodi Aman’s YouTube Channel: @DoctorJodi
- Generation Z Mental Health Resource Guide: jodiaman.com/guide
- Redirect Positive Mindset Cards jodiaman.com/order-redirect-flash-cards
- EnCompass SEL Class Activity jodiaman.com/order-encompass-game
- Anxiety, I'm So Done with You! Book
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Jodi Aman is a social work doctor with 28 years of experience in clinical practice. She helps clients heal from trauma, understand the world, and reclaim self-confidence. She created C.O.M.P.A.S.S., an emotional wellness curriculum for middle and high school health classes designed to mitigate symptoms of anxiety and depression.
You can find her live-streamed talk show on her YouTube channel @doctorjodi, where she discusses topics unique to Generation Z. Also, watch her TEDx Wilmington talk, "Calm Anxious Kids," and read her award-winning book, Anxiety… I'm So Done with You! to learn how to understand and reverse the current mental health crisis. More about Jodi
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