giving (un)bothered

anxious vs avoidant attachment: how to become secure


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Let’s talk about it: why do anxious girlies keep falling for avoidant people?

In this episode, we get personal about our own experiences dating avoidant partners while navigating anxious attachment. From spiraling over mixed signals to learning how to show up more securely, we’re unpacking what it really feels like to be in these dynamics — and how we’re slowly breaking the pattern.

If you’ve ever felt clingy, overthought a text for hours, or kept giving chances to someone who couldn’t meet you emotionally — you’re not alone.

🎧 Topics we touch on:

  • anxious vs avoidant attachment
  • dating while anxiously attached
  • our personal journey toward becoming secure


Find us on: 

  • Instagram: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Tiktok: ⁠@giving.unbothered
  • Youtube: ⁠@givingunbothered⁠


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LGBTQ podcast, queer podcast, dating podcast, lesbian podcast, WLW podcast, queer dating advice, WLW relationship advice, signs a woman is interested in you romantically, why do i keep questioning my sexuality, WLW relationships, queer dating, sapphic relationships, sapphic intimacy, attachment styles, avoidant attachment, anxious attachment, secure attachment, dating avoidant, emotionally unavailable partner, how to become securely attached, attachment styles in relationships, emotionally unavailable, attachment style healing, why I chase people who don’t want me, why she’s distant in a relationship, why she pulls away

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