Artists on the Internet

The gals discuss girl dinner, the internet and everyone taking everything too seriously... it ain't that deep. But and also? Is it? 🧐

CW: eating disorders, food addiction

They discuss:

• Why Jacque cannot seem to clap at the same time as Phoebe
• Phoebe's plans for her 29th birthday
• What exactly is girl dinner? 
• Why did the Summer of the girl have us so on fire? 
• Women, domestic labor, and food

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Sources:

Girl Dinner NYT 

Girl Dinner Bon Appetit 

The Gilded Age

The Gilded Age Podcast

Jazz FM Toronto

Parenthood

Friday Night Lights

We Can Do Hard Things ep. with Roxanne Gay

An Interesting Read on Rom Coms (2020)

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Our artwork is by Simon Peng

DYEFL is produced by Jacqueline Wills and Phoebe Taylor

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ONE LAST STUDIO DAY AVAILABLE IN 2023

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In a twist of horrible irony this episode came out "late" (time is fake) because the girlies were...going out too much. We are now  back home safe on our couches. 💆🏻‍♀️

Jacque asks, Do You Ever Feel Like...leaving your house? Obviously, no.

The girlies chat:

• The news, internet, media literacy, and advocacy and activism 
• Women and running 🏃‍♀️
• Sucking it up and leaving the house 
• What maybe Kim K was talking about when she said "no one wants to work" 
• Intentional gathering and expectations, and understanding the labor behind socializing 
• Dance is a language we all speak

Amnesty International

Toolkit for Palestine 

Sources for Gaza Education & Media

Understanding and dismantling antisemitism

All these things that I've Done - The Killers

Nicholas Palmquist The Killers Choreo

Gillian Anderson 

Priya Parker 

Twyla Tharp's Keep it Moving 

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Our artwork is by Simon Peng

DYEFL is produced by Jacqueline Wills and Phoebe Taylor

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ONE LAST STUDIO DAY AVAILABLE IN 2023 

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~Editing Phoebe note~ The audio is a bit goofy for the first 10ish minutes  of the episode but gets better after the intro! Thanks for stickin with us 💕

The girlies discuss HOW to have a Gilmore Girl Autumn, embracing the basic in us all, the intersection of Christian Girl Autumn, dumb ass Pharrell felt hats, and slapping on some pumpkin spice and hittin the town for a fall activity! 

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Introducing our first guest back from Summer break, Alexis Rockley!

Alexis chats about her practice, the personal growth industrial complex, capitalism and self care, and how to stay true to yourself and your purpose inside of a world that makes that hard. 

We chat:

• practicing unmasking - who gets to show up authentically in a space?
• reimagining a new world for all 
• idea seeds - art and creativity for change 
• branding ourselves on the internet 

OTHER FUN TIDBITS: SOCIAL MEDIA IS THE WORST!  BUTTERFLIES! SCIENCE! BEING CRINGE-Y!

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Alexis Rockley (she/her) is a queer and neurodivergent writer, evidence-based edutainer, and neuro-affirming life/work coach obsessed with translating the science of self-compassion & anti-grind productivity into practical resources for people who grew up on the Internet.

She's the author of Find Your FuckYeah: Stop Censoring Who You are and Discover What You Really Want (via Chronicle Books) and host of the voicemail-style podcast, Call Me When You Get This. Her work has been featured by Upworthy, SoulPancake, ATTN:, The Washington Post, and more.

Forever curious, she earned her Specialization Certificate in Positive Psychology from the University of Pennsylvania in 2019, and her Integrative Somatic Trauma Therapy certification from The Embody Lab in early 2023. When she's not nerding out on liberation psychology, sociology, and somatics, she can be found rescuing plants from Ikea and throwing one-woman dance parties in her kitchen.

alexisrockley.com

Alexis' Substack

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WE'RE BACK!  Is it still Season 2?! Is it Season 3!? Who knows? Who cares! 

Jacqueline asks "Do you ever feel like...you're a bridezilla?" Phoebe and Jacque explore the wedding patriarchy trap, and question if women ever really have a choice? Jacqueline shares her messy, vulnerable, "shouldn't"- say-out-loud feelings about having a wedding party and wearing a white dress. 

OTHER FUN TIDBITS: SUMMER! CUSTOM AGENTS! BARBIE! 

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Bride Movies

The Art of Gathering by Priya Parker 

Priya Parker 

Bridezilla

Donut Walls

Wedding Industry Stats

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This week Phoebe asks...do you ever feel like...it's really okay to talk about the climate?

The girlies chat all about the one thing people don't want to talk about...the climate. 

They examine:

• Why does talking about the climate ends in... crickets?
• Their own implicit bias around "environmentalists" 
• Intersectional Environmentalism 
• What talking about the climate does to our nervous systems and how to feel our feelings
• The true actual responsibilities of being on earth and in community 
• What we actually can do to help 

OTHER FUN TIDBITS: GOING ON SUMMER BREAK! BEING A BOSS! SATC IS PARTS WORK!

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CREATIVE PRODUCTION

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Project Drawdown's Table of Solutions

Brushwood Center's Health, Equity, and Nature Report

Climate Anxiety and Whiteness

Bréne Brown on Shame 

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*A CORRECTION* Janelle Monáe uses they/them pronouns.

This week Jacque asks...do you ever feel like...going on a trip? The girlies plan trips and travels and running around the world! 

They discuss:

• the difference between a trip vs. a vacation
• where they wanna go
• the rituals of travel in a social media world
• and while also/always holding two things at the same time - they ask: who gets to travel? And where? 

Phoebe chats the importance of our contribution and mindfulness when traveling, and Jacque shares about the history of tourism.

OTHER FUN TIDBITS: Ticks! Geo political drama! Neo-colonialism!

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Janelle Monáe 

Couples Therapy

Jury Duty 

Sonya Renee Taylor

Survivor

The Rehearsal

History of Tourism

History of Leisure/Vacation Travel

Travel and the Environment

Sustainable Travel 

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A secret third thing this week! Jacque and Phoebe ask... do you ever feel like making business feel like art? We think a new world is possible, and we will guide you through in this little mini workshop pod!  OTHER FUN TIDBITS: A PLAY! 

WORKSHOP: What if Business Felt Like Art?

Using your creativity and genius, let’s reimagine your business as art, and your art as business. We zero in on what you want, where you wanna go, and how you wanna feel doing it. 

Wanna learn more! Find us at doyouevermedia.com 

🎨 What if your website was an abstract artwork?

💃🏻What if your next launch was just as dazzling and memorable as the dinner show at the Moulin Rouge? What if your team knew the choreography just was as well as you do?

🧵What if you were delegating with the same ease as pulling the seams of a dress together?

🎤What if your email and website copy sounded like slam poetry?

🖼️What if business felt a lot more like art?

We are exploring...

- an understanding of your unique creative process

- how to apply that creative process to your business

- a plan to keep the romance alive with your creativity

This workshop is for you if:

✨between your art or money 

🌸between 5am smoothies or 11pm cocktails at the newest gallery opening

🍊between your creative vision and your productivity

🍄between your values and your bank account 

👾between your doodles and your sales calendar

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This week the girlies ponder… do you ever feel like being a teenager again?

Phoebe brings the nostalgia in a deep dive exploration of what it means to be a teenager, how we should leave teenagers alone (and also protect them fiercely) and how we can all embrace our inner teen spirit! 

We chat

• The very special gift and journey of being a teen, and what we can learn from teenagers
• How we should just let teenagers do what they want
• Questioning why society doesn't seem to have compassion for teens
• How we are all just our teenager selves walking around trying to survive

OTHER FUN TID BITS: DIARY ENTRIES! INFLUENCERS! 

FREE WORKSHOP ON MAY 11TH! JOIN US for What if Business Felt More Like Art? 

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City of Likes by Jenny Mollen

Stanley Cups

Adele and James Cordon

Amber Ruffin Show

Rest Quiz by  Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith

Can I ask you a personal question? Substack

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CW: We chat body stuff, reproductive rights, and access to healthcare in this episode. Take care of yourself!

This week the girlies wonder… how do we not bleed all over our jeans each month? Is free bleeding the answer? Should we be ashamed and why do I feel so horrible on the 15th day of the month?

Periods have been treated as something to be ashamed of or hidden away – Consiously Cait aka Caitlin Molony is here to let us know that period pain is not normal and we can do something about it. She breaks down the menstrual cycle in easy to digest pieces so that menstrautors can finally break from feeling like their body is a mystery!

We chat

• Exploring the benefits of cycle tracking and syncing
• Why your period app isn’t so perfect and how to start tracking your cycle effectively
• Harnessing the power of your menstrual cycle for optimal productivity and creativity
• The reasons behind the lack of menstrual education in schools and the current political fight to maintain agency in our choice!

LEARN MORE ABOUT CAIT

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PLAN C

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