i looked my brother up a few years ago found his business was called something about a rhino pretty gross. when i was younger i remember i was talking to a couple of young men who were peers. i remember in conversation one time one of the men felt embarassed about something i said and he told me to stop speaking because what i was saying was embarassing myself. what i was saying was not embarrassing, because i was in mid sentence and hadnt really said anything yet, but the guy felt threatened as in maybe the third person may want to talk to me more or something or like me better not sure. so the second guy crushed me for no reason. i was in mid sentence when he shut me down. but i realized that when people feel threatened or unpopular, even as children, they are going to fight to be popular and probably most of the time that looks like abuse.