“Hear my prayer, O Lord, And give ear to my cry; Do not be silent at my tears; For I am a stranger with You, A sojourner, as all my fathers were.” - Psalm 39:12
Tears are often misunderstood. We hide them, resist them, or see them as weakness. Yet in spiritual life, tears can be among the deepest gifts God gives the human soul. There are tears that come from pain, loss, and disappointment. But there are also tears that rise from something deeper—a longing for God, a quiet awareness of our distance from Him, and a desire to return. These are the tears of contrition, and they carry within them healing.
The Fathers teach that tears are not merely emotional—they are spiritual. They reveal that the heart is alive, sensitive, and responsive to God’s presence. When the soul begins to soften, tears flow naturally, like water breaking through hardened ground. As Saint Isaac of Nineveh writes, “Tears are given to man as a second baptism.” Through them, the heart is cleansed, renewed, and restored.
Truly, tears wash the windows of the soul. They clear away the dust of pride, the heaviness of sin, and the numbness of indifference. They allow us to see God more clearly and to see ourselves more truthfully. In a world that encourages constant control, tears remind us to surrender.
Do not be afraid of them. If they come in prayer, receive them. If they come in repentance, cherish them. If they come in longing, follow where they lead. For tears offered to Christ are never wasted. They are seeds planted in the heart—and in time, they will blossom into joy, healing, and a deeper union with Him.