Asia Dating Podcast

This podcast was actually recorded quite a while ago but we made a shift to a new podcasting service so it's taken a long while to get out.

This one was recorded with Kane while I was in Shanghai so the audio quality isn't quite as good as usual so please bear with us. It was a top notch discussion and in it you'll learn:

• The difference between "game" and "a game" and why it's important to understand for life and relationships
• What a Swiss army knife and game have in common
• How game lets you "choose your own adventure"
• Why sex with new girls is good but sex with the same girl(s) is even better
• How learning pickup will help you make more money
• How Vonny Lang deals with jealousy in swapping and swinging
• The real way to measure relationships isn't by "love"
• and a whole lot more...

Mentioned in this session:

The Relationship Mastery Seminar

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Jordan Peterson on Hierarchies and Games

https://youtu.be/EN2lyN7rM4E?t=46m38s

(Watch until 58min 30sec)

The Game by Neill Strauss

Sunrise Over Angkor Wat

Vonny Lang's Swinging Lifestyle

http://redpoleq.com/podcast-24 Cognitive Behavioral Therapy

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cognitive_behavioral_therapy

In-Field Video Approach Review w/ Kane Vast

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This time we have a format that we haven't used in a long time–in this session, Kane Vast and I will discuss the book, Our Inner Ape, by Frans de Waal, one of the top researchers on primate behavior and evolutionary psychology in the world.

We'll be slowing it down from the last episode which was EXTRA wild and bring up the intellectual level of this podcast a few notches, lols. If you like these kind of episodes, we can definitely do them more often.

If you like it and want to see more of these, let us know in the form below!

In this session you'll learn:

• Why you should read up on evolutionary psychology–even if you're a creationist!
• Variable rewards: what they are and why you need to start doing this with your girls ASAP
• The allure and mystique of older men, explained!
• The life of alpha males
• Society vs Reality: see beyond what people want you to see
• Does size matter?
• Big fish, small pond strategy
• and a whole lot more…

This time we have a format that we haven't used in a long time–in this session, Kane Vast and I will discuss the book, Our Inner Ape, by Frans de Waal, one of the top researchers on primate behavior and evolutionary psychology in the world.

We'll be slowing it down from the last episode which was EXTRA wild and bring up the intellectual level of this podcast a few notches, lols. If you like these kind of episodes, we can definitely do them more often.

If you like it and want to see more of these, let us know in the form below!

In this session you'll learn:

• Why you should read up on evolutionary psychology–even if you're a creationist!
• Variable rewards: what they are and why you need to start doing this with your girls ASAP
• The allure and mystique of older men, explained!
• The life of alpha males
• Society vs Reality: see beyond what people want you to see
• Does size matter?
• Big fish, small pond strategy
• and a whole lot more…

http://adm-free.s3-ap-northeast-1.amazonaws.com/Podcast28_mixdown.mp3 Mentioned in this session: The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida

DCBKK

Our Annual Event, DCBKK, in 25 Photos

Frans de Waal TED Talk on Alpha Males

Phallic Sheath – Koteka

*as it turns out, the size/length of the sheath has nothing to do with status, oops!

The Myth of the Middle Class Alpha Male

PDF Download

Sperm Wars by Robin Baker

The Selfish Gene by Richard Dawkins

The Red Queen by Matt Ridley

Global Problems of Population Growth with Robert Wyman

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This time we have a two part episode. The first part was recorded with Kane Vast while I was still in Shanghai, and the second part is with McConnell back in Taipei.

This is definitely one of the more exciting Asia Hang Suite Sessions where we'll hear all about covert cat wars (ie girls vs girl action) and McConnell's very cougar introduction to the world of S&M as a sub PLUS we answer YOUR questions!

In this session you'll learn:

• The best spots for gaming girls in Asia
• That girls are going to be disappointed, so you might as well decide how to disappoint them for your own benefit
• Holiday musical chairs and how to manage multiple girls
• The dangers of honesty as the best policy
• Cat Wars!: When women go head to head
• Why you should replace your lidded trash cans
• How to control your nest so you don't get busted
• Asian Anal Adventures
• Frame games
• That sex is a dirty business so let's party!
• McConnell's young cub S&M adventures: origins
• and a whole lot more…

https://s3-ap-northeast-1.amazonaws.com/adm-free/Podcast27_mixdown.mp3 Mentioned in this session: Weekly Q&A Signup with Kane Vast

http://www.pickupasia.com/weekly-qa/

Approach Mastery Boot Camp

This 3-day long intensive course teaches you the important steps from meeting girls to getting dates while giving you the foundation for running first dates that lead to sex. Ready to kickstart your dating life NOW?

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Tokyo Pub Crawl

http://tokyopubcrawl.com/

Sex Is Dirty, Dirty! "Let's Party"

May – September Magic

https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/May-September_romance

"She said she did all the work!" – Clerks

Slightly Numb GIrls

Shibari Department H Tokyo Fetish Party Steve Osada – Teaches in English Hajime Kinoko – McConnell's teacher Spy the Lie

Singapore Chicken Rice

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I was in Shanghai for a boot camp alumni's wedding, and then I had the Art and Science of Sex Seminar and lucky for me that means I got a lot of time with our man in China, Kane Vast!

And even better, that means that YOU get to hear straight from the man as we answer your questions.

In this one, we talk about why you don't want the girls that come to you, and give you a few things you can do to get your ready to approach women, PLUS:

• How to get out of your negative mind looops
• How to use real live evidence to change your mindset–it's SCIENCE!
• You're boring, and how to fix it
• How do I get women to come to me?
• Are Asian girls shy? Maybe…maybe not
• Date more girls before you look for the one(s?)
• Be weak or get what you want–you decide
• Are Asian girls easy?
• and a whole lot more…

https://s3-ap-northeast-1.amazonaws.com/adm-free/Podcast26_mixdown.mp3 Mentioned in this session: PickUp Asia In-Field Video

Charisma on Command

Approach Mastery Boot Camp

This 3-day long intensive course teaches you the important steps from meeting girls to getting dates while giving you the foundation for running first dates that lead to sex. Ready to kickstart your dating life NOW?

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Recently, I attended a conference for location independent entrepreneurs in the hopes of meeting some cool people and getting some knowledge to help me improve PickUp Asia.

And lucky for YOU (and me) a guy named Daniel Peleg gave an amazing talk about how to manage your psychology and emotions for success in business. Listening to the talk, I thought that you guys could definitely use these tools!

Dating is tough and women know exactly how to destroy your mind. In this session, you'll learn how to build the mental armor you need to protect youself against the slings, arrows and heavy artillery that will come your way when you try to do better with women.

In this one, we talk about tools you can use to control your thoughts and emotions including:

• Why you should get a coach
• How you can control your thoughts and emotions
• Why you should start meditating, TODAY!
• The focus principle and how it makes or breaks you
• How to destroy the inner critic that's crippling your success
• How to keep a close eye on your emotions so you can feel good more often
• Three tools you can use for mental and emotional health
• and a whole lot more…

http://adm-free.s3.amazonaws.com/podcast25.mp3 Mentioned in this session: Power Poses

https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2016/03/30/472250698/to-catch-someone-on-tinder-stretch-your-arms-wide

Emotional Awareness Apps

Android: Blip, blip

IPhone

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Recently, McConnell has gotten into photography and found a Taiwanese-American model living in Singapore who flew to Taipei to do a shoot with him.

The shoot turned into a lot more than a few pictures after she revealed that she's a swinger and organizes swinger's parties. This interview is the result. So dig in, and let us know what you think and if you have any questions for her, we'd be glad to have her on again to answer them for you.

In this one, we talk about what swinging is, how she got into it, how you can get into it and more including:

• The pros and cons of swapping vs threesomes
• What it means to be vanilla in bed
• Best apps to meet swingers and the singles who love them
• The differences between swinger parties in Asia vs America
• How to get selected as single guy for a swinger's party
• How to get into the swingers lifestyle
• The degrees of female orgasms
• Roommates "with benefits"
• If honesty is the best policy?
• What a serious relationship is when you're sleeping with other people?
• and a whole lot more…

http://adm-free.s3.amazonaws.com/podcast24.mp3

Mentioned in this session: All Asia Summit May 4th-6th, 2018 – SEOUL

Feeld

https://www.feeld.co/

Swinger's Date Club

http://www.sdc.com

Adult Friend Finder

Craigslist

Vonny Lang on Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/vonnylang/

Japan Lair

Korea Lair

China Lair

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I was in Tokyo with McConnell for the first meetup of the NEW Japan Lair, which he is leading and Kane Vast, our main man in China, who came to join us for the Tokyo Approach Mastery boot camp (Congrats to the new guys!)

Despite our busy schedule and a late night emergency room visit, we found time to sit down together to record a session.

In this one, we talk about how important it is to find the right people to support and help you make the changes in your life to reach your goals, including:

• You're the average of the 5 people most around
• Outgrow the box your "friends" keep you in
• Why you have to yank out the emotional triggers they use to control you
• Upgrade your life with new mental models
• Why you'll feel uncomfortable at first with the right people
• How to weigh the knowledge and experience other people have to offer
• You can't make the right people, you have to find them
• Find people who will support new habits–and stay away from those who support your worst tendencies
• How the right community can keep you moving toward your goals
• Why you need to always raise your hand
• and a whole lot more…

http://adm-free.s3.amazonaws.com/podcast23.mp3 Mentioned in this session: All Asia Summit May 4th-6th, 2018 – SEOUL

Jim Rohn

Tony Robbins – Unlimited Power

Japan Lair

Korea Lair

China Lair

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I sat down with McConnell, our resident fashion consultant and web maestro and we ANSWERED YOUR QUESTIONS!

Including:

• How western girls can get in on the Asian action
• Are Vietnamese girls where it's at?
• Pass around packs–are we into sharing girls?
• How hard is it to pickup Korean girls?
• How to do cosplay, role-plays, and anal-ize girls
• What to do if you get caught with another girl?
• How to win over your girl's friends
• and a whole lot more…

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Pimp Bradlee – "C'mon and fuck with me!"

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McConnell's Male Fashion Guide Get the latest info on the upcoming All Asia Summit

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I sat down with McConnell, our resident fashion consultant and web maestro and a very, VERY special guest!

I originally met her when McConnell went for a drink with a skinny flat chested Brazilian girl (exactly what he likes!) and she brought along her friend, Elli.

While at the bar, she told me that she had been dating "her guy" for 12 years and she was hoping he would find another girl so they could have a 3-way relationship!

My interest was piqued so I asked her more and ultimately invited her on the podcast so I could share all the details with YOU!

In this rather longer discussion than usual we'll discuss:

• What marriage really means
• What's the use of relationship labels?
• Negotiating relationship rules
• What about jealousy?
• Doing the hard work of long term relationships
• If open relationships are better relationships?
• How they bring someone new into the relationship
• How good communication is the key to expanding boundaries
• and a whole lot more…

http://adm-free.s3.amazonaws.com/podcast21.mp3 For Reference: Sex at Dawn

Aubrey Marcus gets real about his open relationship

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