Asia Dating Podcast

I sat down with the McConnell, our resident fashion consultant and web maestro; and a VERY special guest: Julien Lacome aka GoldenBoy from MySiliconeLoveDoll.com at our crib. This time things got a little crazy in our house as we talked about some of our wilder sexual adventures in Asia including:

• Hong Kong's 25 floors of whores
• Why you should get in touch with the local pickup community when you land in a new country
• Japan's sex clubs
• Taipei's Commander D sex party
• McConnell find BDSM on the bus
• Julien Lacome schools us on the blow job technique you must teach all your girls
• The All Japan Pussy Licking Tournament
• Julien's anal only adventures
• McConnell gets all tied up
• Dealing with language barriers
• and a whole lot more…

https://s3-ap-northeast-1.amazonaws.com/adm-free/podcast10-2_4.mp3

Mentioned in This Episode: Key and Peel – Mattress Shopping

"Who got that good D?!"

The All Japan Pussy Licking Contest

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FetLife – Social Network for the BDSM and fetish community

https://fetlife.com/

Tenga – New Adult Concept

https://www.tenga-global.com/

Guy Shop – Taipei's best and biggest sex shop

http://www.pcstore.com.tw/guyshop/

Shibari and Kinbaku – Japanese Bondage

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Japanese_bondage

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I sat down with the USUAL SUSPECTS, McConnell, our resident fashion consultant and web maestro; and Golden Fox, at our crib. This time we talked about all sorts of cool stuff including:

• Golden Fox on how he ended up drunk in Daegu, S. Korea—for a FULL YEAR!
• McConnell's Asia love affair!
• How to make friends and build a social circle when you first move to Asia
• RedpoleQ's first journey to Japan
• McConnell dials for love at 15 years old
• RedpoleQ on how desperation pushed him past discomfort
• Why you don't need to have sex with lots of different women
• Is all fair in love and war?
• and a whole lot more…

https://s3-ap-northeast-1.amazonaws.com/adm-free/podcast9.mp3

Mentioned in This Episode: Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill

The classic, MUST READ" personal development classic. The digital download is so cheap, it's like they're paying YOU to read it!

Jim Rohn

My favorite "success philosopher" and the only celebrity I regret never meeting…

The Approach Mastery Boot Camp

Your road to an awesome life and hot ASIAN women!

The Great Happiness Space

The definitive documentary about the Japanese hosting business and what it's like to be a real life gigolo in Asia

(Right Click and "save as" to download)

R.O.B. The Robot – NES Deluxe Set (Released in 1985!)

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I sat down with the USUAL SUSPECTS, McConnell, our resident fashion consultant and web maestro; and Golden Fox, at our crib. This time we talked about all sorts of cool stuff including:

• More on 3-somes
• How getting graphic will help you improve your success with women
• "I'm a hefty guy, can I be successful with Asian women?"
• Are you suffering the dreaded one-itis?
• Girls aren't responsive? Learn to plow!
• Why she has more value than you do when you meet her…and how to flip that
• The right way to use indicators of interest
• and a whole lot more…

https://s3-ap-northeast-1.amazonaws.com/adm-free/podcast8.mp3

Mentioned in This Episode: One-itis

1. the fixation by a guy (usually) on one girl who he imbues with positive qualities (that she may not possess), or whose positive qualities are imbued with such value, that all negative qualities are overlooked and/or rationalized away to the point that she seems to be totally irreplaceable as a potential partner for sex, dating, a relationship, marriage, or all of the above.
2. a woman who a guy has one-itis for
3. (adjective) the state of having one-itis

Read my full article at http://asiadatingexperts.com/get-blown-or-blown-out/

The Passion Trap

The Game by Neil Strauss

Heavy Rotation by AKB-48

Just how big is AKB-48?

Chinese Marriage Proposal Fails 99 iPhone Proposal Fail

Man spends US$82,000 on iPhones in a grand gesture

Sports Car Proposal Fail

Man commands fleet of 20 luxury cars for grand marriage proposal but embarrassed girl still says NO

Samson

From Wikipedia:

According to the biblical account, Samson was given supernatural strength by God in order to combat his enemies and perform heroic feats such as killing a lion, slaying an entire army with only the jawbone of an ass, and destroying a pagan temple. Samson had two vulnerabilities, his attraction to untrustworthy women and his hair, without which he was powerless. These vulnerabilities ultimately proved fatal for him.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Samson

Delilah

From Wikipedia:

Delilah is a woman in the Hebrew bible Book of Judges, where she is the "woman in the valley of Sorek" whom Samson loved, and who was his downfall. Her figure, one of several dangerous temptresses in the Hebrew Bible, has become emblematic: "Samson loved Delilah, she betrayed him, and, what is worse, she did it for money," Madlyn Kahr begins her study of the Delilah motif in European painting.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Delilah

Renegade Master

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I sat down with the USUAL SUSPECTS, McConnell, our resident fashion consultant and web maestro; and Golden Fox, at our crib. PLUS, we also had a special guest, Kane Vast who brought in to talk about the 3-some game–yup, 2 girls one…

Hit play and you'll get to hear about:

• Whacky adventures in Asia: Qataris and the ship of the desert, Hong Kong, and Japan
• Setting goals so you can get back into meeting women (or get started!)
• Baby stepping your way to success–so you don't get discouraged and throw in the towel
• How to harness jealousy and fear to reach your goals
• Winning through entitlement–feel you're owed, and put in the work to make it happen
• Why god must love ugly
• 3-some primer (2 girls, one guy!)
• the 3 types 2 girl 3-somes
• how to make your girl a partner in crime
• how to find the right girl to share
• an easy setup to get her in the bed and the clothes off
• what to look out for that might trip you up
• and a whole lot more…

http://adm-free.s3.amazonaws.com/podcast7_1.mp3

Mentioned in This Episode: The You Are Not So Smart Podcast

Overcoming Our Irrational and Sometimes Crippling Fear of Rejection with Jia Jiang

Intimate Photos Capture the Relationship Between a Middle-Aged Man and His Real Doll (NSFW)

This article gives a glimpse into one man's relationship with his silicon sex doll. When I read it last year, it really gave me a clear picture of what I don't want my life to become and why I spend so much time working on building my relationship skills.

Unlimited Power and Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP)

Developed by Richard Bandler and John Grinder, it was popularized by Anthony Robbins, NLP has many useful and easily applicable techniques, concepts, mindsets and ideas.

The Art of War by Sun Tzu

Mastery by Robert Greene

Another must-read classic from Robert Greene about what it takes to succeed

Flow by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi

Have a question that you want us to answer in a future episode? Scroll down to the bottom of this page, type it in and we'll get to it in a future chill session.

—————————————————————– And if you want to really learn more about dating, sex and relationships so that you can finally date the Asian girls YOU WANT, join the Entourage Remote Mentor Program where I teach you everything I've learned over the past 15 years about how to meet Asian girls anywhere, get them on dates, and wanting more from you! —————————————————————–

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Last time, in part 1 of our discussion of Sex At Dawn, we did something a little bit different. As part of learning and improving, we do a lot of reading and I recommend a lot of reading to clients as well.

Doing well in social interactions and with women is all about psychology and there's so much to learn. Recently, I convinced McConnell to read Sex at Dawn which is a book that I found so interesting because they really interpret a lot of things very differently from the conventional view.

It suggests that monogamy is actually not the norm for our hunter gatherer ancestors and points to all sorts of anthropological and biological evidence to support the view that we are indeed a sexually wild species!

Here's what we talk about in part 2 of this discussion:

• What Bonobos and WWII Fighter pilots have in common
• Women have periods and that means more sex for everyone!
• You don't have to be jealous–there's plenty of love to go around!
• Women don't know what turns them on, and you can use that to get what you want
• Sexuality hacking–learn more mindsets and cherry pick for the sex life you've always wanted
• and a whole lot more…

https://s3-ap-northeast-1.amazonaws.com/adm-free/sex_at_dawn_pt2.mp3

Mentioned in This Episode: Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What It Means for Modern Relationships

Read my review of Sex at Dawn on Asia Dating Experts for more details.

The Origins of Virtue: Human Instincts and the Evolution of Cooperation

What Do Women Want?: Adventures in the Science of Female Desire

Is There Anything Good about Men?: How Cultures Flourish by Exploiting Men

Read my Review of Is There Anything Good about Men? on Asia Dating Experts.

Have a question that you want us to answer in a future episode? Scroll down to the bottom of this page, type it in and we'll get to it in a future chill session. And now I'll kick you over to the video I mentioned in the recording…

Evolution of Sex and Reproductive Strategies

This is a series of really eye opening and enlightening lectures about what human biology says about our mating habits, and how culture intersects with and shapes our tendencies in different ways to explain a lot of our common behaviors.

—————————————————————– And if you want to really learn more about dating, sex and relationships so that you can finally date the Asian girls YOU WANT, join the Entourage Remote Mentor Program where I teach you everything I've learned over the past 15 years about how to meet Asian girls anywhere, get them on dates, and wanting more from you! —————————————————————–

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This time, we're doing something a little bit different. As part of learning and improving, I do a lot of reading and I recommend a lot of reading to my clients as well.

Doing well in social interactions and with women is all about psychology and there's so much to learn. Recently, I convinced McConnell to read Sex at Dawn which is a book that I found so interesting because they really interpret a lot of things very differently from the conventional view.

It suggests that monogamy is actually not the norm for our hunter gatherer ancestors and points to all sorts of anthropological and biological evidence to support the view that we are indeed a sexually wild species!

Here's what we talk about in part 1 of this discussion:

• How reading makes you a better thinker by giving you new ideas and frameworks to try on and apply
• Confirmation bias is destroying your mind and here's how to overcome it
• What evolutionary psychology says about your sex and love life
• The actual love lives our hunter-gatherer ancestors
• Why sexual dysfunction is a myth
• What your body says about your sex life
• and a whole lot more…

https://s3-ap-northeast-1.amazonaws.com/adm-free/sex_at_dawn_pt1-final.mp3

Mentioned in This Episode: The Mosuo

The Mosuo of China don't practice marriage or the "tradition" of the nuclear family–among the Mosuo, husbands and wives don't exist. Instead the practice what anthropologists call, a "walking marriage".

Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What It Means for Modern Relationships

Read my review of Sex at Dawn on Asia Dating Experts for more details.

The Red Queen: Sex and the Evolution of Human Behavior

The Female Brain

Sperm Wars: Infidelity, Sexual Conflict, and Other Bedroom Battles

Marriage, a History: How Love Conquered Marriage

No God, But God: The Origins, Evolution, and Future of Islam

Is There Anything Good about Men?: How Cultures Flourish by Exploiting Men

Read my Review of Is There Anything Good about Men? on Asia Dating Experts.

Have a question that you want us to answer in a future episode? Scroll down to the bottom of this page, type it in and we'll get to it in a future chill session. And now I'll kick you over to the video I mentioned in the recording…

Are We Designed to Be Sexual Omnivores?

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I sat down with the USUAL SUSPECTS, McConnell, our resident fashion consultant and web maestro; and Golden Fox, at our crib. This time we talked about all sorts of cool things including:

• How to handle her concern that you're going back to your own country
• Do you need to last a long time to sexually satisfy her?
• Find out some sexual differences between Asians and Westerners
• How to treat a woman after the sex is over so she comes back for seconds, thirds and beyond
• and a whole lot more…

https://s3-ap-northeast-1.amazonaws.com/adm-free/podcast4.mp3 —————————————————————– And if you want to really learn more about making sex an awesome experience for her so she keeps coming back for more, check out my Ultimate Sex Guide where you will learn how to give women unlimited orgasms and turn them into the porn star you want! —————————————————————–

Mentioned in This Episode: How to Think More About Sex

The Art of Seduction

Get this MUST READ classic by Robert Greene.

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I sat down with the USUAL SUSPECTS, McConnell, our resident fashion consultant and web maestro; and Golden Fox, at our crib. This time we talked about all sorts of cool things including:

• How to maintain relationships with Asian girls while traveling
• Does having sex quickly ruin your chances of having a real relationship?
• Why Asian girls flake and how to handle it
• How to deal with getting jealous
• The foundation for stable relationships
• and a whole lot more…

https://s3-ap-northeast-1.amazonaws.com/adm-free/podcast3.mp3 Mentioned in This Episode: Sex at Dawn

Read my review of Sex at Dawn on Asia Dating Experts for more details.

48 Laws of Power

Get this MUST READ classic by Robert Greene.

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This time, I sat down with McConnell, our resident fashion consultant and web maestro; Golden Fox; and Evan aka Socrates who worked with me to to found Asia Dating Experts, at our crib. This time we talked about all sorts of cool things including:

• Golden Fox talks about his text messaging disaster—don't make this mistake!
• Why you shouldn't go to Thailand
• Does race and ethnicity matter in dating Asia?
• How to get girls that are out of your league
• How to win at life
• How to stimulate the inner vagina
• and a whole lot more…

https://s3-ap-northeast-1.amazonaws.com/adm-free/podcast2.mp3 Internal Vaginal Stimulation Diagrams Arrow points at PFENotes the location of the AFE and the PFELarge penis NOT required!

(click on the images to open the full size in a new window)

NOTE: The three diagrams above illustrate the location of the AFE and PFE as discussed in the podcast. As also mentioned in the podcast it NOT TRUE that you need a huge penis to stimulate the AFE and the PFE. An average size penis will certainly do, and even a small penis in certain positions.

—————————————————————– And if you want to really learn these techniques and a whole lot more, you can check out my Ultimate Sex Guide where you will learn how to give women unlimited orgasms and have them begging for more. —————————————————————–

If you have a question that you want us to answer, scroll down to the bottom of this page, type it in and we'll get to it in a future episode. And now I'll kick you over to the video I mentioned in the recording…

Alexyss K. Tylor on Penis Power!

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