Pastor J.D. discusses God’s design for men according to Genesis 2 and 3.
A glimpse inside this episode:
It goes back to Genesis 2–3.
Woman brought into a situation where he already has a walk with God. He is supposed to explain the commands of God to her. He names the animals, even names her! He’s given the responsibility to lead the family. Not only spiritually:
She’s brought into a home where he is providing.He takes initiative in romance: Adam’s first words were a love poem.He takes responsibility to love and protect: “This is now bone of my bone, flesh of my flesh.”When you look at Genesis 3 you can see that humanity’s fall happened, in part, through a failure of the man to lead. He was “with” the woman when she ate. He was standing there, wondering if Genesis 2:17 was true.
How I know: Genesis 3:9 So the Lord God called out to the man and said to him, “Where are you?” “Where were you?” The first sin was not one of commission, but omission. Just sitting back.It’s no secret: Women are more faithful to volunteer in the church than men.More initiative with the kids.More initiative with the relationship.They show more initiative in mission. (IMB: 4 to 1) They show more initiative to grow: my publisher advised me that women are reading more and you can’t write just to men. Genesis 3:9 is still his question. Where are you, men? We’ve got a generation of males that never grow up to be men who take up their role as leaders.
Dr. Anthony Bradley, sociologist:
85% of youths in prison come from fatherless homes71% of high school dropouts come from fatherless homes90% of all homeless & runaway children are from fatherless homes60% of youth suicides are from fatherless homesJust as the fall of humanity came through the failure of a man to lead, so salvation comes when a man takes up his leadership role.
Jesus is the Second AdamAnd so with us… (no disrespect to the ladies)Tony Evans: “As goes the man, so goes the family. As goes the family; so goes the church. As goes the church; so goes the community. As goes the community; so goes the nation. So if you want to change the nation; change the community; if you want to change the community change the church; if you want to change the church; change the family; if you want to change the family, change the man.”
Tony Evans: If the child is first to come to Christ, there is a 3.5% chance everyone else in the household will follow; if the mother, a 17% chance; if the father, a 93%.
Commit to growing as a disciple (which you can hear about in last week’s episode)Commit to re-order your relationships:
Anthony Bradley, like we said before:Wife before childrenChildren before work Friendships before solitudeGod before all of it.