Ever wanted to ask my slutty pals all your most embarrassing questions? We cover a lot with Valentine, a biracial, queer, veteran sex worker, and friend. Let’s talk dating, pornmaking, kink, burnout, and self-help.

1:00 meet your guest, Valentine 

4:00 why be closeted? 

7:00 filming porn with mascs vs femmes

10:00 pregnant sex workers and choice

13:00 how we feel about sexting apps

22:00 know how to set an appropriate vibe 

27:00 tips for anxious club customers 

31:00 strippers get nervous too

35:00 and we fart on the customers we don’t like

36:00 tips to prevent dating burnout

40:00 more dating advice for sex workers and those who love us

44:00 when your partner has anger issues

49:00 how to do Dom/Sub in public, discreetly 

55:00 how to enjoy sex after sexual assault

59:00 you can conquer anything if you believe in yourself

1:00:00 sensory issues and sex anxiety

1:03:00 gender-neutral endearment

1:08:00 libido differences in partners/couples

1:13:00 penis envy in women?

1:19:00 foot fetish-conflict advice 

1:25:00 sworkers can teach us a lot!

FIND YOUR GUEST: www.darlingvalentine.me

FIND YOUR HOST: stripperwriter.com

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