This is a pleasure-centric episode! Learn some tips for pleasing people with vulvas, and get an insider’s idea of different ways to play. Allison Moon talks sex geek stuff like lesbianism, theater, disability, and sexual skills.

2:00 GIRLSEX 101 is about queer sex

5:00 straight men like this book too

8:00 Guide to Getting It/On

11:00 college professor in the PNW

14:00 Sex Geek Summer Camp

18:00 listening will make you better

21:00 more tips for sex with women 

Sponsored by Netherlandswax.com 

26:00 beware scammers selling stuff

30:00 oral sex tips

33:00 don’t kick me off online plz 

36:00 more oral sex tips

39:00 transphobes hate her! 

Sponsored by Lovecrave.com

45:00 SWOON - a short rom/com film about sex work and disability

47:00 leftist movements can leave people behind

51:00 sex can be silly and bizarre 

54:00 @DirtyLola and Reid Mihalko shoutouts

57:00 a renaissance around sex positive media is possible 

FIND YOUR GUEST: AlliedMoon.com

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Kaytlin Bailey is a comedian and former escort who founded a nonprofit organization that uses storytelling to advocate for human rights. She produces conferences and podcasts episodes and is touring The Oldest Profession Live Show now! Let’s talk about 10,000 years of sex work in history.

TIMESTAMPS:

3:00 feminism succeeds with inclusion of sw

7:00 sw in history 

10:00 feedback from audiences

13:00 internalized shame

15:00 the Honest Courtesan - maggiemcneil.com

18:00 sugaring and escort background

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25:00 Veronica Franco - fascinating historical figure

29:00 reminder to save your money if you can

33:00 fundraising and sugaring 

37:00 differences in activism

40:00 what is “bad” money?

43:00 attitude is everything 

47:00 flagging or signaling 

50:00 it’s expensive to look “naturally pretty”

54:00 how to gauge compassion about sw?
57:00 how to be an ally 

1:00:00 danger vs opportunity 

1:02:00 sex tips from a married person jk

FIND YOUR GUEST: kaytlinbailey.com/, 

AND AT theoldestprofession.org/

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Suzannah Weiss is an American sexologist and author of “Eve’s Blessing”, which discusses how people with vulvas can lead pleasurable lives in a world that normalizes their pain, specifically related to sex, childbirth and menstruation.

This book is for gender diverse people, and is not a critique of the Bible, but a more sex-positive re-imagining of it.

3:00 chronic lyme disease, pain or no-gasm 

7:00 stories from others

10:00 what is “the female experience”

13:00 medical forms and language can make it confusing

15:00 gaslighting example

18:00 PAXIL may mess up your vag

21:00 hormonal birth control side effects

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28:00 the Bible’s pain of child-raising?

32:00 wine is not the answer in this case

36:00 side effects of sexual violence

40:00 OF Bible Passages 

43:00 advocate for yourself during doctor visits

45:00 Sponsored by NetherlandsWax.com

46:00 about 5% of people have endometriosis?

50:00 should periods be so painful?

53:00 reminder, she’s a sex therapist in CA

56:00 sex tips!

FIND YOUR GUEST: IG @suzannahwise

FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com

See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows

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Your questions on STIs, dating, and pleasure, answered by Mariah Caudillo of @SexedFiles of IG. She's worked in schools for a decade and is an online program creator for a major health care clinic. Let's talk health and fun sex stuff.

3:00 day and night jobs!

7:00 teaching in schools for a decade 

10:00 bacterial vs virtual STIs

14:00 M.Gen is a new STI! Fun!

16:00 Qs for a new partner?

22:00 HPV info 

25:00 THEYTALKSEX for 15% off first order Condomania.com

27:00 Bacterial Vaginosis is an STI?

34:00 the vagina is like a sleeping bag

37:00 how much is too much masturbation?

43:00 Sponsored by LoveBlanket.com - get 10% off via theytalksex.com

45:00 cock ring questions 

48:00 hallucinations while orgasming?

51:00 what to do about a chronic UTI?

54:00 how to stay motivated as a teacher 

57:00 NY Post is trash

1:01:00 more on online harassment

1:03:00 sex tips!

FIND YOUR GUEST: IG @sexedfiles

FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com

See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows

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Phoenix Rising met your host as a newbie stripper in the previous decade -  and she rejoins Elle to reflect in the podcast, years later. What has changed or been learned? This is a big advice episode for all strippers and people who love them. Let’s talk drama, burnout, injuries, aging, judgement, and self-care.

I first interviewed Phoenix Rising as a newbie stripper, in our previous decade -  and she rejoins your host as a thriving veteran, years later. This is a big advice episode for all strippers and people who love them. Let’s talk drama, burnout, injuries, aging, judgement, and self-care.

3:00 animal rescue 

5:00 club experience

8:00 shoutout to PUMPS in NY

12:00 Sponsored by Netherlandswax.com

17:00 shoutout to @yourtoxicaddiction on IG

20:00 club conflict with peers

23:00 how to avoid burnout

25:00 mental capacity and energy

28:00 on music and branding

34:00 common stripper injuries 

38:00 balls to the wall pain

40:00 TheyTalkSex.com has discount codes for cool gifts :)

43:00 on the terms “baby stripper and veteran”

47:00 aging in the industry

50:00 body hair removal

53:00 body hair and strippers

56:00 quizzed on Charlie Kirk during dances?

1:02:00 stripper documentary “Cheers:PDX”

FIND YOUR GUEST: IG @motherlucifer

FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com

See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows

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Not your average grandma…better! Ruby Lynne of The Granny Panty podcast started sex work at the age of fifty three and today she’s a prolific media creator with a background in public health. Let’s learn some marketing and professional’s tips while discussing better practices for self care and health of yourself and your loved ones.

2:00 public health and porn!

5:00 M.Gen is a new STI

8:00 podcasting and networking with oldies

12:00 on being outed by a family ‘friend’ 

16:00 high school reunions

20:00 being stalked via Paypal

24:00 $500 a month to STI test!

27:00 studio work

30:00 sexting apps and etiquette 

33:00 more ^^^

37:00 losing friends and family

41:00 Sponsored by NetherlandsWax.com

45:00 roleplay and moods

48:00 we need an award category!

56:00 what keeps us young?

FIND YOUR GUEST

thegrannypantypodcast.com/ 

rubylynne.com

FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com

See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows

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Tricia Wise is a full time herpes educator and visual artist, and we talk about how to be a safer slut, and stay happier while being mentally ill. Get some updated HSV information, and get connected with her Shadownbanned podcast and upcoming zine project.

2:00 meet your shadowbanned host

5:00 SEGGS instead of sex

8:00 it’s disheartening to get flagged

12:00 HSV 1 vs 2

16:00 symptoms that we experience 

19:00 take the herpes survey study!SPFPP.ORG

23:00 dating red flags?

28:00 dating tips and anxiety texting

32:00 getting the ICK for protection

35:00 reframing the scare

38:00 code THEYTALKSEX for 10% off Love-Blanket.com

42:00 harness that OCD in healthier ways

45:00 1 in 5, or 1 in 8 people have herpes

48:00 sex tipssss

FIND YOUR GUEST safeslut.shop

and youtube.com/@safeslut

FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com

See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows

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Are you feeling stressed out more often than feels normal? Let’s hear from our guest and therapist Carolanne Marcantonio who offers some explanation for what’s happening in your brain and body when you feel like you’re running from big game hunters, and want to anxiety-poop, or cry.

3:00 meet your punk guest

6:00 career advice from Dr. Ruth!

9:00 Fight, flight, freeze, fawn

12:00 stomach problems

15:00 ladders of inference

18:00 more examples

22:00 tips to ground yourself

24:00 discount code THEYTALKSEX

28:00 shake it off, literally

33:00 thesystemsthinker.com

37:00 SPONSORED BY Netherlandswax.com

42:00 can your partner work with you?

45:00 real vs perceived threat

48:00 ChatGPT sucks, why?

50:00 book recommendations

55:00 more book recs!

59:00 sex tips!

FIND OUR GUEST : wisetherapylcsw.com/carolanne-marcantonio

IG @SexTherapyBrooklyn

FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com

See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows

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Hey friends! I’m enjoying a two or three week break from publishing episodes, during this summer-to-fall transition.

I’d love to hear your feedback or guest suggestions. If you’d like to be a guest on the show, reach out and tell me a little about your background and what you’d like to talk about. Email Theytalksex @ protonmail.com.

Visit theytalksex.com to see updated coupons or discount codes to some of my favorite adult health and wellness produts and services.

Thanks for your rating or review on your favorite listening app, for They Talk Sex Podcast.

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Did you know that violence against people in the adult industries is a common type of police misconduct? Our guest and journalist Isidoro Rodriguez uncovers what he’s learned through interviews and study of two at-odds populations: cops and sex workers. Let’s talk about how power and criminalization of prostitution makes it impossible to protect marginalized people in our America.

3:00 embedded with police academy 

5:00 sadistic, altruistic, apathetic

8:00 concepts of consent

10:00 did you have any biases?

13:00 I just want to learn

16:00 how to screen for predators?

20:00 officer-health and wellness

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27:00 what are Good Samaritan laws?

30:00 Rights For Girls is not overly helpful or ethical as an org.

33:00 please don’t make our clients into criminals

35:00 trauma can lead to bias

38:00 billboard ads would help 

41:00 clients don’t like talking on record either

44:00 don’t punish all the liquor buyers

47:00 safe harbor laws aren’t enough 

50:00 I hope for a nice cop 

53:00 don’t police homelessness or mental illness

56:00 Jessie Sage, Blair Hopkins, Kaytlin Bailey are experts on this 

1:01:00 more reliable news sources

1:06:00 sex tips 

FIND YOUR GUEST https://www.isidoro-rodriguez.com

FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com

See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows

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