Phoenix Rising met your host as a newbie stripper in the previous decade -  and she rejoins Elle to reflect in the podcast, years later. What has changed or been learned? This is a big advice episode for all strippers and people who love them. Let’s talk drama, burnout, injuries, aging, judgement, and self-care.

I first interviewed Phoenix Rising as a newbie stripper, in our previous decade -  and she rejoins your host as a thriving veteran, years later. This is a big advice episode for all strippers and people who love them. Let’s talk drama, burnout, injuries, aging, judgement, and self-care.

3:00 animal rescue 

5:00 club experience

8:00 shoutout to PUMPS in NY

12:00 Sponsored by Netherlandswax.com

17:00 shoutout to @yourtoxicaddiction on IG

20:00 club conflict with peers

23:00 how to avoid burnout

25:00 mental capacity and energy

28:00 on music and branding

34:00 common stripper injuries 

38:00 balls to the wall pain

40:00 TheyTalkSex.com has discount codes for cool gifts :)

43:00 on the terms “baby stripper and veteran”

47:00 aging in the industry

50:00 body hair removal

53:00 body hair and strippers

56:00 quizzed on Charlie Kirk during dances?

1:02:00 stripper documentary “Cheers:PDX”

FIND YOUR GUEST: IG @motherlucifer

FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com

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Not your average grandma…better! Ruby Lynne of The Granny Panty podcast started sex work at the age of fifty three and today she’s a prolific media creator with a background in public health. Let’s learn some marketing and professional’s tips while discussing better practices for self care and health of yourself and your loved ones.

2:00 public health and porn!

5:00 M.Gen is a new STI

8:00 podcasting and networking with oldies

12:00 on being outed by a family ‘friend’ 

16:00 high school reunions

20:00 being stalked via Paypal

24:00 $500 a month to STI test!

27:00 studio work

30:00 sexting apps and etiquette 

33:00 more ^^^

37:00 losing friends and family

41:00 Sponsored by NetherlandsWax.com 

45:00 roleplay and moods

48:00 we need an award category!

56:00 what keeps us young?

FIND YOUR GUEST

thegrannypantypodcast.com/ 

rubylynne.com

FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com

See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows

This episode was sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com

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Tricia Wise is a full time herpes educator and visual artist, and we talk about how to be a safer slut, and stay happier while being mentally ill. Get some updated HSV information, and get connected with her Shadownbanned podcast and upcoming zine project.

2:00 meet your shadowbanned host

5:00 SEGGS instead of sex

8:00 it’s disheartening to get flagged

12:00 HSV 1 vs 2

16:00 symptoms that we experience 

19:00 take the herpes survey study! SPFPP.ORG

23:00 dating red flags?

28:00 dating tips and anxiety texting

32:00 getting the ICK for protection

35:00 reframing the scare

38:00 code THEYTALKSEX for 10% off Love-Blanket.com

42:00 harness that OCD in healthier ways

45:00 1 in 5, or 1 in 8 people have herpes

48:00 sex tipssss

FIND YOUR GUEST safeslut.shop

and youtube.com/@safeslut

FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com

See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows

This episode was sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com

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Are you feeling stressed out more often than feels normal? Let’s hear from our guest and therapist Carolanne Marcantonio who offers some explanation for what’s happening in your brain and body when you feel like you’re running from big game hunters, and want to anxiety-poop, or cry.

3:00 meet your punk guest

6:00 career advice from Dr. Ruth!

9:00 Fight, flight, freeze, fawn

12:00 stomach problems

15:00 ladders of inference

18:00 more examples

22:00 tips to ground yourself

24:00 discount code THEYTALKSEX

28:00 shake it off, literally

33:00 thesystemsthinker.com

37:00 SPONSORED BY Netherlandswax.com

42:00 can your partner work with you?

45:00 real vs perceived threat

48:00 ChatGPT sucks, why?

50:00 book recommendations

55:00 more book recs!

59:00 sex tips!

FIND OUR GUEST : wisetherapylcsw.com/carolanne-marcantonio

IG @SexTherapyBrooklyn

FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com

See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows

This episode was sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com

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Hey friends! I’m enjoying a two or three week break from publishing episodes, during this summer-to-fall transition.

I’d love to hear your feedback or guest suggestions. If you’d like to be a guest on the show, reach out and tell me a little about your background and what you’d like to talk about. Email Theytalksex @ protonmail.com.

Visit theytalksex.com to see updated coupons or discount codes to some of my favorite adult health and wellness produts and services.

Thanks for your rating or review on your favorite listening app, for They Talk Sex Podcast.

FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com

See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows

This episode was sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com

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Did you know that violence against people in the adult industries is a common type of police misconduct? Our guest and journalist Isidoro Rodriguez uncovers what he’s learned through interviews and study of two at-odds populations: cops and sex workers. Let’s talk about how power and criminalization of prostitution makes it impossible to protect marginalized people in our America.

3:00 embedded with police academy 

5:00 sadistic, altruistic, apathetic

8:00 concepts of consent

10:00 did you have any biases?

13:00 I just want to learn

16:00 how to screen for predators?

20:00 officer-health and wellness

24:00 THEYTALKSEX for 10% off love-blanket.com/

27:00 what are Good Samaritan laws?

30:00 Rights For Girls is not overly helpful or ethical as an org.

33:00 please don’t make our clients into criminals

35:00 trauma can lead to bias

38:00 billboard ads would help 

41:00 clients don’t like talking on record either

44:00 don’t punish all the liquor buyers

47:00 safe harbor laws aren’t enough 

50:00 I hope for a nice cop 

53:00 don’t police homelessness or mental illness

56:00 Jessie Sage, Blair Hopkins, Kaytlin Bailey are experts on this 

1:01:00 more reliable news sources

1:06:00 sex tips 

FIND YOUR GUEST https://www.isidoro-rodriguez.com

FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com

See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows

This episode was sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com

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Jae Tracy grew up through severe parental abuse and trafficking and is finally able to speak about her experiences, in order to bolster other survivors and to teach the warning signs. Let’s talk about living as an adult with a family trauma history, and thriving as an individual after.

1:00 we met in the strip club

4:00 she can finally share her story of childhood

7:00 charming and abusive mother

10:00 meth and alcohol and “the wrong crowd”

13:00 Lutheran grandparents

16:00 Find her on Youtube @ Jae Tracy

19:00 a step up from home life

24:00 supporting a parent in their sobriety?

27:00 what feels good for yourself 

30:00 sex after trauma 

35:00 how to explain sex work vs trafficking

36:00 ways to spot abuse?

43:00 foster kids across state housing?

46:00 social worker problems

49:00 racism in parenting

52:00 get silly and wild in sex 

FIND MORE OF JAE’S WORK HERE:

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Instagram:

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YouTube: 

Original Soft White Underbelly Interview: https://youtu.be/4sfHCQIzK3Y

FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com

This episode was sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com and InstituteForSexuality.com

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Leanne Lawson is an amateur adult content creator living in Canada who stumbled upon an online world of pro-fascism trans women(!) Let’s talk about internalized violence and power structures in adult work, trans and queer spaces.

1:00 trans women who love Trump?

3:00 the “Tucker Carlson of trans women”

5:00 barred from the strip club

9:00 trans-on-trans violence

13:00 pick-me!

14:00 trans women with privilege?

19:00 Sponsored by NetherlandsWax.com

22:00 examples of infighting and sabotage

26:00 dating lesbians

29:00 I'd be more successful if I shut up

32:00 on roasting people

36:00 picking your battles

40:00 trans-medicalism 

46:00 outdated terms for people

49:00 what changed for you?

54:00 just one Republican with a trans kid

59:00 some people do anything for Likes

1:03:00 stop copying Sex workers if you hate us!

1:08:00 a sex tip 

Find Leanne Lawson on TikTok and IG @crashout3oh4

OnlyFans.com/crashout3oh4

Special mentions to @Liam.nissan and @mohatesmedia

FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com

This episode was sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com and InstituteForSexuality.com

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What can you learn from an online adult entertainer, YouTuber, and digital marketing professional? Misty Maven creates content for her subscription sites, sells worn clothing items, and tells us about her learning curves and ongoing practices for engaging online. Let’s talk webcam and sex work!

3:00 prior work experience

6:00 why they started sworking

9:00 selling worn garments 

12:00 twerking videos 

15:00 connecting with others

19:00 nosy and interested in others

23:00 what about the future?

26:00 talking with mom about worry

30:00 regrets in the future?

34:00 Sponsored by NetherlandsWax.com

37:00 beware of scammers

40:00 amazon scammers specifically 

43:00 creators who scam?

47:00 economics 

50:00 advertising on social media 

54:00 tips for starting out

58:00 Sponsored by InstituteforSexuality.com 

1:01:00 Colombian webcam workers and coercion

1:06:00 exploitation in commercial labor overseas and here

1:10:00 what’s next for Misty?

Our guest can be found on YouTube @Mistymistymisty and all links can be found at mistythemaven.com

This episode was sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com and InstituteForSexuality.com

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Ready for some inner child work? Our guest was tired of talking about their traumatic incidents and was ready to feel better in their body and relationships again - let’s talk dealing with attachment trauma and healing methods with Mx Harris Hill.

3:00 heal your PTSD faster?

7:00 inner child work 

11:00 if you can feel you

14:00 hypersexuality and substances, PTSD

16:00 golden rules for working with people 

19:00 inherently traumatized + trans?

22:00 jealousy triggered 

25:00 stop relying on them for so much

Sponsored by Netherlandswax.com

33:00 core wound therapy

36:00 dating three and power dynamics

39:00 more advice power dynamics

Sponsored by InstituteforSexuality.com

45:00 on dating an avoidant 

48:00 on being anxiously attached

51:00 co-dependency and materials

54:00 future plans and corporate influencing?

Find our guest at MxHarrisHill.com

This episode was sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com and InstituteForSexuality.com

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