They Talk Sex

If you’ve ever watched mainstream tv or movies with sex scenes in them, you can appreciate the people who make them look more realistic, while helping the performers be safest. Let’s talk with our guest Jamie Monahan, who works as an Intimacy Coordinator and Director.

3:00 #MeToo history

6:00 actors are taught to Say Yes

8:00 sexual alignment on film 

11:00 there is a lack of lube in film 

14:00 history behind intimacy coordinator

17:00 scenes that stuck in your mind

21:00 other memorable scenes

25:00 kissing on film

28:00 elle’s preference on oral sex visuals/contact

31:00 prosthetics are not common

35:00 more rules and regulations

40:00 the sounds of sex on film 

45:00 don’t copy movies and that includes Titanic

49:00 have you ever mimicked a film?

54:00 SAG requirement to become IC

Your guest is at www.Jamiemonahan.com

IG/Facebook/X: @Jmemonahan

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Elizabeth Foreman works sober in New Orleans strip clubs these days. Here she shares her experience with sex work and sobriety which has given her insight, tactics and coping mechanisms while she continues to share her healing journey with others.

4:00 disclaimer - experiential and not academic

6:00 dancing instead of full-service

9:00 confusing laws around sw and trafficking 

13:00 NOLA vs PDX stripper economics

17:00 how she got started in sobriety self-help

20:00 alcoholism in the family and the club

24:00 tips to not get drunk at the strip/club

27:00 check-ins reminders

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32:00 why do you use while working?

37:00 mental strain of sobriety

40:00 why we numb out or use it to enhance performance

48:00 practicing setting boundaries

54:00 don’t stop drinking abruptly

57:00 what happens when you stop drinking?

1:01:00 do you have the wrong prescription?

1:05:00 resource share

1:08:00 the downsides of AA

1:12:00 ADHD and sex tips, slow down

Tip Elizabeth for her sobriety help to CASHAPP $liz4mannola

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Erica Smith is a sex educator specializing in purity culture trauma and recovery. Let’s talk about dealing with shame and some tips for better sexual health and lives.

4:00 a controversial event in 2000

7:00 working in abortion clinic, juvenile justice system

10:00 youth in sex work or experiencing trafficking

14:00 how purity culture relates to juvenile justice

17:00 the Army of God loves fake anthrax

20:00 sexually active teens

23:00 she who is without shame!

27:00 how to tell my partner I’m queer?

30:00 use your hands more

33:00 chronic health disclosures to partner?

37:00 herpes shaming, we hate it

40:00 purity culture grossness

43:00 social media and sex education

47:00 who is her clientele?

50:00 tradwife trend will have impacts later - @missgingerlocks on IG

53:00 confessions

57:00 sex advice

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Have you ever been made to feel like an object instead of a person? Do you objectify others? What does objectification mean, how can we take our power back, make the best of it, or get off on it?

Let’s talk with Suzannah Weiss, author of “Subjectified: Becoming a Sexual Subject”

2:00 See her live August 18th at Sanctuary club in Portland

6:00 growing breasts made people treat her differently 

9:00 sexuality healed her disordered eating!

13:00 people being degrading at cam models

16:00 this economy making me do more

18:00 if a SW takes advantage!

21:00 examples of objectification from others 

24:00 “I don’t do bareback with someone I just met”

28:00 former sex worker(?)

30:00 examples of objectification in language

33:00 Nina Menkes + film POV

36:00 we need to see what women desire, more often

39:00 it is a turn-on for me, being objectified 

42:00 anxiety about fantasies in relationship 

46:00 Stoya started hitachi reading! 

50:00 less respect happens for escorts

55:00 work stress - stigma 

59:00 examples, more

1:02:00 sex tips from suzannah and elle

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Your host is ElleStanger.com

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How can intentional psilocybin use help people heal from big life events, or create a better understanding of theirselves? Let’s talk with “trauma queen” expert and educator Jimanekia Eborn.

4:00 policing to psychology 

7:00 numbing vs pushing through 

15:00 what has changed for you?

17:00 tripping tips 

20:00 how did shrooms impact you?

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27:00 more advice for tripping 

30:00 sensory play ideas 

34:00 small vs big trauma

37:00 germ transfer overload

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44:00 that medication might not work for you!

48:00 dating a survivor class 

52:00 you're going inside, not outside

55:00 sex advice 

Check out Cintima.co and find our guest on TraumaQueen.love

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What’s it like to go to a clinic to receive an abortion? Our guest has been escorting patients for years and talks about the science of medical abortion, care tips and how to advocate for yourself when you need one. Meet the Executive Director of Nebraska Healthcare Resource, Shelley Mann.

3:00 patient to clinic escort to executive director 

6:00 why people need abortions

8:00 known as the abortion lady 

12:00 pointless to argue with these people 

15:00 why are you so obsessed with me?

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20:00 how to tell my boyfriend I need an abortion?

23:00 find out as early as you can

25:00 TRAP laws and “cardiac activity”

28:00 more on clinics getting shut down

31:00 “late term abortion” is not a medical term

34:00 99% of abortions prior to 21 weeks 

37:00 what can you do to prepare for an abortion?

40:00 how to care for yourself after?

43:00 what about a bad experience?

49:00 pregnancy and birth is 13.5x more deadly than legal abortion

53:00 www.plancpills.com, www.ineedana.com, www.abortionfunds.org

55:00 sex tip

Contact Info: 312-663-0338. www.neabortionresources.org.

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Naomi left the strict Amish at seventeen, and worked for twenty years in adult entertainment, and wrote an erotic memoir about that time. We talk about dating, parenting, boundaries and sex clubs.

1:00 raised as strict Amish, left at 17

4:00 literally pushed to audition by friends

10:00 financial advice from a coworker 

14:00 the regret was having to hide it

18:00 online use

21:00 being OUT to family?

24:00 dark days and substance abuse

28:00 coercive partner sex

31:00 leaving the situation

33:00 parenting a kid now

37:00 I know that sex club!

40:00 everybody is different! 

45:00 how to prevent sexual assault in small communities?

48:00 communication

53:00 try new things!

Find our guest @AmishInspiration on IG, TikTok

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Miss Mei is a political organizer in Miami Florida and talks sex work, explains what can help prevent trafficking and police abuse, and gives tips on how to look for bad-actor organizations.

3:00 - a friend got her work doing threesomes to begin SW

6:00 - they prefer in-person work

9:00 Slutwalk helped lead to #MeToo

12:00 reclaiming the word Whore

15:00 Amber Rose did not invent Slutwalk

19:00 women’s spaces and nonbinary ppl 

22:00 no arrests YET

26:00 when the client follows your Other Work

30:00 THEYTALK20 for 20% off MayerLabs.com condoms and lube

32:00 child labor laws in Florida

37:00 a long road ahead about record expungement 

40:00 I grew up as a young whore

47:00 @ Jonni_qwest is a pal

50:00 In-fighting 

54:00 “Sex Workers and the Left: Pass The Mic” Tryst.Link article 

58:00 AOC endorsed anti-SW and homophobic organization NCOSE

1:01:00 “we cannot defeat what we cannot define”

1:04:00 should strippers be able to work at 18?

1:07:00 fibromyalgia and cops

Find our guest at @MultiverseOfMei on Twitter/X/IG

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