What can hands do? Let’s talk with pleasure expert and coach Jennifer Rahner about kink and communication. Learn some basic tips and some safety practices, plus creative ideas for self pleasure and partner play.

1:00 Dr. Ruth started it

4:00 a mid-life career switch 

7:00 teaches non-monogamy, BDSM, masturbation and more

10:00 CNS vs ENM discussion

13:00 will the United States block Tryst?

16:00 PH ban from states

19:00 basic spanking tips 

22:00 more spanking tips

26:00 slapping safety tips

29:00 choking safety tips

33:00 why don’t hit or squeeze the front of the throat

36:00 OkCupid for kink dating? (not sponsored, I wish!)

40:00 if someone goes non-verbal

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49:00 leftists tend to like kink more?

54:00 monthly CNM discussion group - peer support

57:00 #mommyknowsbest

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