They Talk Sex Podcast returns in one week so that your host can have a little extra summer fun.

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ElleStanger.com

IG @theytalksexpodcast

Twitter/X @ellestanger

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Naomi left the strict Amish at seventeen, and worked for twenty years in adult entertainment, and wrote an erotic memoir about that time. We talk about dating, parenting, boundaries and sex clubs.

1:00 raised as strict Amish, left at 17

4:00 literally pushed to audition by friends

10:00 financial advice from a coworker 

14:00 the regret was having to hide it

18:00 online use

21:00 being OUT to family?

24:00 dark days and substance abuse

28:00 coercive partner sex

31:00 leaving the situation

33:00 parenting a kid now

37:00 I know that sex club!

40:00 everybody is different! 

45:00 how to prevent sexual assault in small communities?

48:00 communication

53:00 try new things!

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Miss Mei is a political organizer in Miami Florida and talks sex work, explains what can help prevent trafficking and police abuse, and gives tips on how to look for bad-actor organizations.

3:00 - a friend got her work doing threesomes to begin SW

6:00 - they prefer in-person work

9:00 Slutwalk helped lead to #MeToo

12:00 reclaiming the word Whore

15:00 Amber Rose did not invent Slutwalk

19:00 women’s spaces and nonbinary ppl 

22:00 no arrests YET

26:00 when the client follows your Other Work

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32:00 child labor laws in Florida

37:00 a long road ahead about record expungement 

40:00 I grew up as a young whore

47:00 @ Jonni_qwest is a pal

50:00 In-fighting 

54:00 “Sex Workers and the Left: Pass The Mic” Tryst.Link article 

58:00 AOC endorsed anti-SW and homophobic organization NCOSE

1:01:00 “we cannot defeat what we cannot define”

1:04:00 should strippers be able to work at 18?

1:07:00 fibromyalgia and cops

FIND OUR GUEST at @MultiverseOfMei on Twitter/X/IG

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Mike Stabile is a journalist and documentary filmmaker and ol’ gay activist who has written about and advocated for sex workers and sexual speech for twenty years.

2:00 - I was an anonymous hand once

6:00 - why Twitter is relevant to free speech and liberties

8:00 - Polari - slang speak of gay sailors and sw’s

10:00 gay porn film history and Chuck Holmes

15:00 - what is KOSA and why should we hate it?

18:00 do u want the government to see your searches?

21:00 age verification doesn’t work

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29:00 do journalists fear cops?

32:00 more fear about retribution?

35:00 why journalists are fooled by cop press releases

40:00 Tim Ballard and Operation Railroad is a scam

42:00 “ending modern slavery” is a red flag 

46:00 protecting safety and privacy

49:00 if a journalist contacts you as a SW

53:00 GetTheLayer.com - ELLE code for 10% off

54:00 haters?

58:00 conspiracy theories AGAIN

1:02:00 be your own expert on your life

1:04:00 Lorelei Lee tweet (they/them)

FIND OUR GUEST: IG @fauxjob and Twitter/X @mikestabile and https://www.freespeechcoalition.com/staff

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Born in India, neurodivergent, non monogamous, a New York sex therapist who loves sex-positive spaces, let’s talk healing with Nikita Fernandes MHC-LP and learn some healing tips for life and sex.

1:00 meet our guest

3:00 women’s gender studies classes were key to critical thinking 

6:00 assimilation as a safety mechanism

9:00 tips for therapeutic movement 

12:00 dance, hiking, kink, gym

15:00 medical issues

19:00 The People’s Book of Human Sexuality - Laureano

23:00 coping tips

26:00 more tension release tips

28:00 fantasies around sexual assault 

40:00 needing to offload or share to others

43:00 what if I’m not responding to trauma?

50:00 DBT (dialectical behavior therapy)

55:00 partner jealousy and disclosure

58:00 working all the time makes healing harder

FIND OUR GUEST: healingwithnikita.com

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He’s telling his life story besides the two random events that led to him working in the xxx industry as a Bull in the cuckold scene. “Thrash: “Penetrating the Business” author talks about filming and life.

4:00 Brickhouse Magazine

6:00 the pros of accessible technology

9:00 @brickhousemag on Twitter

13:00 there’s levels to it

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20:00 what is the best part of being a bull?

24:00 filming vs real life

29:00 a one man show on stage

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37:00 reflecting on the cuck episode

40:00 does Thrash have preferences?

43:00 trends in porn?

47:00 becoming ambivalent to porn

54:00 sex tips

Find our guest on:

IG @thrashculture23

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Pomma is a xxx content creator who tirelessly informs followers on news, legislation, harm reduction practices, and hazards related to online sex work and adult industry work. Let's talk!

4:00 what kind of work?

7:00 money is tight for many 

10:00 socialized to be performative as youth

13:00 banned from social media ooops

16:00 FOSTA SESTA

19:00 facial recognition and TSA

22:00 will this get me evicted?

27:00 when your beloved sugar daddy dies

30:00 the athletes of sex workers 

35:00 thick models like London Andrews, Valentine Von Bettie

39:00 some advice for receiving shibari ties 

42:00 please do not ask to meet us while on paysites

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50:00 UNICEF supported bad legislation FOSTA and SESTA

54:00 law enforcement raiding Backpage.com owners

57:00 Decrim305, Cupcake Girls, SWOPBehindBars.org

1:00:00 organizations we like

1:03:00 sex tips for our audience?

Find our guest on:

IG: @onlypomma@notonlypomma
Twitter: Succubusluut
Tiktok: Juicypomma2.0 and LeaveJuicyPommaAlone

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His nickname is The Dick Whisperer and he’s spent years perfecting his penis-injections services and science: Meet the founder of PhalloFill . Let’s talk about why some men want to augment theirselves and why you should always follow post-procedure advice!

3:00 - hair removal and penis augmentation

4:00 - the P shot began

7:00 porn, peer comparison, indirect teasing

11:00 how to talk to youth about media 

14:00 confidence in the workplace

18:00 let’s talk about complication rates

21:00 increase in sensitivity

25:00 what is Hyaluronic acid?

28:00 explaining the filler and amount

31:00 Phalloboards.info - forum 

34:00 he’s the penis master

38:00 more science on filler

41:00 what is fascia?

46:00 example patient who needed a fixjob

52:00 discussing costs

55:00 width vs girth

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She’s a model, full contact fighter and martial arts instructor, genderfluid princess and more: lets meet Sybilla Bakzaza.

3:00 martial arts, baseball, football, sailing, relay racing, US NAVY

5:00 a commentary on Marine culture or US Navy

8:00 (devil dock is a penis joke)

9:00 cross-dressing as an entry

12:00 American assimilation 

18:00 what can suck about gym environments

22:00 she has a team of Hulks on her side

25:00 how to screen employers/venues?

29:00 advice on showing up as trans in cis spaces?

32:00 you gotta project confidence 

34:00 red flags for clients

39:00 on bullying in the workplace

43:00 what is your support network?

49:00 perception is more powerful than truth sometimes

53:00 some people are only as good/bad as their commanders

55:00 sex tips!

59:00 some inspo and support from our guest

FIND OUR GUEST: TikTok, OF, and Twitter and IG @ https://www.instagram.com/sybillabakzaza/

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Let’s explore the history behind masturbation misinformation, pseudoscience and shaming, with clinical psychologist and author Dr Eric Sprankle.

3:00 how he got here

7:00 a vast conspiracy to teach education (elle has worked with PH tho)

10:00 history repeating on anti-porn 

13:00 misinformation is the same 

16:00 exploring negative online comments

20:00 be a man - destroy your lungs

23:00 how do people feel about the word?

27:00 does ejaculation impact hormone levels?

32:00 what do “sex rehab programs” look like?

36:00 how can masturbation be harmful?

38:00 chemical castration

40:00 high libido does not equal offensive behavior

45:00 sperm vs semen vs female ejaculate

48:00 more about ejaculate fluid

51:00 events causing shame

56:00 online communities and hate groups

1:01:00 white genocide conspiracy

1:06:00 a cute childhood anecdote

1:09:00 Dr Drew - how could you?!?

FIND OUR GUEST: DrSprankle.com

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