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Have you ever been made to feel like an object instead of a person? Do you objectify others? What does objectification mean, how can we take our power back, make the best of it, or get off on it?

Let’s talk with Suzannah Weiss, author of “Subjectified: Becoming a Sexual Subject”

2:00 See her live August 18th at Sanctuary club in Portland

6:00 growing breasts made people treat her differently 

9:00 sexuality healed her disordered eating!

13:00 people being degrading at cam models

16:00 this economy making me do more

18:00 if a SW takes advantage!

21:00 examples of objectification from others 

24:00 “I don’t do bareback with someone I just met”

28:00 former sex worker(?)

30:00 examples of objectification in language

33:00 Nina Menkes + film POV

36:00 we need to see what women desire, more often

39:00 it is a turn-on for me, being objectified 

42:00 anxiety about fantasies in relationship 

46:00 Stoya started hitachi reading! 

50:00 less respect happens for escorts

55:00 work stress - stigma 

59:00 examples, more

1:02:00 sex tips from suzannah and elle

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How can intentional psilocybin use help people heal from big life events, or create a better understanding of theirselves? Let’s talk with “trauma queen” expert and educator Jimanekia Eborn.

4:00 policing to psychology 

7:00 numbing vs pushing through 

15:00 what has changed for you?

17:00 tripping tips 

20:00 how did shrooms impact you?

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27:00 more advice for tripping 

30:00 sensory play ideas 

34:00 small vs big trauma

37:00 germ transfer overload

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44:00 that medication might not work for you!

48:00 dating a survivor class 

52:00 you're going inside, not outside

55:00 sex advice 

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What’s it like to go to a clinic to receive an abortion? Our guest has been escorting patients for years and talks about the science of medical abortion, care tips and how to advocate for yourself when you need one. Meet the Executive Director of Nebraska Healthcare Resource, Shelley Mann.

3:00 patient to clinic escort to executive director 

6:00 why people need abortions

8:00 known as the abortion lady 

12:00 pointless to argue with these people 

15:00 why are you so obsessed with me?

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20:00 how to tell my boyfriend I need an abortion?

23:00 find out as early as you can

25:00 TRAP laws and “cardiac activity”

28:00 more on clinics getting shut down

31:00 “late term abortion” is not a medical term

34:00 99% of abortions prior to 21 weeks 

37:00 what can you do to prepare for an abortion?

40:00 how to care for yourself after?

43:00 what about a bad experience?

49:00 pregnancy and birth is 13.5x more deadly than legal abortion

53:00 www.plancpills.com, www.ineedana.com, www.abortionfunds.org

55:00 sex tip

Contact Info: 312-663-0338. www.neabortionresources.org.

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They Talk Sex Podcast returns in one week so that your host can have a little extra summer fun.

Here's how you can find me or reach out!

ElleStanger.com

IG @theytalksexpodcast

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Naomi left the strict Amish at seventeen, and worked for twenty years in adult entertainment, and wrote an erotic memoir about that time. We talk about dating, parenting, boundaries and sex clubs.

1:00 raised as strict Amish, left at 17

4:00 literally pushed to audition by friends

10:00 financial advice from a coworker 

14:00 the regret was having to hide it

18:00 online use

21:00 being OUT to family?

24:00 dark days and substance abuse

28:00 coercive partner sex

31:00 leaving the situation

33:00 parenting a kid now

37:00 I know that sex club!

40:00 everybody is different! 

45:00 how to prevent sexual assault in small communities?

48:00 communication

53:00 try new things!

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Miss Mei is a political organizer in Miami Florida and talks sex work, explains what can help prevent trafficking and police abuse, and gives tips on how to look for bad-actor organizations.

3:00 - a friend got her work doing threesomes to begin SW

6:00 - they prefer in-person work

9:00 Slutwalk helped lead to #MeToo

12:00 reclaiming the word Whore

15:00 Amber Rose did not invent Slutwalk

19:00 women’s spaces and nonbinary ppl 

22:00 no arrests YET

26:00 when the client follows your Other Work

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32:00 child labor laws in Florida

37:00 a long road ahead about record expungement 

40:00 I grew up as a young whore

47:00 @ Jonni_qwest is a pal

50:00 In-fighting 

54:00 “Sex Workers and the Left: Pass The Mic” Tryst.Link article 

58:00 AOC endorsed anti-SW and homophobic organization NCOSE

1:01:00 “we cannot defeat what we cannot define”

1:04:00 should strippers be able to work at 18?

1:07:00 fibromyalgia and cops

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Mike Stabile is a journalist and documentary filmmaker and ol’ gay activist who has written about and advocated for sex workers and sexual speech for twenty years.

2:00 - I was an anonymous hand once

6:00 - why Twitter is relevant to free speech and liberties

8:00 - Polari - slang speak of gay sailors and sw’s

10:00 gay porn film history and Chuck Holmes

15:00 - what is KOSA and why should we hate it?

18:00 do u want the government to see your searches?

21:00 age verification doesn’t work

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29:00 do journalists fear cops?

32:00 more fear about retribution?

35:00 why journalists are fooled by cop press releases

40:00 Tim Ballard and Operation Railroad is a scam

42:00 “ending modern slavery” is a red flag 

46:00 protecting safety and privacy

49:00 if a journalist contacts you as a SW

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54:00 haters?

58:00 conspiracy theories AGAIN

1:02:00 be your own expert on your life

1:04:00 Lorelei Lee tweet (they/them)

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Born in India, neurodivergent, non monogamous, a New York sex therapist who loves sex-positive spaces, let’s talk healing with Nikita Fernandes MHC-LP and learn some healing tips for life and sex.

1:00 meet our guest

3:00 women’s gender studies classes were key to critical thinking 

6:00 assimilation as a safety mechanism

9:00 tips for therapeutic movement 

12:00 dance, hiking, kink, gym

15:00 medical issues

19:00 The People’s Book of Human Sexuality - Laureano

23:00 coping tips

26:00 more tension release tips

28:00 fantasies around sexual assault 

40:00 needing to offload or share to others

43:00 what if I’m not responding to trauma?

50:00 DBT (dialectical behavior therapy)

55:00 partner jealousy and disclosure

58:00 working all the time makes healing harder

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He’s telling his life story besides the two random events that led to him working in the xxx industry as a Bull in the cuckold scene. “Thrash: “Penetrating the Business” author talks about filming and life.

4:00 Brickhouse Magazine

6:00 the pros of accessible technology

9:00 @brickhousemag on Twitter

13:00 there’s levels to it

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20:00 what is the best part of being a bull?

24:00 filming vs real life

29:00 a one man show on stage

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37:00 reflecting on the cuck episode

40:00 does Thrash have preferences?

43:00 trends in porn?

47:00 becoming ambivalent to porn

54:00 sex tips

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IG @thrashculture23

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