Naomi left the strict Amish at seventeen, and worked for twenty years in adult entertainment, and wrote an erotic memoir about that time. We talk about dating, parenting, boundaries and sex clubs.

1:00 raised as strict Amish, left at 17

4:00 literally pushed to audition by friends

10:00 financial advice from a coworker 

14:00 the regret was having to hide it

18:00 online use

21:00 being OUT to family?

24:00 dark days and substance abuse

28:00 coercive partner sex

31:00 leaving the situation

33:00 parenting a kid now

37:00 I know that sex club!

40:00 everybody is different! 

45:00 how to prevent sexual assault in small communities?

48:00 communication

53:00 try new things!

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