They Talk Sex

Pomma is a xxx content creator who tirelessly informs followers on news, legislation, harm reduction practices, and hazards related to online sex work and adult industry work. Let's talk!

4:00 what kind of work?

7:00 money is tight for many 

10:00 socialized to be performative as youth

13:00 banned from social media ooops

16:00 FOSTA SESTA

19:00 facial recognition and TSA

22:00 will this get me evicted?

27:00 when your beloved sugar daddy dies

30:00 the athletes of sex workers 

35:00 thick models like London Andrews, Valentine Von Bettie

39:00 some advice for receiving shibari ties 

42:00 please do not ask to meet us while on paysites

48:00 STRIPPERWRITER 20% OFF FeministTrash.com

50:00 UNICEF supported bad legislation FOSTA and SESTA

54:00 law enforcement raiding Backpage.com owners

57:00 Decrim305, Cupcake Girls, SWOPBehindBars.org

1:00:00 organizations we like

1:03:00 sex tips for our audience?

Find our guest on:

IG: @onlypomma@notonlypomma
Twitter: Succubusluut
Tiktok: Juicypomma2.0 and LeaveJuicyPommaAlone

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His nickname is The Dick Whisperer and he’s spent years perfecting his penis-injections services and science: Meet the founder of PhalloFill . Let’s talk about why some men want to augment theirselves and why you should always follow post-procedure advice!

3:00 - hair removal and penis augmentation

4:00 - the P shot began

7:00 porn, peer comparison, indirect teasing

11:00 how to talk to youth about media 

14:00 confidence in the workplace

18:00 let’s talk about complication rates

21:00 increase in sensitivity

25:00 what is Hyaluronic acid?

28:00 explaining the filler and amount

31:00 Phalloboards.info - forum 

34:00 he’s the penis master

38:00 more science on filler

41:00 what is fascia?

46:00 example patient who needed a fixjob

52:00 discussing costs

55:00 width vs girth

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She’s a model, full contact fighter and martial arts instructor, genderfluid princess and more: lets meet Sybilla Bakzaza.

3:00 martial arts, baseball, football, sailing, relay racing, US NAVY

5:00 a commentary on Marine culture or US Navy

8:00 (devil dock is a penis joke)

9:00 cross-dressing as an entry

12:00 American assimilation 

18:00 what can suck about gym environments

22:00 she has a team of Hulks on her side

25:00 how to screen employers/venues?

29:00 advice on showing up as trans in cis spaces?

32:00 you gotta project confidence 

34:00 red flags for clients

39:00 on bullying in the workplace

43:00 what is your support network?

49:00 perception is more powerful than truth sometimes

53:00 some people are only as good/bad as their commanders

55:00 sex tips!

59:00 some inspo and support from our guest

FIND OUR GUEST: TikTok, OF, and Twitter and IG @ https://www.instagram.com/sybillabakzaza/

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Let’s explore the history behind masturbation misinformation, pseudoscience and shaming, with clinical psychologist and author Dr Eric Sprankle.

3:00 how he got here

7:00 a vast conspiracy to teach education (elle has worked with PH tho)

10:00 history repeating on anti-porn 

13:00 misinformation is the same 

16:00 exploring negative online comments

20:00 be a man - destroy your lungs

23:00 how do people feel about the word?

27:00 does ejaculation impact hormone levels?

32:00 what do “sex rehab programs” look like?

36:00 how can masturbation be harmful?

38:00 chemical castration

40:00 high libido does not equal offensive behavior

45:00 sperm vs semen vs female ejaculate

48:00 more about ejaculate fluid

51:00 events causing shame

56:00 online communities and hate groups

1:01:00 white genocide conspiracy

1:06:00 a cute childhood anecdote

1:09:00 Dr Drew - how could you?!?

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Our last episode of this season and O what fun - let’s talk cuckolding!  Join Mistress Elle for a chat with her favorite cuckold and hear how he discovered his kinky lifestyle, how he interacts most ethically with the women he worships, and please enjoy some of our funny stories, too.

3:00 how he finds women to worship

5:00 a catholic priest client - Lady Vi

8:00 legal and artistic aid for a friend

10:00 scrotal piercings for a leash

11:00 Mickey Mod and Mistress Gia DeMarco

13:00 first anal cream pie

14:00 Mistress Sandi in Montreal

16:00 his first ever cucking appointment - Mistress January Seraph

21:00 there’s a lot of cum soon

25:00 moral of the story is be yourself

29:00 what’s the best part?

33:00 beneath a woman and helping her

36:00 how to protect yourself from scammers?

39:00 losing friends over it?

43:00 am I gay or less of a man?

47:00 economic impacts?

52:00 Americans are more taboo about sharing

55:00 Shoutout to his Doms

59:00 honored to be the first

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We catch up with our fave herpes educator Courtney Brame for some updates and additional facts about a common virus that many of us live with, and Elle had new experience with. Let’s talk herpes again!

1:00 he gets more topless-views

3:00 a big herpes survey

7:00 clinically massive outbreak

11:00 sex workers + herpes 

14:00 consented to not using barriers

17:00 sexual infidelity is a possibility

21:00 herpes location vs Type 1 or 2

23:00 why do lab tests during outbreak?

26:00 20TALKSWIRL2

29:00 sex toy snafu, unrelated

32:00 what is a “normal length” outbreak

36:00 May 2024 results survey + St Louis MO

40:00 how might one get herpes?

43:00 can you get tested without an outbreak?

47:00 sex as a polyam person

51:00 Courtney got a sex toy too small

54:00 jolihamilton.com

58:00 a Feeld app match gone awry 

1:03:00 saying no to sex

1:06:00 $2.45Million lawsuit about herpes transmission

1:15:00 elle0ellepdx on TT

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A traumatic attack caused our guest to reframe how she was living her one life. She’s now chosen to work as an erotica writer, a legal courtesan in a nevada brothel, and she’s here to talk about making positive connections between mind-body healing and sex work.

2:00 gang bang playwriting

4:00 a traumatic event showed a bird’s eye view of life

7:00 surviving the home invasion assault

10:00 find her at the brothel

14:00 be a nun or get married at 16, literally 

20:00 how to screen for clients

23:00 sexting advice

27:00 learn to see the strange as familiar

32:00 on being called “old” now

40:00 a sexy oracle reading

43:00 feel it to heal it

46:00 catholic guilt in the inbox

53:00 empowerment is the underlying theme

55:00 how AI writing scares us

58:00 more sex advice

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She’s been a top lesbian content creator on Youtube for a decade, now learn what’s next for Bria Kam after years of growing with her audience, and being part of the first successful UK revenge porn lawsuit. We talk love, strapons, and web work!

1:00 how we met

4:00 on making our own porn

7:00 on being “Mommy” 

10:00 how did you start filming?

14:00 they won the first ever UK revenge porn lawsuit

17:00 Pamela anderson was done dirty 

22:00 only one of us likes sucking D

25:00 advice for people who make X media?

29:00 dating polyam and monogs 

34:00 direct porn sales?

38:00 web searching “lesbian porn”

41:00 what kind of porn does Elle watch?

44:00 yes I can orgasm from penetration oooo

49:00 what is your top kink?

53:00 a new hope for love after a breakup

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Have you ever seen healthcare providers who have no idea what you are experiencing personally? Lucie Fielding is a therapist, sex educator and writer who saw the gaps in healthcare and the biases against trans people by their providers, and works to share info and insight about better clinical approaches to trans sexuality.

2:00 a clarifying anger

6:00 I want clients/people to feel lovable

9:00 psychoanalysis was designed to be intensive

13:00 what does Yes and No feel like in the body?

17:00 “these poor people”

20:00 what is anti-trans sensationalism

23:00 how people are misled to believe transphobia

28:00 what is muffing?

31:00 balls and labia are homologous tissue

35:00 https://fuckingtranswomen.org/

37:00 what are puberty blockers?

40:00 kids choosing their own identity prevents self harm

44:00 “ambivalence is essential to the change process”

47:00 top surgery and boob jobs

52:00 I need help with asking how to name their parts!

55:00 how do we name our parts?

59:00 what is Project 2025?

1:05:00 what’s next for Lucie?

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Let’s explore Oregon and and particularly Old Town Portland, which has its roots in racism, beer, gambling and sex work, and predatory policing. This city truly was built by alcoholics and hustlers: Let’s talk ghosts of old-timey Oregon with Weird History Podcast Host and author, Joe Streckert.

3:00 why weird history is important 

8:00 tour guide in Portland

11:00 a brief history of Vanport, Oregon

14:00 early Portland history demographics

17:00 beer and gambling and sw 

19:00 why is Oregon so white and covertly racist?

23:00 Oro Fino Saloon and enforcement against sex work 

26:00 why factory-working women also did SW

29:00 policing and sex work

32:00 Nita Belles is a modern day Lola Baldwin

35:00 psychics, bowling, shooting galleries were targeted by cops too

38:00 Chinese business owners and respectability politics

41:00 Marie Equi and birth control and lesbianism 

44:00 a note on eugenics and early birth control

47:00 prostitution and “green” attitudes

51:00 why are Oregon clubs so different from neighboring states?

55:00 all old downtown buildings may have been used as brothels or rooms

58:00 the myth(?) of Nancy Boggs and the floating brothel

1:06:00 QAnon is like early century white saviorism 

Find your guest on JoeStreckert.com and WeirdHistoryPodcast.com

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