Have you ever seen healthcare providers who have no idea what you are experiencing personally? Lucie Fielding is a therapist, sex educator and writer who saw the gaps in healthcare and the biases against trans people by their providers, and works to share info and insight about better clinical approaches to trans sexuality.

2:00 a clarifying anger

6:00 I want clients/people to feel lovable

9:00 psychoanalysis was designed to be intensive

13:00 what does Yes and No feel like in the body?

17:00 “these poor people”

20:00 what is anti-trans sensationalism

23:00 how people are misled to believe transphobia

28:00 what is muffing?

31:00 balls and labia are homologous tissue

35:00 https://fuckingtranswomen.org/

37:00 what are puberty blockers?

40:00 kids choosing their own identity prevents self harm

44:00 “ambivalence is essential to the change process”

47:00 top surgery and boob jobs

52:00 I need help with asking how to name their parts!

55:00 how do we name our parts?

59:00 what is Project 2025?

1:05:00 what’s next for Lucie?

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