She’s a model, full contact fighter and martial arts instructor, genderfluid princess and more: lets meet Sybilla Bakzaza.

3:00 martial arts, baseball, football, sailing, relay racing, US NAVY

5:00 a commentary on Marine culture or US Navy

8:00 (devil dock is a penis joke)

9:00 cross-dressing as an entry

12:00 American assimilation 

18:00 what can suck about gym environments

22:00 she has a team of Hulks on her side

25:00 how to screen employers/venues?

29:00 advice on showing up as trans in cis spaces?

32:00 you gotta project confidence 

34:00 red flags for clients

39:00 on bullying in the workplace

43:00 what is your support network?

49:00 perception is more powerful than truth sometimes

53:00 some people are only as good/bad as their commanders

55:00 sex tips!

59:00 some inspo and support from our guest

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