Anonymous has been with his partner, on and off, for about a year and a half now. They broke up twice in their relationship mostly because he used to go out a lot and also cheated on her. 

They are now back together but he suspects that she might be in a relationship with the guy she was having a thing with before they got back together. 

He doesn’t have any concrete evidence of this but says she tends to be evasive about her whereabouts and has done some things that make anonymous question her commitment.

Anonymous met a lady at the gym in the latter part of last year, the lady had a boyfriend, but they ended up having an affair. 

Things got more serious between them as they were spending a lot of time together and she told this lady that she’d like to make things official between them which caused a rift between them because this lady was struggling to break up with her boyfriend. 

The lady then told anonymous that she’s broken up with her boyfriend, and they continued with their relationship, however, it turned out that this lady was actually still having a thing with her boyfriend. 

They fought about this but kissed and made up…

Anonymous is in her late twenties and is a mother of an 18 month old baby. She was with the father of her child for about three years but the relationship was toxic and after she gave birth she broke up with her partner and moved out of his family home. 

Months after the break up she went back to the house to fetch her things, and this is when she met her ex’s new girlfriend. The new girlfriend then offered to support her child. 

They continued to chill and the new girlfriend then kissed anonymous and they ended up having sex. 

She’s now confused by her relationship with the new girlfriend, who’s supporting her child, however she’s worried about their relationship being transactional.

Anonymous and her partner have been together for two years now and during that they moved in together and built a house together. 

A couple of months after they bought the house, her partner started behaving differently, going out more and having fun with friends. Anonymous addressed his changed behaviour, he agreed to spend more time at home but it’s been going on for months now. 

Her partner disappeared over the long weekend which caused a rift between them once again. Her partner has now told her that he still wants to have fun and doesn’t want to live like an old married couple. 

Anonymous is not sure how to interpret this.

Anonymous has been with her partner since 2017 and they got married in 2019, she adds that he was a virgin when they met in their late twenties. 

Her problem is in the bedroom as he struggles to pleasure her and when she tries to find out what he likes, he’s not sure. 

Anonymous has tried many different things to get them on the same page sexually, but their sex life has not been improving.

Anonymous has been with her partner, guy no.1, for about 4 years now and things were fine until he lost his job and it created a burden on their relationship. 

She started noticing things about his treatment of her, realising that he often body shames her and is always speaking down to her. 

She has now started dating other people: guy no.2, who’s married and has said he doesn’t mind marrying anonymous as a second wife, and guy no.3, who she’s also having a good time with currently but is not sure if it’s just vibes or something more serious.

Anonymous and her fiancé have been in a relationship for over a decade now and live together with two of their children, including her child, from a previous relationship, and a child they have together. Her fiancé also had a child with someone else while they already in a relationship. 

Her problem is how her partner sometimes speaks to her, she feels that he can be very insensitive & harsh towards her. They have also cheated on each other in the past and that keeps coming up in their arguments. 

Anonymous her partner basically struggle when it comes to communication.

Anonymous broke up with his partner a few months ago, after five years together, because she cheated on him with a guy she had a history with. 

He feels as though things became problematic in their relationship after he lost his job and couldn’t provide for them anymore. 

Some time has gone by since the break-up and he’s wondering if he let go of the relationship too easily, he doesn’t want to rekindle the relationship, but he lost so much of himself in it and he is struggling to move forward.

Anonymous broke up with the father of her child 5 years ago after he cheated on her and impregnated another woman. 

He didn’t support their child after their break-up, and only started doing so after their child turned three. He’s now back in their lives and wants to get back together with anonymous after the lady he cheated on her with cheated on him. 

Anonymous is open to officially getting back together with him but her biggest struggle with this is accepting the child he had with the other woman, and that woman’s accessibility to him as the mother of his other child.

Anonymous met her partner in January this year and says their relationship has been great, he ticks all the boxes and she feels quite comfortable being herself around him. 

This past weekend while they were at gathering with friends, she caught him on a video call with another lady who was complaining that he doesn’t make time for her anymore. 

Anonymous’ partner says it’s someone he dated before who’s struggling to let him go, their relationship faded but they are still in communication.