#AskAMan

Anonymous met a man about 6 months ago and says when they started dated he told her that he was in a complicated relationship with the mother of his children. 

She says communication was fine in the beginning but it hasn’t been so great in recent weeks. When she questioned him about his change of behaviour, he told her that the mother of his child is giving him a hard time and that’s what’s affected him. 

She’s not sure what to read into all of this and wonders if she should wait it out and see what happens in this relationship, or just  move on.

Anonymous has been married to his partner for 9 years now and things were fine in their relationship until she lost her job.

He feels like she blames him for losing her job, he has now also lost his job and feels frustrated by her expectations of him. 

Anonymous has been married to his high school sweetheart for 5 years now and they’ve known each other for 12 years. 

The problem he has is the frequency of sex in their relationship. He’d like to do it more, however, she’s not keen to do it as often. 

He adds that they’ve also lost two pregnancies and that’s affected his wife to the point that she’s suggested he get a second wife and that’s what he’s grappling with.

Anonymous is in her early thirties and has been married for three years now. Their relationship is generally fine but the issue is in the bedroom. 

They met during the Covid-19 pandemic and spent a lot of time together. While they had a hot sex life in the beginning, things died down just before they got married and they haven’t been the same ever since. 

She’s not sure where they went wrong and feels like he’s lost interest in getting intimate with her.

Anonymous has been with her husband for about 13 years now and says the problems in their started when she realised he was cheating back in 2021.

She says it was hard for her to deal with this, and what made it worse was that his family knew and condoned it. 

She has tried to move on from this but he doesn’t seem remorseful and she’s not happy with how his family handled the whole situation.

Anonymous was in an on-and-off relationship with his now ex-partner for the last 7 years. 

He experienced a lot of betrayal and toxicity in that relationship and it’s left him in a position where he’s struggling to move forward and trust another woman.

He’s asking us to help him to be able to open up to a new relationship.

Anonymous has two children and they have different fathers. 

She was with the father of her second child for about 12 years and says it took her 6 years to heal from this relationship after things ended between them.

She met another guy who was getting a divorce when they met. He cheated on her multiple times, and abused physically and emotionally. 

She’s struggling get over the pain and the hurt of this relationship and doesn’t know if she’ll ever be ok.

Anonymous called us back in February and ended up breaking up with guy no.1 because  of the things he was doing in their relationship.

Now, months later, she started building something with a man she met six years ago and things are going well, however, guy no.1 is back in her life and wants to make things work, and the prophet at her church told her that guy no.1 is the one for her.

She feels like guy no.2 is great but she doesn’t know him that well and guy no.1 is really trying this time, so she doesn’t know what to do.

Anonymous has been with his partner for about 7 years now. 

She didn’t work when they met, however, in recent years she found a job, and lives in another province because of this job. 

The problem between them is finances, she is fairly accomplished now and has bought herself a car and a house. Despite this, she expects him to support her financially by helping her with her house, something he doesn’t understand as she has the means to take care of those things. 

They are now separated as a result of this conflict in their relationship.