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Anonymous is married and started having an affair with a married woman a few years ago. They eventually had a child together and have kept it a secret till this day. Anonymous used to spend time with the child, but the child has now turned 3 and they’ve had to stop the visits because the husband of anonymous’ side might find out. Anonymous has children in his marriage. Anonymous wants to have a relationship with the child but doesn’t know how to go about dealing with this.

Anonymous has been with her partner for the last 9 months and at the beginning of their relationship her partner did mention that he had been in some toxic relationships prior to them getting together. Anonymous says he’s been a good partner but they had a big fight and things changed after that. Anonymous says her partner is now seemingly emotionally detached. Anonymous also says she’s seen texts on his phone which have revealed cozy relationships with other women. Anonymous also says she has never heard an “I love you” from him.

Anonymous has been with her partner since 2011 and they are in a long distance relationship. During their relationship anonymous’ partner met a new colleague at work and when anonymous questioned their relationship, anonymous’ partner said their relationship was platonic. However, anonymous’ partner had a baby with the same woman a year after anonymous had her child with him. Anonymous’ partner then one day came with the child to their home because the mother of the baby said she needed a nanny. They continued with their relationship but years later when anonymous fell pregnant, she found out that this woman was also pregnant with her partner’s child once again.

Anonymous has been seeing a very prominent public figure for about a year now. Anonymous says his partner has now become controlling and doesn’t want him  to see other people. However, anonymous has a partner whom he adores but says the prominent figure he’s seeing provides for him financially, something he’s used to.

Anonymous is in a new relationship and she’s worried that her partner is over extending himself in supporting his family. Anonymous says he lives with his mom, sister and two of his sister’s kids. He takes care of all of them, including for school fees for his sister’s kids. Anonymous is worried that this is draining her partner and she’s worried if he’ll one day be able to take care of the family they might build together in future. Anonymous says they both feel like his family is taking advantage of him.

Anonymous says her and her partner are generally happy and she enjoys their time together. However, anonymous says they are always fighting, mostly because of his cheating. Anonymous says they’ve been 3 incidents in the last year, including one with the mother of his child who sometimes comes to his house during load shedding to get power & signal at his house. Anonymous says recently she has noticed suspicious behaviour with him another woman while they were out at one of his DJing gigs. Anonymous says she loves him but her problem is the cheating.

Anonymous has been with his partner have been together for 3 years and says their relationship was fine until they stopped working at the same place. Anonymous says he did cheat on his partner 8 months into the relationship but they were able to move forward. Anonymous says 4 days ago his partner pretty much broke up with him saying anonymous is insecure. Anonymous says he has recently been raising his concerns about some of the people she’s been communicating with, something anonymous’ partner sees as him suspecting her of being unfaithful towards him.

Anonymous met a man at work a few years ago and they started dating but anonymous soon found out that the man might have lied about being single and he is in fact married, something he denied multiple times but eventually found that he does have a wife. Anonymous met another guy in 2021 and the guy told anonymous that he senses that Muti was used on her by a previous partner and she needs to be cleansed. Anonymous wants to confront her ex about this and doesn’t know how to go about doing that.

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous. 

Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous. 

Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.