Authentically Kinky (formerly known as What Women and Other Wonderful Humans Want)

Angela Car (she/her) is a sex and kink positive disability educator born with Spina Bifida. Angela shares her unique perspective navigating relationships, sex, and intimacy. Angela came into the kink lifestyle 8 years ago and has been in a 24/7 total power exchange relationship for the past 5 years on the right side of the slash. Her areas of expertise include LGBTQ+, bladder and bowel incontinence, polyamory, and kink. Angela’s podcast called DISIRabilityALT explores disability, desire and alternative relationships.  . All who identify as female are welcome.

FallBunny is a 20-something non-bianary kinkster that is just beginning to delve into the wonderful world of kink. Staying home due to disabilities and being outside of the binary has given them an interesting look on life. Fall is always looking to learn something new and is always looking to help someone out. 

Lee Harrington is a sexuality, relationships, and personal authenticity educator. Having taught in all 50 states and across 6 countries, he brings a combination of playful engagement and thoughtful academic dialogue to a broad audience. An award-winning author and editor on human gender, sexual, and sacred experience, his books include “Traversing Gender: Understanding Transgender Journeys,”  among many other titles. He has been blogging online since 1998, and been teaching worldwide since 2001. You can check out Lee’s adventures, as well as his regular podcast, tour schedule, free essays, videos, and more, over at PassionAndSoul.com. 

Casey Carter is an erotic author, on-air personality, and fetish lifestyle expert. Her knowledge and expertise have made her an industry force whose influence has both educated and motivated publishing professionals, entertainment leaders, and the general mainstream. Whether in the classroom, out in the field at various nation-wide events, in the boardroom (or the bedroom), Casey Carter focuses her professional endeavors on the benefits of effective communication, intimacy and sexual awareness. 

Mistress Schari has been in the lifestyle (both BDSM & Swing Communities) as a player and as an educator for the last 20+ years. Schari is also a Sensuality Consultant with the largest in-home romance party company in North America for the last 14 years. Mistress Schari has been trained to lead her workshops from several field experts. Her training as a life coach and public speaker with Landmark Education since 1988 combined with her experience as a professional Domme, Sub and party specialist gives Schari unique lifestyle insights. They have enabled her to provide ALL genders and sexual orientations with a safe and comfortable environment in which to build their confidence and learn new techniques to expand and enhance their relationships.

Mistress Schari is based out of Northwest New Jersey, but travels throughout NJ, eastern PA, southern NY and CT, and surrounding areas. She also regularly attends conventions and events at several locations in the Tri-State Area.

Andi is a queer, non-monogamous kinkster who loves learning, thinking, and talking about all things related to psychology, human connections, and sex. Andi is a lover of life with their eyes wide open; always looking to learn and explore more depth and breadth. An active member of many communities, Andi is a practicing Tantrika; yogini; heavy player in BDSM - including lifestyle D/s play - and aspiring Sexological Bodyworker. To balance it all out, they are avid about safety and consent. Andi also enjoys spending time helping others to feel empowered in their own exploration of all these expansive activities through working as a founder and somatic therapist at TheraBee - a mental health provider in Ann Arbor, MI. 



https://therabeepsychology.com/Link to “Rise of the Phoenix” The scene between Andi and Catsuit:
https://hitherecatsuit.wordpress.com/2020/01/12/january-2020-rise-of-the-phoenix/
Also available on Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/users/7750698/posts/6043187

After studying Psychology,  Nikky left college to work in the adult
entertainment industry for 15 years.  During that time she has been told
thousands of sexual secrets and fantasies by my clients.  She’s often the
first person to hear them, with these stories never having been shared
with a spouse or partner.


That insight has led me to create her new podcast, In Bed with Nikky.
The show gives anyone the ability to anonymously confess a sexual
encounter, and have me share it with an audience of thousands
worldwide.  She now also regularly appears on other podcasts and shows to
talk about sexual issues.


You can reach her and share a confession via her website, dearnikky.com
Twitter and Instagram: @DNikky162

Ms Bossy Butterfly is a D-type...primal, alpha, sadist...but.. I prefer Mistress...I have been a Domme & continue to provide professional Dominatrix services. 


Fetlife: MsBossyButterfly
Article in show https://fetlife.com/users/3127816/posts/6689734

Lady Pim is a Professional Dominatrix, kink educator, and host of the multiple award winning Bed Post Podcast.

https://twitter.com/theladypim1
https://theritualchamber.ca/lady-pim/
https://thesonarnetwork.com/the-bed-post/

Pavlov’s kink is driven both by spirituality, and a deep, insatiable slut-hunger. In the regular world, she’s a domestic, a storyteller, and a trickster. She likes to retell the serious as absurd and makes an academic study of all things playful. Her sadomasochism manifests as dark sex, humor, and love. She believes dangerous things done thoughtfully can be healthy, but even simple things are dangerous when done thoughtlessly.
For the purposes of “What women want” it should be noted that she has NEVER been accused of being a normal woman.

KatzchenKlein is an academic by day, switchy rope slut by night. Described as a sensation junkie, her interests in kink are wide and varied on both sides of the slash. Newish to dating and non-traditional relationship structures, but enjoying the journey and the many friendships sparked along the way. 

Link to the class Pavlov is teaching as referenced in the show:
https://fetlife.com/events/947141
And her new blog: https://whatsallthis.blog/ 

Jane Boon lives in New York City and Los Angeles with her husband, Norm Pearlstine. She studied technology and policy at MIT and later received a Ph.D. in industrial engineering. Jane has written for publications like The Wall Street Journal, Bloomberg Time.com, McSweeneys.net, and TravelandLeisure.com. Jane enjoys improv and playing dress-up, including the time she wore a corset, garters and thigh-high stockings as a dominatrix in the Fox TV series, Gotham. EDGE PLAY is her first novel.  


Mistress Tara has been a professional and lifestyle Dominatrix for over 29 years. In the course of that time She's dominated over 10,000 men, taught more then 1000 professional dominatrixes and starred in over 200 Fetish Films. She is the founder of the Dungeon, Den of Iniquity.

Tara Indiana started her career as Dominatrix in New York City, 1989. She gained notoriety when she was crowned, Head Mistress at "The Paradise Club” and appeared in a photo layout with John Wayne Bobbit. It was also there she started Her infamous Dominatrix Classes which were quickly picked up by Playgirl, The Learning Annex and in the book "How to Seduce a Man”.

She went on to found, "The Den of Iniquity" in 1994 with her colleagues London and Paige. The first space was at 241 West 19th Street in NYC.  The Daily News described her as "The Martha Stewart of Dungeons" in an expose about the S&M scene in New York City. In 1997 she began performing at the S&M themed restaurant, "La Nouvelle Justine" where she met and performed for Joan Rivers and went on to guest on her show.

In 1998 She embarked on a career in Fetish Porn. She started her career at Gotham Gold defying the conventions of the time. In the 1990's, BDSM films were traditionally simulated and cast with actors. She was the first professional & working Dominatrix to appear in mainstream Fetish Porn doing real S&M.

She quickly rose to stardom and was invited to sign for Gotham at CES in 1999 where she met Dian Hanson who then featured Her in “Leg Show" in 2000. Later that year she signed again for Gotham at CES where she met legendary Porn Director and AVN Hall of Famer Rick Savage. Rick cast her in many of his films for Legend, Pleasure, Galaxy and Outlaw and began shooting at the Den. From 1998 - 2006 almost every S&M film shot in New York was shot at The Den of Iniquity and or with Den of Iniquity Mistresses. Tara retired from acting to produce and direct in 2004 for her own line, "Den of Iniquity Films"

Tara revolutionized the dungeon business by bringing a legitimate corporate culture and branding to what had been a seedy, underground business mostly controlled by organized crime. It was The first professional Dungeon to obtain a federal trademark, and the first, and, to date, only dungeon to go national as a chain. At its height, DOI had flagships in New York City, Phoenix and Los Angeles. The Den of Iniquity is known for it's long list of celebrity Dominatrices, Porn Stars and Fetish Models

But her proudest accomplishment to date was appearing on "The Daily Show' with John Stewart, during the 2004 Republican Convention. She is the first and only Dominatrix to be interviewed on “The Daily Show". As a longtime fan she considered it quite an honor, saying "Jon Stewart is the only man that's ever publicly humiliated me."

The Den of Iniquity celebrated its 20th Anniversary in September of 2014 with parties on both coasts. In attendance were over 200 Alumni. They flew in from all over the  the world to pay respect, reconnect and be honored for their contributions while celebrating what has always made the Den so special - the women.

At the New York Party, Tara Indiana retired as Head Mistress to pursue Her dream of teaching and political activism. 

On February 14th 2015, Tara Indiana staged the first of several political protests of "50 Shades of Grey" at the LA Live Debut. The protest were picked up by Reuters and soon spread to every major TV news station in the US and several international outlets.

Then, in 2016 she staged a satirical run for President under the banner of the “Female Supremacy Party”. From this, D.A.D (Dominatixes Against Donald Trump) was born. 

When Tara isn’t trying to unseat a sitting President, she is teaching women how to dominate men, through her workshop series, “The Art of Female Domination”. AFD offers women from all walks of life the opportunity to learn the way a professional Dominatrix learns; hands on. Her science based, empirical approach has been featured on Buzzfeed, Salon and Vice, culminating in an invitation to present at TEDxSanFrancsco on October of 2017.