Authority Issues

Authority Issues

By Rachel Perkins and Kendall MillerBusinessCareersManagement
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Authority Issues episodes

  • Episode 80: Anurag Sharma (Chargebee)

    In this episode, Kendall, rachel, and Anurag talk about:

    • Getting left in charge as a career progression mechanism
    • An "unusual" level of interest in affecting long-term strategy and systems thinking from an economics background
    • Betting on more candidates by giving them an opportunity outside of their current background
    • The vagueness of product management and strategy
    • Instilling a culture of ownership/safety when everyone is working remotely
    • How sometimes more meetings is...good? At least when onboarding, as a way to develop culture by seeing other people interact.
    • Onboarding that results in checking in code within 5 days
    • LOUD NOISES
    • Admiration for one's leaders, learning by watching them
    • Authority as responsibility to one's team vs power
    • Intermission to enjoy Kendall's dog
    • Safety to make mistakes as a child, wanting that for your team
    • rachel has Opinions about calling your colleagues your "family"
    • Loyalty to people vs company
    • Enjoyment of natural places
    • Using leadership skills to improve life with friends and family
    • You can find Anurag on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/asblr/

      Special thanks to Mel Stanley for our theme music <3

      42 min
    • Episode 79: Is it OK to be happy right now?

      In this episode, rachel and Kendall talk about:

      • Coping mechanisms: are some worse than others? Where is the line?
      • What happens when a planner can't make any plans?
      • rachel's effusive declarations about indie sewing patterns
      • Kendall's...disappointing COVID experience
      • Why does it seem wrong to feel happy when people around the world are suffering?
      • When it's helpful to compartmentalize
      • Clarifying what you're actually feeling guilty about
      • Happiness as self-care
      • How much authenticity is too much, at work?
      • The need for a mechanism for feeling hope
      • Hitting that bucket list
      • A song that changed the path of a life: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AXk5dXYw728
      • A quick detour for hot tub recommendations and rap lyrics from Kendall
      • The value of self-understanding, introspection, honesty
      • Polarization for good and bad reasons
      • Doing the little things that make you happy (like making a podcast with a good friend <3 )
      • Special thanks to Mel Stanley for our theme music <3

        50 min
      • Episode 78: Sean O'Connor (Datadog)

        In this episode, rachel, Kendall, and Sean talk about:

        • The genesis of this podcast, and who we have to thank
        • How taking the traditional path of CS to engineering leadership is the rare case
        • Getting into guiding and mentoring at a small company named Huge (lol)
        • Being glad for having done the deathmarch type work when you were younger
        • Learning many important lessons via a failed startup
        • Why consulting is often not appealing
        • Finally getting into bonafide engineering management, with no training
        • A free podcast idea: Awkward Silences
        • The blessing and curse of being a problemsolver
        • The idea that listening is an action
        • Not being able to let go of puns
        • Timing complexity when trying to promote internally
        • How high trust environments must exist across a given company to work well, and how this makes hiring a much higher stakes proposition
        • Intent to 3D print and make things out of wood
        • You can find Sean at seanoc.com

          Special thanks to Mel Stanley for our theme music <3

          47 min
        • Episode 77: Making an ass out of u and me (assuming positive intent)

          In this episode, rachel and Kendall talk about:

          • Dietary constraints for gout sufferers
          • Non-traditional Thanksgiving fare and excitement about cabbage rolls
          • Kendall's adventures in escalating vegetarianism
          • The definition of "assuming positive intent"
          • How the power dynamic matters
          • Why it's unreasonable to expect marginalized people to assume positive intent by default
          • Kendall realizes once again he's playing the game on "easy" mode
          • When assuming positive intent works well, why it's valuable and to whom
          • Why this episode has the "explicit" tag :)
          • A time when Kendall did not assume positive intent
          • The dangers of making "assume positive intent" a corporate policy
          • How this relates to injustice in the greater social world
          • Kendall's unflagging optimism about people
          • rachel's tactics for navigating a situation where you can't assume positive intent
          • Why intent is not as important as impact
          • How to serve a colleague or employee who reports discrimination
          • Our desire for more topics to discuss, tweet us at @djpiebob and @blatanterror with your requests!
          • Special thanks to Mel Stanley for our theme music <3

            50 min
          • Episode 76: Marilyn Cole (Tuft & Needle)

            In this episode, Kendall, rachel, and Marilyn talk about:

            • Wishing HAPPY BIRTHDAY to our guest :)
            • Growing up in a household that had computers
            • Working in tech: doing math, but also making money!
            • Going back to school, getting an internship at Google
            • The value of just having credentials (why to get a Masters degree)
            • The Wrong Kind of Management Training
            • Going back to being an IC....briefly
            • Getting crappy leadership advice
            • When not to "lighten the mood" and how the rules are different for men vs women
            • Enjoying the peer support of being a leader among several instead of being The One Boss
            • Educating Kendall about K&R, a rare opportunity to gatekeep for rachel :)
            • Enjoying being involved in decisionmaking vs being The Authority
            • Enthusiasm for houseplants and reading during the pandemic
            • You can find Marilyn on Twitter as @mmmarilyn :)

              Special thanks to Mel Stanley for our theme music <3

              48 min
            • Episode 75: Eli Daniel (Jellyfish)

              In this episode, rachel, Kendall, and Eli talk about:

              • The most apt failed startup name ever
              • A terrible first experience as a manager and being voluntold to try it again
              • Enjoying the force multiplier of leadership vs individual contribution
              • Oracle acquisition zingers (nice one, Kendall)
              • Being Guild-less at Spotify
              • Going from being told what to build to asking what should be built
              • Learning that it's important to also care about the business plan
              • Communicating and marketing business context to [naive|entitled] engineers
              • How that context helps drive a more collaborative process and empowers engineers
              • How big is too big? Kendall asking the important questions
              • The inevitability of acquiring a "superstructure of bullshit"
              • Outgrowing the "rah rah" aspect of working at a company
              • Feelings of beard inadequacy and enjoyment of bicycles
              • The romance of building a sailboat with your life partner
              • You can find Eli on the Rands Leadership Slack and on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/eli-daniel/

                Special thanks to Mel Stanley for our theme music <3

                49 min
              • Episode 74: The Future of Remote-First is Now! (also: Doesn't "Return to Work" imply we stopped working at some point?)

                In this episode, Kendall and rachel talk about:

                • Kendall's amazing inflatable hot tub
                • Having a little bit of guest visit enjoyment, as a treat
                • The quaint marvel that is rachel's small-town paper's Police Blotter
                • (here's the video i reference: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1mG2RGp-lcw&t=5s )
                • Wildlife encounters
                • Not blaming people who choose safety over working a service industry job
                • The need for a social safety net
                • A heartwarming tale of anonymous free fancy dinner
                • How companies who think "remote first" was just a phase are losing employees to the ones who realize it is the way of the future
                • The investment in support and infrastructure needed to successfully implement a "remote first" workplace
                • Ego-driven leadership and the need to survey one's domain
                • A theory about innovation needing people being in a room together
                • Whether the ability to multi-task during your Zoom meetings /really/ mean you're more productive?
                • How not having drive-by interruptions all day definitely helps
                • The possibility of a cultural split among companies -- in-person culture vs remote-first culture
                • Whether our listeners want more of this kind of episode--let us know!
                • Special thanks to Mel Stanley for our theme music <3

                  48 min
                • Episode 73: Why do people cling to their shitty ways? How and when do we embrace change?

                  In this episode, rachel and Kendall talk about:

                  • More than you wanted to know about grocery store ginger purchases
                  • How some people use the term "a couple" to mean something other than exactly 2 and that they are Wrong
                  • Examples of technologies that suck but people still use
                  • Being caught up in the glories of the past (rachel would like to point out that she used a sharpie to black out Gene Simmons on her KISS shirt)
                  • The downsides of Agile/continuous shipping of things vs Waterfall (warning, heresy inside)
                  • Blaming growing inflexibility as one gets older
                  • Unselfawareness in the face of serial shittiness
                  • Two reasons: arrogance or laziness
                  • How one gets stuck, how to know if you're stuck
                  • Recommendations:
                    • rachel: The Great British Sewing Bee (tv show, if you liked GBBO, you'll probably like this too)
                    • rachel: The Alienist (kinda gruesome, moody period crime drama)
                    • Kendall: fail videos from user mrmrmike on YouTube (great way to learn things NOT to do)
                    • Special thanks to Mel Stanley for our theme music <3

                      48 min
                    • Episode 72: Money is all that matters (a Very Special Installment)

                      In this episode, Kendall and rachel talk about:

                      • Spending money on Things and our feelings about that
                      • Are we the baddies?
                      • The nature of golden handcuffs
                      • What is "enough"?
                      • "Work" as a social outlet
                      • Contentment vs. satisfaction
                      • Kendall's wanderlust and associated twitchiness
                      • Enabling satisfaction for your employees
                      • Impact and the effectiveness of giving money vs. personal involvement and time
                      • Whether it's simpler (NOT easier) to be "poor"
                      • Underlying feelings of guilt/not deserving
                      • The stress of not being able to make working "good" for one's employees
                      • Recommendations for (unrelated) books:
                        • Kendall recommends: James Baldwin's The Fire Next Time
                        • rachel recommends: Gamechanger and Dealbreaker by L.X. Beckett (and Crucial Conversations by Kerry Patterson, Joseph Grenny, Al Switzler, Ron McMillan)
                        • Special thanks to Mel Stanley for our theme music <3

                          53 min
                        • Episode 71: Amy Chantasirivisal (Unicycle)

                          In this episode, Kendall, rachel, and Amy talk about:

                          • The olden dayze of Geocities and people hating on Javascript
                          • The scrum leadership to management pipeline
                          • Kendall's Litany Of Agile Atereotypes
                          • Getting promoted Too Fast
                          • Hypotheses about the ability to succeed using progressive management philosophies
                          • Wanting to leave the tech industry "better than we found it"
                          • Joining early for a greater impact on the culture
                          • Focus on strategy vs process as a signifier of seniority
                          • Twitter as a leadership training ground
                          • Leveraging authority should be uncomfortable
                          • The "ooh, shiny" approach to hobby acquisition
                          • Woodworking nerdery, a macrame + shelf project!
                          • You can find Amy on Twitter at @amychanta

                            Special thanks to Mel Stanley for our theme music <3

                            47 min

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