What We Cover:

• Chellie's journey from rural Missouri to the top of the styling industry
• Why your wardrobe reflects your self-worth and mental state
• The closet audit process: what to toss and why it matters energetically
• How to find your signature style (and why it’s your secret visibility weapon)
• What to wear when stepping onto big stages or public platforms
• The role of properly fitted bras, tailoring, and investment pieces
• Style as a tool for transformation, visibility, and becoming

Challenge:
Join the 30-Day Style Challenge — Get dressed each day in an outfit that reflects your next-level self. Take selfies, track your evolution, and notice what shifts in your energy, confidence, and visibility.

Connect with us:

Instagram: @chelliecarlson

Instagram: @iamdeidresirianni

Join Chellie's Style Membership: https://www.chelliecarlson.com/the-style-society

00:00 – 03:00 | Intro + setting the tone for real talk on adult friendships
03:00 – 08:00 | Story 1: When someone projected blame over rescheduling
08:00 – 13:00 | Story 2: A potential biz partnership that was released
13:00 – 18:00 | The emotional maturity filter for who gets access to your energy
18:00 – 23:00 | On not “training” people new to your world how to treat you
23:00 – 30:00 | Red flags in new friendships: blame, projection, judgment, control
30:00 – 35:00 | Respect, boundaries, and non-negotiables
35:00 – 40:00 | Honoring friendship seasons and detoxing without drama
40:00 – 45:00 | What real spiritual, respectful friendship looks and feels like
45:00 – Close | Reflective questions + invitation for listener engagement

In This Episode, We Dive Into:

• Why most people don’t get results from courses or coaching (and how to be the exception)
• The uncomfortable truth about personal accountability
• What "upper limits" are and how they sabotage your success
• Three ways your ego tricks you into opting out (and how to catch it)
• How to stay committed when discomfort creeps in
• The power of choosing your vision—even when it’s hard

Resources Mentioned:

The Big Leap by Gay Hendricks

Speak to Scale: https://www.radicallyaligned.com/speak-to-scale

Let’s Connect:
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In this energizing episode, Deidre Sirianni is joined by online event strategist Melissa Ng to unpack the massive shift from in-person to virtual events—and why it's one of the most profitable moves you can make in 2025. They talk candidly about AI disrupting the job market, the burnout of constant content creation, and how online events are becoming the most powerful way to build trust, visibility, and revenue—fast.

Deidre and Melissa also drop a major announcement: their upcoming 5-Day Free Visibility & Impact Accelerator, a collaborative virtual event designed to teach coaches and consultants how to grow their impact and income through story-driven events and magnetic messaging.

If you’re tired of hustling, posting daily, or wondering why others are scaling faster—this episode is your sign to change the game.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• Melissa Ng’s journey from accountant to 7-figure online entrepreneur
• The real reason job security is dead—and what to do about it
• Why AI will never replace your story, intuition, and voice
• The overlooked power of virtual events in building high-trust relationships
• Deidre’s surprising data on where her most profitable speaking hours come from (hint: it's not big stages!)
• A behind-the-scenes look at their collaboration and upcoming 5-day challenge

🎉 Special Announcement:
Deidre and Melissa are hosting a FREE 5-Day Visibility & Impact Accelerator from June 9–13—designed for coaches, consultants, and online experts ready to stop hustling and start converting through virtual events.

Join the Free 5-Day Visibility & Impact Accelerator → [JOIN NOW]

Is your voice helping you grow your business—or silently sabotaging you?

In this raw and powerful episode, Deidre reveals how your voice communicates your beliefs, authority, and subconscious energy before your words even land. She shares her personal story preparing for her TEDx talk, how trauma shaped her tone, and the real reason many powerful women aren't being heard or hired.

🔍 You’ll learn:

• Why tone and resonance are more powerful than the words you say
• The psychology behind vocal patterns and how they affect your business
• What high-pitched, question-mark sentences might be telling your audience
• How childhood patterns (like not being taken seriously) show up in your voice
• How to speak from your body—not just your mouth—to land your message
• The 3 steps to owning your voice and being taken seriously
• Why your voice may be sabotaging your sales, stage presence, and visibility

This episode is a must-listen if you're a coach, healer, or thought leader who wants to make an impact from the stage, on podcasts, and in your content.

🎤 Want to master your voice, messaging, and stage presence?
Learn more about the Speak to Scale program here:
👉 [See More Details Here]

📩 Email your screenshot of a review to: [email protected] to be entered to win access to Deidre’s Turn Your Light On program (valued at $2,000).

In This Episode, You’ll Hear:

• What embodied leadership really means
• The power of showing up even when you're unprepared or messy
• A behind-the-scenes moment from Deidre’s Speak to Scale program
• Why trying to “perform” leadership blocks your impact
• How Deidre’s mentor called her out—and why it changed everything
• How to recognize if you’re leading from truth or from a mask
• What it means to turn your light on (especially in hard seasons)

This episode is for you if:

• You’re tired of feeling like you have to be perfect to lead
• You’re navigating a tough season but still want to rise
• You want to build a business and life from your authentic truth
• You’re ready to lead with heart, vulnerability, and power

Mentioned Inside:
✨ Speak to Scale Program — Join the Waitlist
✨ Grab Your Copy of Deidre's book: Turn Your Light On
✨ Follow on IG: @iamdeidresirianni

[00:00] Welcome & introduction to today’s topic: intuition and aligned decision-making

[01:40] The backstory: moving to California after writing her second book

[04:15] Signs from the universe to stay in Ashland (and how she ignored them)

[10:30] The consequences of overriding intuition—struggles, toxic patterns, and burnout

[14:00] How intuition communicates through your physical body

[18:20] Asking for a clear sign (and actually listening!)

[22:00] A body-led method to receive yes/no answers

[24:30] Lessons from choosing the harder path, and reclaiming your purpose

[27:45] Creative breakthroughs and writing the song “Perfect Distraction”

[30:10] How misaligned relationships can derail—or activate—your purpose

[34:00] An invitation to ask for a sign & tune into your body’s wisdom

[36:00] Listener challenge & how to get in touch

🔗 Links & Resources Grab a Copy of Deidre’s book Turn Your Light On https://www.amazon.ca/TURN-YOUR-LIGHT-truth-meant/dp/B0B53B6Q5N/ref=sr_1_1?crid=BTNG0UE008VY&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.XaaCi7KEynpNKkNnIEb7Gg.FaSsdEgvofJCnId36aPkv03RU3MqmZKgdCg_zatZTH0&dib_tag=se&keywords=turn+your+light+on+deidre+sirianni&qid=1745503894&sprefix=turn+your+light+on+de%2Caps%2C445&sr=8-1 

Join the Speak to Scale 6-Month Program with Deidre Sirianni https://www.radicallyaligned.com/speak-to-scale 

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🎁 Win a Spot in “Turn Your Light On” Leave a review on the show and submit a screenshot via email to enter our monthly draw for this transformational 8-week program. 

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📋 Show Notes In this episode, you’ll learn: 

[00:00] Why consistency is freedom (not a prison) 

[03:15] The hidden dopamine addiction stealing your focus 

[06:30] Why quick fixes don't stick—and what actually does 

[10:45] How to identify what's pulling you off track 

[16:00] Daily rituals and habit stacking for effortless consistency 

[20:30] Why “not feeling like it” doesn’t get a vote 

[25:45] Rewards, boundaries, and getting gritty 

[31:15] The truth about "high vibes only" and spiritual bypassing 

[36:00] Your challenge: What will you commit to this week? 

🔗 Links & Resources Grab a Copy of Deidre’s book Turn Your Light On https://www.amazon.ca/TURN-YOUR-LIGHT-truth-meant/dp/B0B53B6Q5N/ref=sr_1_1?crid=BTNG0UE008VY&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.XaaCi7KEynpNKkNnIEb7Gg.FaSsdEgvofJCnId36aPkv03RU3MqmZKgdCg_zatZTH0&dib_tag=se&keywords=turn+your+light+on+deidre+sirianni&qid=1745503894&sprefix=turn+your+light+on+de%2Caps%2C445&sr=8-1 

Join the Speak to Scale 6-Month Program with Deidre Sirianni https://www.radicallyaligned.com/speak-to-scale 

🌟 Gloci | Skin + Gut Health Supplement Ready for a glow-up from the inside out? Try Gloci, Deidre’s go-to for radiant skin and digestive balance. This link below will give you 10% off your first order (US based customers only) → https://getgloci.com/RADICALLY 

🎁 Win a Spot in “Turn Your Light On” Leave a review on the show and submit a screenshot via email to enter our monthly draw for this transformational 8-week program. 

🎧 Never Miss an Episode & Subscribe

In this episode of the Awakening HER: Life & Business Podcast, Deidre dives deep into a pattern many of us don't even realize we have: sabotaging the very things we say we want. Whether it's love, business success, or peace in your personal life, we all hit what Gay Hendricks calls "the upper limit"—the subconscious threshold for how good we're allowed to have it. 

This Episode covers:

• Why chaos can feel safer than calm especially if you’ve experienced trauma
• How we recreate old stories in our business and relationships
• The 3 common ways we sabotage when things are going well
• Why commitment not motivation is the key to real growth
• Personal stories from her move across the country, new relationship, and emotional expansion

💡 Plus: How to rewire your nervous system for success, and what to do when peace feels... uncomfortable. 

🎁 Want to go deeper? Check out the Speak to Scale program—a 6-month container for thought leaders ready to tell their story scale their impact, and become known. Join The Speak to Scale Program Here https://www.radicallyaligned.com/speak-to-scale 

Grab a copy of her book Turn Your Light On Here 

https://www.amazon.ca/TURN-YOUR-LIGHT-truth-meant/dp/B0B53B6Q5N/ref=sr_1_1?crid=SV256LALUK27&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.XaaCi7KEynpNKkNnIEb7Gg.FaSsdEgvofJCnId36aPkv03RU3MqmZKgdCg_zatZTH0&dib_tag=se&keywords=turn+your+light+on+book+deidre+sirianni&qid=1745500520&sprefix=turn+your+light+on+book+deidre+sirianni%2Caps%2C99&sr=8-1

Check out Deidre's song Touch My Skin on Spotify.     

📝 Leave a review, send a screenshot to [email protected], and be entered to win a spot in the $2,000 Turn Your Light On program.

You’ll Learn:

How to know when a relationship is draining vs. fueling you

The power of saying the hard thing and protecting your peace

Why gossip, drama, and energetic chaos are major success blockers

How to have direct conversations that free you (and others)

What to do when a client or friend starts to disrespect your time and energy

How to identify jealousy and subtle sabotage in your circles

Key questions to assess your relationships today

Ask Yourself:

Do I feel expanded or contracted around this person?

Am I being my full self or playing small to be accepted?

Are my boundaries clear—or constantly being crossed?

Sponsor Spotlight:
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Programs Mentioned:

🎤 Speak to Scale – If you're a changemaker ready to share your story and scale your business through speaking, learn more and apply here → https://www.radicallyaligned.com/speak-to-scale

Connect with Deidre:

Instagram → @iamdeidresirianni

Website → www.radicallyaligned.com