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  • 50: How to Manage Stress and Prevent Burnout with Gabrielle Juliano-Villani, LCSW

    Struggling with burnout? You're not alone! Burnout is a real struggle, and sometimes we don't even realize we're experiencing it. Gabrielle Juliano-Villani, a licensed clinical social worker, shares her personal experience of dealing with burnout and how it led her to shift her focus from therapy to coaching and consulting. She discusses the impact of stress on our lives and the importance of understanding our nervous system's response to stress. She also offers insights into recognizing burnout and gives strategies for managing it, such as setting boundaries and prioritizing self-care.

     

    About Gabrielle Juliano-Villani:

    Gabrielle is a licensed clinical social worker, consultant, coach, entrepreneur and educator based in Sarasota, Fl. She has been in the mental health field for over a decade specializing in stress, chronic health conditions, and trauma. After scaling her group practice to 7 figures and realizing her own burnout in 2021, she sold her thriving group practice and made it her mission to educate others on the impact stress has on our everyday lives. Gabrielle pulls from her experience as an EMDR and Polyvagal Informed therapist to utilize mind/body approaches to help others implement everyday strategies to manage stress and live their best lives. Gabrielle is an international speaker, retreat leader, and has been featured in Authority Magazine, The Daily Om, Bustle, and the Everyday Woman TV Network. When she's not working, Gabrielle is teaching Zumba, surfing, or reading a psychological thriller at the beach.

     

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    Key Topics:

    •  (03:45) Polyvagal theory
    •  (05:50) Recognizing signs of burnout: irritability, apathy, and negativity
    •  (10:35) Dealing with internal struggles and boundaries as a business owner
    •  (12:20) Setting boundaries for work-life balance
    •  (14:50) The value of time and outsourcing tasks
    •  (18:45) Benefits of flexible work schedules and avoiding burnout
    •  (21:00) Common theme of burnout: apathy and lack of joy
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      Listen to The Mental Health Entrepreneur podcast:

      podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mental-health-entrepreneur/id1724750091

       

       

      This episode is sponsored by Tatiana Tsoir - a tax and business strategist, CPA and MBA who makes your life less taxing: we reduce your taxes legally, so that you make and keep more of your money. To learn more, visit tatianatsoir.com and/or tatianatsoir.as.me/20minintro!

      25 min
    • 49: Finding Self-Care That Works For You with Traci W. Pirri, LCSW-S, EMDR Approved Consultant

      Exercising, taking a bubble bath, relaxing on the couch…you’ve heard of the “typical” self-care routines. What about personalized self-care? Traci W. Pirri, owner of Hope for the Journey, discusses her thoughts on personalized self-care and the importance of finding activities that align with your own individual needs and personality type. Traci shares her personal journey of realizing her need for active forms of self-care, and how finding what worked best for her has positively impacted her life and relationships. She also highlights the prevalence of autoimmune disorders and chronic illness among caregivers and the need to address the impact of stress on the body.

       

      About Traci W. Pirri:

      Traci graduated with her Masters of Social Work in 2001, earned her LCSW in 2003, was EMDR Trained in 2018, and became an Approved Consultant in 2023. She owns Hope For The Journey, a group practice in Austin, Texas that specializes in sexual trauma recovery and uses EMDR as its main modality. She has advanced training in dissociation and Internal Family Systems, as well as many other modalities. She is an adoptive mother of 2, loves to travel, and can easily nerd out on a spreadsheet.

       

      facebook.com/HopeForTheJourney 

      hopeforthejourney.org

       

       

      Key Topics:

      •  (03:55) Self-care for trauma therapists
      •  (05:30) Traci’s journey of realizing the need for more self-care
      •  (07:40) Prioritizing your own self-care; finding what works best for you
      •  (10:30) Enneagram 9 versus 3; differences in self-care preferences
      •  (16:50) Connection between lack of self-care and chronic illness
      •  (24:00) Embracing your self-care needs and having flexibility
      •  (25:30) Leaning into moments of joy; finding adult equivalents of childhood activities
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        Listen to The Mental Health Entrepreneur podcast:

        podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mental-health-entrepreneur/id1724750091

         

         

        This episode is sponsored by Tatiana Tsoir - a tax and business strategist, CPA and MBA who makes your life less taxing: we reduce your taxes legally, so that you make and keep more of your money. To learn more, visit tatianatsoir.com and/or tatianatsoir.as.me/20minintro!

        31 min
      • 48: Breaking Free from the Boxes: Unapologetic Authenticity with Dr. Emy Tafelski

        In a world that constantly bombards us with messages about who we should be and how we should act, embracing unapologetic authenticity can be a transformative journey. According to Dr. Emy Tafelski, a licensed therapist turned transformational coach, authenticity is the magical elixir that can heal us and the world around us. 

         

        In this episode, Dr. Tafelski shares her own journey of healing and self-discovery after the loss of her mother, which led her to question societal expectations and embrace her authentic self. She explains how she helps women break free from the boxes they've been forced into and guides them on a journey of unweaving the threads of trauma, cultural messaging, and family conditioning that have shaped their identities. She also discusses her spiritual practice and connecting with divine feminine energy. If you’re ready to live life on your own terms, hit play and learn how to unweave the threads that no longer serve you!

         

        About Dr. Emy Tafelski:

        Dr. Tafelski is a licensed therapist turned transformational coach who guides women done being who they’ve been told they should be and ready to stand in their unapologetic authenticity. She helps them break free from the chains holding them down so that they can rise, finally feeling good enough, and knowing who the f*ck they actually are. Her work stems directly from her own healing journey with unapologetic authenticity that began with countless mornings waking up despairing, with the thought, “this is going to be my life for the next 50 years”. It is her mission to help women break free from the boxes they’ve been forced into so they can live life as they truly are and experience freedom, joy, and confidence. She believes that authenticity is the magical elixir that can heal us and the world around us.

         

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        Key Topics:

        •  (02:15) Dr. Tafelski's personal journey of healing
        •  (04:45) The Soul Guidance Practice;  a goddess-based spiritual practice
        •  (09:40) Helping women break free from societal boxes
        •  (13:10) Finding self-worth and external validation in a patriarchal society
        •  (17:40) The need for therapists to experience their own self-discovery
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          Connect with Kasey and Kelsey:

          instagram.com/hikaseycompton

          facebook.com/hikaseycompton

          kaseycompton.com/backporchbestie

           

           

          Listen to The Mental Health Entrepreneur podcast:

          podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mental-health-entrepreneur/id1724750091

          24 min
        • 47: A Book Launch Is A Lot Like Giving Birth

          From feeling exposed to experiencing joy, launching “In Search of You” has been a rollercoaster of emotions for Kasey. In this episode, the besties discuss the experience of launching a book and the highs and lows that come with it. Kasey opens up about the support she received during the book launch party, highlighting those that attended (and those that didn’t). She also reflects on the feedback she has received so far, including hitting the Amazon Hot New Releases list. Hit play for all of the behind-the-scenes details of launching a memoir/self-help book and how it’s a lot like giving birth - uncomfortable, exciting, and full of curiosity!

           

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          Key Topics:

          •  (01:30) Launching a memoir-style self-help book vs a business book
          •  (06:00) Positive reviews and feedback received
          •  (10:20) Finding fulfillment; Launch party speech
          •  (14:20) Comparing the first book launch to the current one
          •  (19:00) Unexpected readers; Joey Joey and Aunt Vern
          •  (20:20) Staying authentic and ruffling some feathers
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            Connect with Kasey and Kelsey:

            instagram.com/hikaseycompton

            facebook.com/hikaseycompton

            kaseycompton.com/backporchbestie

             

             

            This episode is sponsored by Tatiana Tsoir - a tax and business strategist, CPA and MBA who makes your life less taxing: we reduce your taxes legally, so that you make and keep more of your money. To learn more, visit tatianatsoir.com and/or tatianatsoir.as.me/20minintro!

            22 min
          • 46: Embracing Your Authentic Voice with Berit Elizabeth, MA

            Ever struggled with having hard conversations? Did you know that our body language, posture, and voice can impact how we feel and how others perceive us during difficult conversations? It’s true! Berit Elizabeth, Founder and CEO of Practice Axis, shares her journey as an entrepreneur and anti-shame activist, discussing her technique called Emotive Agility. She explains how this technique can help you navigate difficult conversations and express emotions effectively. Berit also shares her own personal experience of losing her voice after being diagnosed with ETP (eager to please) and NGE (not good enough), which led to her developing an awareness about how she communicates. If you're eager to improve your communication skills, build better relationships, and find confidence in your own authentic voice, this is the episode for you!

             

            About Berit Elizabeth:

            Berit is the CEO & Founder of Practice Axis, the first clinical CRM for mental health practices, and a self-proclaimed anti-shame activist. She originated Practice Axis by combining her extensive sales and leadership experience across fitness, finance and consulting industries with her long standing passion that mental health should be as prioritized as physical health. Practice Axis helps client care coordinators to “take the headache out of intake” with a Client Relationship Management software that gives practice owners the business insights they need to increase revenue while increasing access to care. 

             

            Berit also developed the Emotive Agility Training technique at NYU and over the last 20 years has been teaching emotional intelligence skills for difficult conversations to people of all ages and abilities. She is also the creator of Speak Club, a public speaking club for women. An anti-shame activist, Berit constantly seeks new ways to identify and counteract shame-producing systems within religion and culture, and within herself.

             

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            facebook.com/PracticeAxis

            linkedin.com/in/beritelizabeth

            Context on Emotive Agility 

             

             

            Episode Time Stamps:

            •  (01:50) Berit's technique of Emotive Agility 
            •  (04:20) Tips for navigating difficult conversations
            •  (08:30) Conscious awareness of regulating emotions, voice, and body language
            •  (12:30) Berit’s personal experience with people-pleasing and lack of confidence in speaking; ETP (eager to please) and NGE (not good enough)
            •  (18:55) Embracing authenticity and being confident using your voice
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              kaseycompton.com/backporchbestie

               

              22 min
            • 45: Exploring Sexuality, Gender and Relationships with Noelle Clason, LMFT, PhD Candidate in Human Sexuality

              Dive into the fascinating realm of human sexuality, gender expression, and consensual non-monogamy with Noelle Clason, founder of Sex-Positive Therapy! Noelle shares her background and expertise in gender, sexuality, and relationships, particularly within marginalized communities. She discusses the importance of creating a safe space for clients, the normalization of open conversations about sex, and the role of therapy in supporting individuals navigating their sexual and gender identities. Noelle also breaks down the meaning of various terms, such as BDSM, kink, fetish, and consensual non-monogamy. Tune in to this episode that challenges societal norms and opens the door to a more inclusive understanding of love and connection!

               

              About Noelle Clason:

              Noelle Clason is a licensed marriage and family therapist, sex therapist, and Ph.D. Candidate in human sexuality. Her academic work and clinical practice focus on sexuality, gender, and alternative relationships. Her work is grounded in non-judgement, celebration, and sex-positive approaches to sexuality and gender. 

               

              She is the founder of Sex-Positive Therapy, a clinical practice specializing in serving sexual and gender minority clients: LGBTQ+ and queer, transgender and gender expansive, current and former sex workers, those practicing consensual non-monogamy or polyamory, and those involved in BDSM/kink. 

               

              As a queer, cisgender woman who practices consensual non-monogamy herself, she is deeply connected to these underserved communities both personally and professionally. She offers sex-positive consultation for group practices and is passionate about helping other therapists better welcome, understand, and care for clients seeking help with their sexuality, gender, or relationships.

               

              sexpositivetherapy.com

               

              *Savannah Lyle, the client care coordinator for Mindsight Behavioral Group, also joins this conversation!

               

               

              Episode Timestamps:

              •  (02:20) Noelle’s background on her work as a therapist
              •  (04:57) Creating a safe space and having open conversations about sexuality
              •  (06:46) Kasey’s personal experiences with therapy and new sexual experiences
              •  (16:55) Explaining the BDSM and kink community
              •  (20:25) The concept of a sexual container
              •  (24:20) Consensual non-monogamy and different types of relationships
              •  (27:01) Finding communities and resources for consensual non-monogamy
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                31 min
              • 44: The Pursuit of Joy with Jeffrey Shaw

                Success isn’t just about business accomplishments, but also about personal growth and becoming the best version of yourself. Jeffrey Shaw, an authority and advocate for self-employed business owners, joins this conversation to discuss the pursuit of joy, the challenges of high achievement, and the importance of wearing your heart on the outside. He shares his experience with grief, challenges of same-sex relationships, and the importance of passion and authenticity. Jeffrey's unique perspective on life and business will inspire and motivate you to embrace your own journey in life!

                 

                About Jeffrey Shaw:

                Jeffrey Shaw is often described as an authority and advocate for self-employed business owners, valued for his actionable and “in the trenches” approach to achieving business and life success. Why shouldn’t he be? How many people can say they’ve never worked for anyone else? Selling eggs door-to-door at 14 years old led to a lifetime of self-employment. 

                 

                In his twenties, he built a portrait photography business and became one of the most sought-after portrait photographers for affluent families in the U.S. for more than three decades. His portraits have been on the Oprah Show, CBS News, featured in People and O Magazine and hang at Harvard University. 

                 

                Today, Jeffrey is the author of LINGO and The Self-Employed Life, host of The Self-Employed Life podcast with over two-million downloads, and founder of the Self-Employed Business Institute. His TEDx Talk is featured on TED.com, he’s a LinkedIn Learning instructor, contributor to Entrepreneur Magazine and speaks at association events, entrepreneurial groups, and conferences.

                 

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                Key Topics: 

                •  (06:20) Pursuit of joy and finding it in different places
                •  (09:00) The impact of loss and navigating through difficult times
                •  (12:30) Mystical hummingbirds and searching for meaning in unexpected places
                •  (18:05) Brain priming and recognizing what is already known
                •  (21:55) The land between logic and the mystical
                •  (23:50) Acknowledging personal and professional accomplishments  
                •  (28:10) Identifying misalignment with sexuality and the quest to find passion
                •  (34:40) Wearing your heart outside of your body
                •  (37:20) High Achievers Mastermind and the intentional curation of participants 
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                  43 min
                • 43: Breaking the Silence on Hearing Loss with Dr. Dawn Heiman, AuD

                  Why is hearing loss often overlooked and underdiagnosed? In this episode, clinical audiologist Dr. Dawn Heiman delves into the societal taboo surrounding discussions and check-ups for hearing impairments and advocates for the normalization of when to seek help. She discusses how individuals with hearing loss are often undertreated, not always taken seriously, and can negatively affect their cognitive development when not properly treated. She also touches on how hearing loss can have a harmful impact on one's interpersonal relationships. Tune in for all the details on prioritizing your hearing health and addressing hearing loss as soon as possible!

                   

                  About Dr. Dawn Heiman, AuD:

                  Dr. Dawn Heiman is a clinical audiologist. She organizes EntreAudiology.net, where she helps other audiology practice owners through Audiology Mastermind Groups as well as giving Practice Management guidance and advice. She is the owner of Advanced Audiology Consultants in Oak Brook and Woodridge, IL. She attained her Clinical Doctorate in Audiology (AuD) from the Pennsylvania College of Optometry, School of Audiology. She obtained a Bachelor of Arts degree from the University of Pittsburgh and her Master of Science degree in Audiology from Bloomsburg University of Pennsylvania. 

                   

                  Dr. Heiman is a member of the Academy of Doctors of Audiology and the American Academy of Audiology. Dr. Dawn has given many lectures on various topics regarding hearing loss, hearing aids, psychosocial aspects of hearing loss, prevention of hearing loss, cochlear implants, and auditory processing disorders to various private and public groups in hospitals and civic organizations in the Philadelphia and Chicago areas.

                   

                  chicagoaudiologyandhearingaids.com

                  entreaudiology.net

                   

                   

                  Key Topics: 

                  •  (02:31) Hearing loss: a taboo topic of discussion 
                  •  (03:35) Difficulties with attachment and interpersonal relationships
                  •  (06:14) Decline of mental health and cognitive abilities 
                  •  (07:54) Inaction due to negative stigma associated with hearing loss
                  •  (16:59) Two different cultures of hearing loss: hard of hearing or deaf
                  •  (18:44) How Dr. Heiman ended up in audiology 
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                    25 min
                  • 42: Letting Go of Outcomes and Unlocking Creativity with Susie deVille

                    Susie deVille, founder and CEO of the Innovation and Creativity Institute, shares her mission to help entrepreneurs and visionary leaders connect with their creativity, discover their true selves, and unlock their entrepreneurial potential. This conversation taps into the importance of embracing creativity, overcoming cultural messaging, and finding joy and fulfillment in life. Tune in to learn about the transformative power of unleashing your creative side, as well as gain practical tips for incorporating creativity into your everyday life!

                     

                    FREE Toolkit for Entrepreneurs: InnovationandCreativityInstitute.com/bestie

                     

                    About Susie deVille:

                    Susie deVille, author, speaker, and Founder & CEO of the Innovation & Creativity Institute, is on a mission to show entrepreneurs and visionary leaders how to connect with the source waters of their creativity, home in on whom they truly are, and unlock their entrepreneurial potential. She helps business owners and creators learn and leverage the power of trusting themselves and lean into the surprising alchemy of inspired action. Her award-winning book, BUOYANT: The Entrepreneur's Guide to Becoming Wildly Successful, Creative, and Free, is available wherever books are sold.

                     

                    Twitter: twitter.com/susiedeville 

                    Instagram: instagram.com/susie_deville/ 

                    Facebook: facebook.com/susie.deville facebook.com/innovationandcreativityinstitute 

                    Tiktok: @TheRealSusiedeVille 

                    Linkedin: linkedin.com/in/susiedeville/ https://innovationandcreativityinstitute.com/

                     

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                    Key Topics:

                    •  [06:00] Cultural messaging and the loss of creativity in adulthood
                    •  [10:30] Tapping into your intuition, imagination, and courage
                    •  [14:00] Letting go of attachment to outcomes and embracing the creative process
                    •  [18:40] Kasey and Susie discuss their book writing processes
                    •  [22:00] How authenticity impacts your success and the way others may perceive you
                    •  [28:45] Using music to get into a creative headspace
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                      Connect with Kasey and Kelsey:

                      Website: kaseycompton.com/backporchbestie

                      Instagram: instagram.com/hikaseycompton

                      Facebook: facebook.com/hikaseycompton

                      33 min
                    • 41: Differences Between a Therapist & Psychoanalyst with Diana Gasperoni, LCSW-R

                      Therapy isn’t just for the crisis moments. Diana Gasperoni, the founder of Be.WELL. Psychotherapy and Wellbeing, believes in the power of long-term treatment and continued growth. She has patients she's worked with for over 20 years, supporting them through various life transitions! In this conversation, Diana provides insights into the world of psychotherapy and the importance of long-term treatment. Learn the differences between a therapist and psychoanalyst, the benefits of lying down during therapy sessions, as well as dream analysis and its role in therapy. 

                       

                      About Diana Gasperoni:

                      Diana Gasperoni is the founder of Be.WELL. Psychotherapy and Wellbeing, host of the BeREAL Podcast and creator of BeHER Teen Program. Diana’s mission is to provide a full spectrum of mental health wellness to as many souls as possible through direct service and content. She believes in an integrative approach to mental health and wellbeing. 

                       

                      bewellpsychotherapy.com

                      Instagram: bewell.psychotherapy and @diana_gasperoni

                      Facebook: Be.WELL. Psychotherapy and @dianagasperoni

                       

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                      Key Topics:

                      •  [03:45] The long-term nature of psychoanalysis and the benefits of continuity
                      •  [05:40] Walking through someone's life as an analyst
                      •  [07:40] The unique experience of lying down on the couch in psychoanalysis
                      •  [08:50] Observing shifts in self-awareness and behavior during sessions
                      •  [11:00] Benefits of continuing therapy even when you’re doing well
                      •  [13:30] Dream analysis and its role in therapy
                      •  [16:35] Having the freedom to express anger 
                      •  [23:15] The value of therapy for writers and stimulating new thoughts
                      •  [25:10] Benefits and challenges of different therapy approaches
                      •  [28:00] The idea of repetition compulsion in long-term treatment
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                        Connect with Kasey and Kelsey:

                        Website: kaseycompton.com/backporchbestie

                        Instagram: instagram.com/hikaseycompton

                        Facebook: facebook.com/hikaseycompton

                        32 min

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                      Have you ever looked around, examined your life, and thought is this IT??