Balanced Ambition

Balanced Ambition

By Matt SouthamBusinessEntrepreneurship
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Balanced Ambition episodes

  • Cancer Changed My Career – And My Creative Identity

    What happens when your voice, your career, your identity, is suddenly under threat? In this episode, Chris shares how a throat cancer diagnosis forced a creative reckoning and a complete professional reinvention. From navigating fatigue and financial fear to reframing ambition and rediscovering joy, this is a deeply honest conversation about creativity, resilience, and learning how to keep yourself in the equation.


    TIMESTAMPS:
    00:00 – “I don’t want to go back to where I was”
    01:55 – From amateur songwriter to live performer
    03:00 – The subtle signs that something was wrong
    04:50 – The panic to preserve his voice and songs
    08:00 – Self-imposed creative pressure vs. health reality
    11:30 – Navigating the financial unknown as self-employed
    13:40 – Rebuilding life after diagnosis
    15:40 – Saying no to say yes – redefining success
    21:00 – How age and stage shift career decisions
    25:30 – Why creativity without time for yourself isn’t enough
    28:00 – Long-term fatigue, new limits, and recovery realities
    36:00 – Losing access to your creative identity
    39:30 – Reinventing as a live event MC
    43:00 – How every past skill found new purpose
    47:00 – Why he chose to reframe treatment as positive
    52:00 – The power of gratitude and keeping joy in the equation

    56 min
  • From Rehab to House Fire: Rich's Unbelievable Story of Survival

    Rich opens up about the darkest chapter of his life: from battling alcoholism, anxiety, and depression to enduring a terrifying incident in Las Vegas, entering rehab, and then—just 24 hours after leaving—watching his house go up in flames.This is a raw, honest, and inspiring conversation about hitting rock bottom and choosing to fight back. Rich shares how he rebuilt himself from the ground up, found purpose in the gym, and learned to live again—one day at a time.00:00 – "I can't do this anymore…"03:50 – What Vegas took from me12:00 – Drinking to forget and the slow slide down23:30 – The breaking point: anxiety, shame, and isolation30:00 – Rehab: the myth and the reality37:00 – Leaving rehab early… and the call that changed everything39:00 – "Your house is on fire"49:20 – Fighting with insurance while barely holding on58:00 – Why AA didn’t work—and what did1:04:00 – Ice baths, fitness, and building a new life1:08:00 – Losing my mum and learning to carry on1:30:00 – Final reflections and advice for anyone struggling👉 If you’ve ever felt lost, this episode is for you.🎧 Listen now and share it with someone who might need to hear it.

    1 hr 33 min
  • Christmas Spiraled | Here's What Actually Helped

    In this raw and powerful episode, Ria opens up about her journey through cancer, alcohol addiction, ADHD, and the struggle to survive the holiday season. With honesty, humour and heart, she shares what helped her finally enjoy Christmas—sober, self-aware and stronger than ever.

    If you’ve ever found Christmas overwhelming, or felt like you were just surviving not celebrating, this episode will resonate deeply.

    👇 Timestamps:
    00:00 – “Last Christmas I was in a dark place…”
    01:10 – A rare cancer diagnosis days after giving birth
    06:53 – The moment everything changed
    12:29 – Giving up alcohol after years of self-medication
    16:49 – Sober, but Christmas brought new challenges
    20:00 – Living with a noisy ADHD brain
    22:51 – The hardest Christmas and asking for help
    36:10 – Coping with dopamine cravings without booze
    41:35 – Parenting neurodiverse kids during the holidays
    45:00 – Breaking the cycle: ADHD through generations
    47:10 – “This is why I’ll always share my story”

    ❤️ Like, comment and share if Ria’s story resonates – and don’t forget to subscribe for more honest conversations.

    50 min
  • This Is Why You Keep Attracting the Wrong People

    What if everything that triggers you… is actually about you?In this deep and eye-opening conversation, Anita breaks down how the Enneagram can help us understand our true personality – not the one we've adapted to survive. We unpack how childhood shapes our identity, why we mould ourselves to be liked, and how to break free from patterns that no longer serve us.We explore how self-awareness through tools like the Enneagram, shadow work, and emotional intelligence can help us take true responsibility for our lives – and even change the world.This one goes beyond personal growth – it’s about human connection, leadership, and how the systems we build start with who we are.🔔 Subscribe for more podcasts on self-awareness, personal growth and emotional intelligence.⏱ Timestamps00:00 – No one taught us how to be ourselves01:30 – What is the Enneagram & why it’s different03:40 – Childhood experiences shape personality07:00 – Why we mould ourselves to be liked10:00 – The true intention behind our behaviours14:50 – Do we choose our personality or are we born with it?17:00 – How types pair in relationships21:45 – The "Helper" type and toxic dynamics24:30 – Awareness gives you choice – but it’s scary33:00 – Shadow work: why your triggers are about you39:40 – What your job says about your Enneagram type47:00 – DJing, attention & identity: a realisation54:30 – Environment vs internal experience58:10 – The pressure to perform – and how it shifted

    1 hr 3 min
  • The Hard Truth About Growing Your Business

    What does it really take to grow a business — or prepare to exit one?

    In this episode, we sit down with consultant Maddie Walker, who helps business owners scale sustainably without burning out. From mindset blindspots to strategic misfires, Maddie shares hard-earned insights and analogies (so many good ones!) that will shift how you think about building your business. If you’re growing, struggling, or somewhere in-between — this one’s for you.

    👇 TIMESTAMPS:

    00:00 – The problem with how most businesses start
    01:26 – What does scaling really look like?
    03:22 – The danger of passion without a plan
    05:44 – When you should bring someone in to help
    08:08 – Clarity: your biggest business asset
    11:02 – Why Maddie becomes “the business’s advocate”
    13:08 – What mindset assessments reveal in teams
    16:08 – Shareholder agreements and co-founder friction
    19:11 – Why DIYing everything can stall your growth
    22:05 – Maddie’s son wants to start a business (but doesn’t)
    24:53 – Passion vs profit: the truth about motivation
    27:02 – Is hustle culture dead? The new wave of realism
    29:25 – Maddie’s burnout and leap into self-employment
    32:37 – Being vulnerable before you’ve “made it”
    35:53 – The Ferrari analogy: building the right business
    38:24 – The ONE thing every business owner needs to ask
    40:09 – Final thoughts + where to get help

    41 min
  • How Talking Saved My Life | Travis on The Men’s Room & Mental Health

    Travis joins us to share his raw and powerful journey — from nearly losing everything to alcohol, to becoming a voice for men’s mental health in Hastings with The Men’s Room.

    We get into why men struggle to talk openly, how sobriety reshaped his life, the importance of community, and why gratitude might just be free therapy.

    If you’ve ever felt like you’re carrying it all alone, this conversation is for you.


    00:00 – Why The Men’s Room exists: reducing male suicide
    02:00 – Travis’s story of sobriety and the turning point
    05:00 – Breaking the cycle for his kids
    10:00 – Being honest about struggles while helping others
    13:45 – Why men talk differently (and why it matters)
    16:25 – The surprising power of gratitude
    20:00 – Why men avoid sitting with their own thoughts
    22:40 – Facing mortality and choosing health
    25:00 – The baton of hope & national suicide awareness
    27:20 – “I didn’t want to die, I just wanted the pain to stop”
    29:15 – Teaching the next generation of men to talk
    35:00 – Finding common ground beyond ego
    38:20 – Social media, echo chambers & mental health
    40:00 – Addiction, gratitude and balance in life
    41:00 – Dancing through the high street: finding joy again
    42:00 – Managing highs, lows and emotional pendulums
    43:30 – Limiting happiness and self-preservation
    45:00 – The Monday crash: coping after big highs
    46:30 – Learning to love the boring bits of life
    48:00 – Redefining what it means to live well
    50:00 – The Men’s Room message: open the door, inspire change, build bridges
    53:00 – Closing reflections: talking saves lives

    55 min
  • The Truth About ADHD (It’s Not a Superpower)

    In this episode, ADHD coach and hypnotherapist Italia Moro shares the real story behind ADHD – and why calling it a “superpower” might be doing more harm than good.

    We unpack emotional dysregulation, time blindness, the myth of laziness, and how you can actually rewire your brain with tools like journaling, mindfulness and self-talk.

    Whether you're late-diagnosed, feeling overwhelmed or just trying to make sense of your mind – this one’s full of relatable truth bombs and practical hope.

    ⏱️ Timestamps:

    00:00 – What ADHD really is
    01:34 – The emotional side most people miss
    03:09 – Why adult ADHD often goes unnoticed
    05:08 – How Italia realised she had ADHD
    10:19 – “We all do that” – but do we really?
    12:58 – Masking, self-protection & shame
    15:50 – ADHD brains love business… until burnout hits
    19:23 – Rejection sensitivity & imposter syndrome
    22:49 – Why planners and systems don’t work (yet)
    27:16 – Rewiring your brain with neuroplasticity
    32:10 – Maturing the ADHD brain
    34:18 – Self-talk: the most underrated ADHD tool
    35:00 – Journaling, meditation & healthy dopamine hits
    42:26 – Coffee, cortisol & ADHD
    45:36 – Impulse spending & time blindness
    47:12 – It’s not about managing symptoms – it’s about managing you

    👉 Let us know your biggest takeaway in the comments, and hit subscribe for more real conversations.

    54 min
  • Why Trying to Please Everyone Is Killing Your Brand

    Is your personal brand holding you back without you even realising?

    In this episode, personal branding coach Ben Stickland explains why trying to please everyone is one of the biggest mistakes you can make — and how being more you is the ultimate growth strategy.

    We unpack his “Be More YOU” framework, how to attract the right clients without the sales calls, and why your quirks might just be your biggest superpower.

    📲 Connect with Ben:
    Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/thepersonalbrandingguy/
    LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/thepersonalbrandingguy/

    🕒 Timestamps:
    00:00 - What a personal brand actually is
    01:23 - Why Ben left employment to build his own thing
    02:12 - Why pleasing everyone is bad for business
    05:00 - “You’re not an office kettle” explained
    06:30 - Avoiding nightmare clients
    08:30 - Corporate hangovers & being ‘palatable’ online
    11:00 - People-pleasing and holding back opinions
    13:45 - Branding and… how you eat your KitKat?
    17:35 - Using AI to be more human, not less
    20:00 - Visual cues that make you unforgettable
    22:00 - Moustaches, mullets, and making a statement
    23:30 - The dating analogy that says it all
    27:00 - Authenticity as a sales filter
    32:00 - “Be More YOU” framework explained
    34:00 - Redefining success on your terms
    36:00 - Stop bragging about being busy
    40:00 - Boundaries, payment terms, and knowing your worth
    42:00 - The power of collaborations
    43:15 - Final thoughts on being unfiltered

    46 min
  • I Hit Rock Bottom – Then Rebuilt Everything | Tash’s Story

    In this deeply honest and powerful episode, Tash shares her journey from addiction to sobriety. From hiding bottles around the house to smuggling drugs in clubs, and believing she was a “good mum” while passed out drunk — she holds nothing back. Now 7.5 years sober, Tash opens up about what helped her turn her life around, the stigma around addiction, and how she uses her story to help others do the same.

    If you’ve ever struggled with your relationship to alcohol, or love someone who has — this one’s for you.

    Timestamps:
    00:00 – “I thought I was a good mum… but I was passed out every night”
    01:50 – Meet Tash: rock bottom at 30, and 7.5 years sober
    04:08 – What addiction looked like: wine, cocaine, and passing out daily
    08:30 – Drinking from age 13: “I thought everyone drank every day”
    14:02 – The moment she knew: “I think I’ve got a problem”
    21:18 – Conversations with her kids now — and then
    25:27 – What she really thinks about ‘just one drink’
    30:08 – Sobriety wins: from the worst place to building a business
    33:05 – Two trips to Ibiza: one drunk, one sober
    38:27 – What needs to change in how we educate about alcohol
    46:49 – What’s next: helping others change their story

    🔗 Follow Tash: https://www.instagram.com/soberhappytash/
    🎙 Subscribe for more real, honest conversations.

    49 min
  • Why Founders Burn Out (and How to Fix It)

    Liam Anderson | Operations Consultant | Balanced Ambition Podcast

    In this episode, we dive into the real reason so many business owners feel overwhelmed, stuck, or just plain burnt out. And no — it's not about working harder.

    Liam Anderson has seen inside dozens of businesses, and the pattern is clear: the ones that scale all have something in common — solid, boring, reliable operations.

    We talk:

    • Why documenting anything is better than nothing

    • How to stop everything living in your head

    • The surprising connection between operations and client retention

    • Why your team onboarding process might be costing you thousands

    • And how to finally build a business that doesn't rely on you being in every meeting

    Whether you're looking to grow, take a break, or one day sell your business, this is the episode for you.

    👇 TIMESTAMPS BELOW 👇

    00:00 – “You’re not playing running a business…”
    01:05 – Liam’s journey from agency to founder
    03:00 – Why small businesses need operational support
    05:02 – Why ops isn’t sexy (but it is essential)
    07:06 – The danger of founder bottlenecks
    11:30 – Real examples: onboarding gone wrong
    14:25 – What makes a business truly scalable?
    17:45 – Managing client relationships long-term
    21:40 – Why your business can’t live in your head
    26:45 – The trust problem: letting go as a founder
    29:56 – Building your own business (as an ops guy)
    32:20 – The rise of fractional ops (and why it matters)
    36:36 – Tools and first steps to start documenting
    38:48 – SOPs explained simply
    42:24 – Why processes fail if they don’t make life easier
    44:22 – Final thoughts + wrap-up

    🕒 TIMESTAMPS

    45 min

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Balanced Ambition is the podcast for entrepreneurs who want big results without burning out. Host Matt Southam talks to experts and business owners about mindset, healthy habits and sustainable…