In the very first "Conversations with Ann" edition of the Barnhardt Podcast, we welcome Bai (pronounced "Bay", as in May Day) Macfarlane, founder of Mary's Advocates, a lay non-profit organization whose goal is to strengthen marriage, reduce unilateral no-fault divorce, and support those who have been unjustly abandoned by their spouse. Bai and Ann have a no-holds barred discussion about marriage, "divorce", and "decrees of nullity" which are being handed out like candy - all in the name of "mercy". Ann asks Bai the 800 pound gorilla questions that other people won't ask, such as, "What do you do if your bishop is a heretic and refuses to help defend your marriage?" and, "What does a faithful Catholic do if a cookie-cutter declaration of nullity is issued against their marriage which they are certain is false, and their marriage is valid?"

Links, reading, and YouTube:

• Mary's Advocates: Home Page

Quotes

Cardinal Raymond Burke said some tribunals are run by unprepared and unjust workers. With sadness, many times I have seen that the diocesan bishop has not sufficiently taken care to prepare well the necessary personnel for his tribunal. In other words, it is not the process that has need of modifications, but the practice of some bishops who do not provide well-prepared and just workers for their tribunals” (33 min. 43 sec.). http://marysadvocates.org/bishop-have-incompetent-and-unfair-staff-managing-tribunals/

Transcript: Separated Faithful Spouse: "I know I have valid marriage and need to live my sacramental marriage. But what do I tell my children (y’know) 'why aren’t I following the church when the Church grants an annulment?' Because there are abuses [if you live in one of those diocese] if you live in one of those diocese, and I know it was a valid marriage." -- Cardinal Raymond Burke

"All you can say to your children what is your own conviction, and that you have to live according to your conscience. And that also, that the process for the declaration of nullity is not an infallible process. The judge makes the decision with moral certitude–that is–that for him there hasn’t been brought forth anything reasonable against the nullity of the marriage. But/ A declaration of nullity of marriage can–in the Church’s law–be contested, always contested, simply because we know that it is not a divinely inspired decision. [They do it] The judges, and everyone, they do their best. [But] So, if in your conscience, you know that it was a valid marriage, that’s the way you have to live." -- Cardinal Raymond Burke

Msg. Cormac Burke, Retired Roman Rota Judge (author Covenanted Happiness: Love and Commitment in Marriage, and The Theology of Marriage; Personalism, Doctrine and Canon Law) wrote about the faithful spouse) wrote the following about the role of the faithful spouse in context to the confusion about the 'good of the spouses':

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