I know it doesn't seem like kids listen very often.  But they hear everything coaches and parents say.  In fact, they probably hear a lot more of the negative things.  And many of these might not seem negative to the adults.  Communication with our soccer players is important.  It's even more important to communicate in the right way to make sure your players are in the right frame of mind.  The wrong thing said can completely destroy a young player's confidence and ruin the game for them for life. Learn how to avoid these mistakes!