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What happens when an unexpected conversation transforms your perspective on life? Picture this: a chance encounter with Dolly, a store owner on Germantown Avenue, became a therapeutic session that redefined what meaningful exchanges can be. Join me, Alisa, as I share this heartfelt story and discuss how being open to spontaneity can teach us invaluable lessons about intimidation and independence.

Have you ever doubted your purpose in life? I certainly have, and a deeply personal conversation brought those insecurities to the forefront. 
Listen as we explore parallels with Moses' biblical journey, highlighting how self-doubt and perceived inadequacies don't deter divine investment in our potential. This episode captures the essence of our shared struggles and triumphs, culminating in a touching moment of gratitude from the store owner that reaffirmed the significance of our personal growth journeys.

Are you ready to embrace the "big chop" of personal transformation? In this episode, I liken the arduous process of self-improvement to cutting away past burdens for a fresh start. From addressing the "ugly parts" of ourselves to finding strength in solitude, we navigate the messiness of change and the importance of developing new habits. As we conclude, I express my heartfelt gratitude for your support and emphasize the power of unconditional love and connection. Tune in and let's learn to just be clay together.

You are Loved!

Not just a little, but greatly

Not just today, but forever

Not just by some,

But by the ONE who created you in His Love

And HE's Not The ONLY One

We Love You Unconditionally
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There's nothing you can do to change it!!!!

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Have you ever wondered if the love you give and receive truly reflects the depth and purity it should? Join me, Alisa, as I share my personal journey through God's profound love in this heartfelt episode. At 15, I had a life-changing experience with God's unconditional love, despite feeling unworthy. This revelation has shaped my life for the past 22 years, and I’m eager to share how it continues to mold me today. Through chastisements and challenges, much like a parent’s discipline, God’s love has been a constant force in my life, guiding and refining me.

Let's take a closer look at love itself. Have you ever found yourself uttering the words "I love you" without truly understanding their weight? Reflecting on 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, I challenge us to reevaluate how we express love,. True love is patient, kind, and keeps no record of wrongs—and we must first embody this love within ourselves before extending it to others. Through personal anecdotes, I invite you to reassess your expressions of love and align them with the selfless, unconditional love described in scripture.

In the final moments, I offer a heartfelt prayer for listeners who may not yet have experienced the transformative power of God's love. I passionately pray for you to feel surrounded by this eternal love that has the ability to change lives forever. Together, we will continue on this path to understand and embrace divine love, starting with self-love and extending it to everyone around us. Join me as we uncover the true essence of agape love and its profound impact on our lives.

You are Loved!

Not just a little, but greatly

Not just today, but forever

Not just by some,

But by the ONE who created you in His Love

And HE's Not The ONLY One

We Love You Unconditionally
&
There's nothing you can do to change it!!!!

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What if your biggest fears were the very things holding you back from achieving your dreams? This episode of Be Clay opens up with a candid reflection on my struggles with consistency and the fear of meeting audience expectations. Drawing inspiration from Simba's journey in "The Lion King" and biblical lessons on obedience and trust, I unpack the importance of persistence and focusing on the present. You'll hear about the challenges I faced with my YouTube channel and how I've managed to maintain a regular podcast schedule despite past setbacks.

Let's dive deep into the emotional landscape tied to self-doubt, fear of responsibility, and the paralyzing sense of rejection. I share personal stories about how past experiences and family cycles shape our thoughts and actions. Through these reflections, I underscore the necessity of breaking free from negative self-talk and trusting in the gifts we've been given. Learn about the critical role of personal growth in shaping not only our future but also that of our children, and how resourcefulness and determination can help you overcome financial constraints in the pursuit of your dreams.

Finally, I'll take you through my evolving career aspirations, from engineering to contemplating law school, and finally finding a calling in life coaching and financial advising. A pivotal conversation with a life coach program interviewer brought to light the profound impact of fulfilling one's purpose. Listen to how a liberating hair transformation taught me the value of adapting and accepting outcomes beyond our control. This heartfelt episode is a celebration of resilience, personal growth, and the importance of pushing forward despite life's unpredictable nature. Thank you for being part of this journey with me.

You are Loved!

Not just a little, but greatly

Not just today, but forever

Not just by some,

But by the ONE who created you in His Love

And HE's Not The ONLY One

We Love You Unconditionally
&
There's nothing you can do to change it!!!!

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What if the immense pressure you feel is actually a divine calling? Join me, Alisa, as I share my deeply personal journey through self-doubt, technical hurdles, and the profound realization of being used by God. Discover how I navigate these challenges and still find the strength to push forward, leading to unexpected, meaningful conversations that reveal my rare nature and divine purpose. Through this, I hope to inspire you to believe in your inner potential to change lives and generations.

Have you ever felt like missed opportunities in your past are holding you back? This episode explores my emotional visit to a long-anticipated store, where a series of reflective moments brought clarity and renewed purpose. Listen to what started as an impactful conversation with my children and a profound encounter with the store owner, emphasizing the importance of embracing God-given talents and pushing past self-imposed barriers. Through creativity, resilience, and faith, this chapter underscores the journey of living authentically and embracing your true calling.

How do you break negative cycles and embrace obedience in life? Guided by a powerful scriptural passage from 1 Thessalonians 4:11, I reflect on how learning to "study to be quiet" has shaped my approach to marriage and parenting. This episode delves into the necessity of breaking free from detrimental behaviors, understanding gender roles within the family, and the transformative power of divine guidance. From personal accountability to standing firm in faith, I share experiences and lessons that highlight the importance of trusting in God to lead a harmonious and fulfilling life.

You are Loved!

Not just a little, but greatly

Not just today, but forever

Not just by some,

But by the ONE who created you in His Love

And HE's Not The ONLY One

We Love You Unconditionally
&
There's nothing you can do to change it!!!!

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Letting Go for Generational Healing P2.

What happens when a recurring dream becomes the catalyst for a journey of profound forgiveness and healing? In this episode, we explore the transformative vision that led me to confront and forgive my father. Through a courtroom dream where grievances were aired but answers scarce, I realized that true forgiveness was about conveying my earthly pains to God. This spiritual dialogue not only provided emotional clarity but also paved the way for a deeper understanding of my father's actions and my mother's neutral stance.

As we unravel the complexities of forgiveness, we grapple with the internal conflict between seeking an apology and accepting that forgiveness doesn't always come with acknowledgment. Balancing the desire for closure with the need to safeguard oneself and loved ones poses a significant challenge, especially within the context of marriage and parenting. Personal anecdotes and introspective moments illuminate the struggle of reconciling with a parent while striving to protect the emotional well-being of one's own family. The discussion emphasizes empathy, understanding, and the spiritual implications of releasing past grievances.

The narrative extends to the importance of breaking cycles of resentment that can hinder future generations. By sharing stories of personal liberation through forgiveness, I highlight the crucial role of open communication in fostering healthier family dynamics. From addressing the impact of upbringing on parenting styles to healing from past conflicts, this episode underscores the necessity of self-awareness and adaptability. Join me in prioritizing self-care and forgiveness to cultivate a more supportive and loving family environment. Remember, you are loved, and so is the journey to healing.

Does forgiveness mean letting go?

Forgiveness is about choosing to let go of those feelings and thoughts. It doesn't mean being OK with what happened. Instead, choosing to forgive is about making a conscious decision to move forward and letting go of the pain.

How to Practice Forgiveness and Let Go of Resentment - Psych Central

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You are Loved!

Not just a little, but greatly

Not just today, but forever

Not just by some,

But by the ONE who created you in His Love

And HE's Not The ONLY One

We Love You Unconditionally
&
There's nothing you can do to change it!!!!

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Ever wondered how your relationship with your parents shapes your entire life? In this heartfelt episode, I open up about the deeply personal journey of navigating the desired relationship with my father, delving into the challenging path of forgiveness and healing. Whether you're grappling with unresolved emotions or just curious about the transformative power of faith, this episode promises to offer valuable insights and a comforting sense of solidarity.

Reflecting on my childhood and the emotional aftermath of my father's absence, I share candidly about the impact it had on my family and my role as the eldest sibling. I discuss the importance of addressing childhood hurts and how these unresolved feelings can affect not only our lives but also the lives of our children. As a mother of six, I've seen firsthand how emotions like hurt, disappointment, anger, and bitterness can ripple through generations, underscoring the necessity for healing and forgiveness.

Join me as I recount the struggles of holding onto anger, the divine call to forgive, and the pivotal moments of divine intervention that guided me toward releasing past hurts. From the complexities of forgiving without an apology to the spiritual battles that led to my breakthroughs, this episode is a testament to the power of letting go and moving forward. Whether you're a parent, contemplating marriage, or simply seeking closure, this episode offers a deeply personal exploration of forgiveness and the profound changes it can bring to your life and relationships.

Does forgiveness mean letting go?

Forgiveness is about choosing to let go of those feelings and thoughts. It doesn't mean being OK with what happened. Instead, choosing to forgive is about making a conscious decision to move forward and letting go of the pain.

You are Loved!

Not just a little, but greatly

Not just today, but forever

Not just by some,

But by the ONE who created you in His Love

And HE's Not The ONLY One

We Love You Unconditionally
&
There's nothing you can do to change it!!!!

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What does it mean to truly see beyond the facts and embrace the deeper truths that shape our lives? In this thought-provoking episode of the Be Clay Podcast, join me, Alisa, as I continue my compelling journey of resilience, truth, and grace. This episode, expanding on "It's Okay that I'm Aware that I'm Rare," delves into my personal experiences with accountability and the intrinsic belief that everything we need to succeed is within us. Prepare to be moved as I recount harrowing childhood traumas that forged my emotional strength and inspired me to share these powerful, often unspoken realities.

Journey with me through my school years, where I faced relentless bullying and emotional and physical violations. These adversities forced me to become a keen observer, developing a quiet resilience and a strategic edge in social interactions. Discover how these experiences shaped my coping mechanisms and emotional intelligence, and reflect on the importance of grace and self-awareness. Through personal anecdotes, we explore the human tendency to cling to negative feedback and the profound impact of choosing truth over mere facts in our relationships.

In this episode, we also explore the transformative power of grace and understanding. Hear how acts of compassion from teachers and family members during my toughest times taught me the importance of empathy and respect. Reflect on biblical references and personal stories that underscore the significance of offering grace, even when it seems undeserved. Embrace the wisdom in recognizing our limitations and seeking divine guidance, as we discuss the journey of finding peace and letting go. Join me in uncovering the deeper truths that shape our lives and the grace that sustains us through it all.

You are Loved!

Not just a little, but greatly

Not just today, but forever

Not just by some,

But by the ONE who created you in His Love

And HE's Not The ONLY One

We Love You Unconditionally
&
There's nothing you can do to change it!!!!

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It's OK I'm Aware that I'm Rare!! As a child you may have found yourself, not really being your true version of your self. However, you became a version that is better to survive your environment. Your younger version of yourself may have been extrovert, yet after being shushed enough times you are a shy adult. Like me, you may have been struggling as an adult because that little version that you shoved away keeps peeking their head out wanting to finally live.   

Expressing immense gratitude for your overwhelming support, I share the joy of stepping out of my comfort zone and adhering to God's will.

Discover the deeply personal narrative of healing and transformation, where emotional turmoil meets profound spiritual breakthroughs. Learn about my intense journey of reconciling my true self with who I had become, leading to a significant emotional breakdown. Through daily prayers and surrendering to God, I embarked on a transformative healing process that required patience and resilience. This journey not only reshaped my life but also inspired my children to seek their own spiritual freedom, showcasing the power of living without old burdens.

Tigger's boldness and unique personality have always resonated with me, offering inspiration amidst life's challenges. Reflecting on my upbringing and the spiritual hurdles faced, I draw powerful parallels to biblical stories of faith and resilience. Listen as we navigate the complexities of forgiveness, particularly around Father's Day, and offer guidance on finding emotional resolution. This episode is a testament to authenticity, obedience, and the transformative power of faith, aiming to provide solace and inspiration to all who listen.

Know that you are unique and there is no one like you! Let the true version of yourself come to the surface!! Forgive all those who made you bury the real you!! You are Rare and  IT's Ok!! 

You are Loved!

Not just a little, but greatly

Not just today, but forever

Not just by some,

But by the ONE who created you in His Love

And HE's Not The ONLY One

We Love You Unconditionally
&
There's nothing you can do to change it!!!!

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Ever felt like life is molding you into someone you don't recognize? Join me, Alisa, as I launch "Be Clay" and open up about the inspiration behind this podcast, born from a cherished church hymn and a time of deep personal reflection during the pandemic. Discover how music became my sanctuary, helping me reconnect with my faith and identity amidst the chaos of motherhood and the world at large. This episode is your invitation to explore the essence of "Be Clay" and embark on a journey of spiritual and personal growth together.

Imagine the delicate process of turning raw clay into a piece of art. Just as an artist patiently shapes their creation, our lives are similarly molded by experiences and challenges. I'll share my reflections on  recent students ceramics showcase that left me marveling at the dedication behind each piece. Through these stories, we draw parallels between the artistry of ceramics and our own transformation, emphasizing the importance of patience and perseverance in our personal journeys.

Learning to trust the process and find security in God's hands is no easy feat. In this episode, I dive into my struggle to relinquish control and embrace my role as the clay, not the potter. With insights from my personal experiences and content from my YouTube series, we'll explore what it means to accept our imperfections and lean into our faith. Let’s walk this path together, learning to let go of anxieties and trust in God's purpose for us. Tune in and be part of a community striving for spiritual growth and healing.

You are Loved!

Not just a little, but greatly

Not just today, but forever

Not just by some,

But by the ONE who created you in His Love

And HE's Not The ONLY One

We Love You Unconditionally
&
There's nothing you can do to change it!!!!

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