Be That Girl

This one wasn’t supposed to be a lesson. It was just something I needed to say out loud. A page from my diary—about love, fear, and the quiet devastation of never being chosen.

Everyone tells you to choose yourself like it's supposed to be empowering. Sometimes it doesn't actually feel that way. Sometimes it just really fucking hurts and it really fucking sucks.

And with that, the eulogy is complete. Here’s what 25–29 taught me. 🥂

The end of a decade deserves a proper eulogy. Here’s what 20–24 taught me. 🥂

Music is my love language—and unfortunately, I have feelings about EVERYTHING. 🎧

This week we’re talking lyrics that feel like personal attacks, songs that instantly transport you back in time, screaming The Chainsmokers with the windows down at 18, and the music that’s helping me find my way back to myself at 29.

Welcome to The Soundtrack. 🎶

Some things we inherit without ever realizing they were passed down. The way we talk to ourselves, the way we love, and even the things we spend our whole lives searching for.

We’re all moving targets. Maybe curiosity is what keeps us from missing each other.

Some people stay for a lifetime. Others stay just long enough to change you. This episode is about the beauty and heartbreak of temporary connections—and learning that something doesn’t have to last forever to matter forever.

What if the life you’re “supposed” to want just doesn’t fit you? Maybe it’s time to stop settling, stop fighting yourself, and start building a life that does. 🤍

How much of your life have you spent staring at all the possibilities, terrified that choosing one means losing the rest?

At some point, you have to stop staring at the tree.

Pick the fucking fig.