What is to be judgemental of others or of certain situations?

Is it to be overly critical? Is it to jump to conclusions very quickly without really knowing all the facts?

Is being judgemental another face of the negative inner critic who believes he knows it all?

Are some cultures more judgemental than others? Your beautiful hosts come from Argentina, a culture that makes judgements about everything to be judged on earth. However, we all changed completely our way of looking at people and things.

There is a lot of truth in saying that people that tend to judge more harshly, judge themselves the same way. Usually those type of people tend to be bitter and unhappy.

With experience, an open mind and age, we become less judgemental because our awareness starts to focus more in how we want our lives to be, without taking much notice of how others decide to live theirs.

And you? Are you judgemental?

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Boo us honestly and directly to [email protected], we would love to hear your feedback and suggestions.

When we experience any physical pain our awareness starts to focus only  on the part of our body that is hurting. 

 It is almost like life stops and we can't think about anything else. 

 Some people go through physical pain better than others, simply by  knowing that the pain is or can be temporary. Others, like Mariana, go  to the despair mode and want the pain to go away straight away. 

  In this episode we discuss the correlation in how the personal life  perspective or general type of approach of the person to life in  general, gets repeated or mirrored in how they deal with physical pain.  

 Physical pain can be sometimes chronic, like Pablo who experiences  chronic knee pain pretty much everyday. This condition doesn't push him  to despair or feelings of frustration.  

On another angle, when you do your research about the "emotional  meaning" of physical symptoms you can also focus all your attention not  in the pain but in the message that the body might be trying to tell  you. 

Basically, instead of taking a pill to ease the pain, we can work  in our emotional body to free the emotions that are triggering it.  

 When the emotional "problem" or "block" goes away it is proven that the  physiology of the body changes and stops sending the signals of pain.  The condition goes away.  

Regardless of what you believe, it is interesting how the solution to  the physical pains we might be experiencing are dealt with depending on  our life perspectives in general.  

As usual, boo us any time to give us feedback or suggest topics or  particular guests at [email protected].  

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Hypnosis is an induced mental state of increased focus and attention while Hypnotherapy is a type of psychotherapy that is used to treat all sort of conditions.

To talk about this amazing technique we invited the only, deep and amazing Eve Charles, who experienced an incredible transformative experience after she attended one hypnosis session with a therapist to overcome her postpartum depression.

She tells us about how we can become the person we want to be by unlocking whatever it is that is needed to make such personal change.

This chat with Eve Charles truly blew our minds and we even got a taste of hypnotherapy with a short guided session towards the end of the episode.

To connect and book a clinical hypnotherapy session with this deep genius go to www.schoolofconfidence.co.nz

You can also email schoolofconfidencenz@gmail or text/call 021-615 4077

To know more and purchase Eve Charles's children books go to www.bardellibooks.com 

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The impact of social media in our society is without a doubt HUGE.

It plays such a big part in our lives and without us knowing is sucking up so much of our time that we thought to discuss the topic and share our perspectives on this.

We truly honor the all day and every day connection that the digital world can provide these days. Our podcast exists thanks to this new virtual reality. We are able to spread our noble mission in helping others through the social media channels. 

We can also stay connected to our people and feel like we are never alone...but is this true? Does social media actually helps with interpersonal connections or is its digital "non real" aspect the real cause for an increase in isolation and loneliness?

We know that social media is the cause of a lot of anxiety through its over-use, detrimental comparison with the life of others, boring and plain narcissism that feeds the unrealistic individualism of society.

How can we avoid some of these detrimental online media effects? Is there a good way to use social media?

To suggest topics or guests, or to tell us your story please boo us anytime at [email protected].

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What a guest we have today!! Wayne is one of the hosts of the podcast called Florida men in Florida men.  

 Cameron, Josh Wayne have been working together for almost 2 years bringing to you the Florida State's latest stories and news with an intelligent upbeat touch.

We got the privilege to connect with this smart and funny trio through twitter. And it was Wayne who put his hand up to be our guest today.

This episode is very special to us because it was the first time we got to talk to Wayne after an exchange of messages in social media. 

He is warm, real and a sensitive soul that has not fear to share his emotional journey with three strangers and you.

We truly feel we have gained a new cool friend. 

Wayne was the perfect person to talk about the different ways in which we could add more joy into our lives. He knows the importance of a humorous injection in a daily basis to be able to have a better life experience.

We believe that people who have humor as one of the tools to cope with the sour hits that life throws are very special. They know what darkness feels like.

We believe that people who have humor as one of the tools to cope with the sour hits that life throws are very special. They know what darkness feels like. Their ability to spontaneously bring a quirky perspective, comment or input to a situation, actually comes from the deep observation of the world in general. 

This episode has been a gift from Wayne to us and you.

We encourage you to listen our guest's podcast: Florida men on Florida men podcast episodes. You can go to www.fmofm.com 

Here in Beautiful Ghosts podcast, we also experience conflict. 

The good  news is that we know that conflict is a very amazing opportunity to get  to know each other and grow.   

We also thought the conflict raised as a test from life to see if we do  what we preach: vulnerability, openness, forgiveness, honesty, empathy,  compassion. 

 This is a special episode for us. This "little thing" happened in one of  the thousand conversations we have weekly (sometimes daily) about this  passionate podcast venture we have embarked on. 

 Now looking back, there was many "little" things that were piling up in  our insides but we did not express it at the right time or we thought it  was not worth to bring it up. We were wrong.  

The "little thing" ended up exploiting in a sort of "out of the blue"  kind of way (well, apparently they quiet often do) and it left us  confused and a bit lost about how to go about it, because in our short  relationship a conflict or differences in opinion never presented  itself, and the ones that did were always resolved in a loving and  mature manner.  

 We know it or not, in the back of our minds or hearts, we always have an  opinion on someone's behavior or personality.  When the things we don't like about the other person get piled up over  time or combined with weaknesses or soft spots on the other, and we do  not voice this "discomforts" at the right time, you got it: illogical  and erratic responses or reactions.  

We know this has happened to all our listeners because is fucking human,  and by bringing up our own "dirty laundry" we believe we will help you  to be courageous enough to speak your mind when you need to.  

We wanted to share it with you because it truly made us understand each  other more, but also, grow to a much deeper level the respect,  admiration, love and deep friendship we share.  Come on, you know you want it, boo us and tell us anything you want us  to discuss on our next episode at [email protected] 

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Yes, Danijel take 2, our deepest sequel.

We brought Danijel again because we love his deep and unlimited perspective on life.

We discuss if mind is consciousness or if we experience more mind when we have lost the capability of mastering the focus of our consciousness.

Danijel brings some very juicy insides on the monkey mind too, saying that the mind is actually consciousness playing the part of mind. Or put into other words, it is consciousness focused on the analytical mind.

How do we get to the stage where we are more and more conscious in every day and in every encounter or task we experience in out daily life?

Danijel speaks about that the only way is making the decision to go there. You are the driver of the consciousness and by becoming aware of where the focus of your consciousness is at any given time, you lead it or guide it to your inner world.

This episode is for all the people searching for a relief in their identification with their own extremely active mind and it will allow you to understand that it is only you 'in there" and you are the only one that can make the decision to change old neurological pathways and learnt behaviors and re-gain the power in directing your consciousness.

To get in touch with Danijel, please contact us at [email protected].

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There’s a belief out there that an addiction is inescapable or something that you might struggle for life.

Rodrigo talks to us about the common psychological patterns that tie us to a particular addiction.

He brings a breeze of fresh air by dissipating the cloud of fear that some of us might have about quitting something we know is not good for us. An addiction can include a bad habit, drugs, alcohol and any other substance or behavior that might be somehow driving our lives.

We discuss the fact that acknowledging that you’re addicted to something and actually wanting to change is the first step. 

Rodrigo brings this topic a lot of light, because he thinks the solution is a daily practice of not being an addict. By monitoring this practice we will discover underlying patterns, beliefs, emotions that are instant triggers for such addictive pattern. We will also be able to recognized that our lack of resilience and/or psychological tools is the real ghost. 

We are all addictive to something, in different ways and degrees, but we all are. And it is quiet good to Rodrigo say that a relapse is part and not the end of the process.

We also bring a huge point: is addiction to the mobile phone or social media recognized as such by the "psycological/psychiatric" manuals?

Rodrigo Ramalho (MD, PhD), originally from Paraguay and now living in New Zealand, is a psychiatrist who specialises in rural mental health and addiciton. He completed hia Phd at the University of Auckland where he now teaches.

His teachings, research, and publications aim to contribute to the development of person and community-centred, ground-up, and culturally and contextually responsive health policies and health care. 

To know more about Dr Rodrigo Ramalho, visit his profile in the link below. 

https://unidirectory.auckland.ac.nz/profile/r-ramalho

For speech inquiries please email him at [email protected]

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What is to have a healthy relationship with money? Is money the ticket for happiness, freedom, self-love?

Why many people think that to love money or material possessions is not noble or not very spiritual? Is someone seeking for a lot of financial success a "bad" person and this person for sure is an individual who "might""will" or "have" rip off anyone to achieve their materialistic goals?

How your family beliefs affect the relationship you have with material things and how affects the way you see financial successful people? But most importantly, how do this belief affect your present and future?

If you dislike financial successful people that says a lot about your future material success. 

To go deep into the relation that you have with money and all the subconscious belief around material stuff, listen to this episode, take a time to reflect and start to become more aware about your internal dialogue and where are you heading.

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Brian, another cool Argentinian living in New Zealand, is a master of healing techniques like Reiki and Del Arca. He went to Ratna Ling, a Tibetan Buddhist Retreat Center in California, to continue in-depth learning of Kum Nye Tibetan Yoga. 

Brian brings a very wise perspective on stress and comes to answer all our questions:

-Is it good or bad to experience stress? 

-Is living in an "always underlying stress" normal?

-How do we cope with the feelings that arises with stress?

-Can we live a life without any stress at all?

- How do we get there?

Brian offers holistic practices, workshops and even coaching sessions. To know more about him please go to https://www.brianberneman.com