One of the greatest traps you can fall into is thinking you need to bully or talk down to yourself in order to motivate yourself for the new year! It’s not true! Instead, let’s find ways to give 2021 Past You some credit for the hard work she did.

Download your FREE Year-End Reflection Journal at https://becomingfutureyou.com/2021

Grab the FREE Starter Guide and get clarity on Future You: https://becomingfutureyou.com/start 

The book is out! Grab an ebook or print copy of Becoming Future You: Be the Hero of Your Own Life at https://becomingfutureyou.com/book 

Prefer to get your motivational content on video? Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: http://bit.ly/jollytipsyoutube 

Ready to become Future You faster? Join the DIY Coaching Program and unlock your 5-star life: https://www.becomingfutureyou.com/unlock 

ABOUT MEL & BECOMING FUTURE YOU
#becomingfutureyou

Mel Jolly has been working with authors and creative entrepreneurs for nearly two decades. She is a marketing consultant and coach who works with women to help them rediscover their dreams, level up their enjoyment of life, and unleash their awesomeness.

Mel started out as a Library Assistant in Young Adult Services where she specialized in outreach to at risk teens at juvenile detention centers and group homes. Mel also holds a Bachelor of Fine Arts in Theatre Performance, which means she’s not afraid of a challenge, a crowd, or a little drama!

Mel can help you unlock your potential and clarify your vision for Future You. Grab the FREE Starter Guide and start getting answers: https://www.becomingfutureyou.com/start 

You might be feeling less than joyful this holiday season and that’s okay! Here’s how to make space for your emotions, while also finding moments of joy.

Download your FREE Year-End Reflection Journal at https://becomingfutureyou.com/2021

Grab the FREE Starter Guide and get clarity on Future You: https://becomingfutureyou.com/start 

The book is out! Grab an ebook or print copy of Becoming Future You: Be the Hero of Your Own Life at https://becomingfutureyou.com/book 

Prefer to get your motivational content on video? Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: http://bit.ly/jollytipsyoutube 

Ready to become Future You faster? Join the DIY Coaching Program and unlock your 5-star life: https://www.becomingfutureyou.com/unlock 

ABOUT MEL & BECOMING FUTURE YOU
#becomingfutureyou

Mel Jolly has been working with authors and creative entrepreneurs for nearly two decades. She is a marketing consultant and coach who works with women to help them rediscover their dreams, level up their enjoyment of life, and unleash their awesomeness.

Mel started out as a Library Assistant in Young Adult Services where she specialized in outreach to at risk teens at juvenile detention centers and group homes. Mel also holds a Bachelor of Fine Arts in Theatre Performance, which means she’s not afraid of a challenge, a crowd, or a little drama!

Mel can help you unlock your potential and clarify your vision for Future You. Grab the FREE Starter Guide and start getting answers: https://www.becomingfutureyou.com/start 

The holidays can be laden with expectations that cause us to feel overwhelmed, stressed, anxious, nervous… any number of things! If you’re struggling with the expectations of the season, this one is for you!

Download your FREE Year-End Reflection Journal at https://becomingfutureyou.com/2021

Grab the FREE Starter Guide and get clarity on Future You: https://becomingfutureyou.com/start 

The book is out! Grab an ebook or print copy of Becoming Future You: Be the Hero of Your Own Life at https://becomingfutureyou.com/book 

Prefer to get your motivational content on video? Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: http://bit.ly/jollytipsyoutube 

Ready to become Future You faster? Join the DIY Coaching Program and unlock your 5-star life: https://www.becomingfutureyou.com/unlock 

ABOUT MEL & BECOMING FUTURE YOU
#becomingfutureyou

Mel Jolly has been working with authors and creative entrepreneurs for nearly two decades. She is a marketing consultant and coach who works with women to help them rediscover their dreams, level up their enjoyment of life, and unleash their awesomeness.

Mel started out as a Library Assistant in Young Adult Services where she specialized in outreach to at risk teens at juvenile detention centers and group homes. Mel also holds a Bachelor of Fine Arts in Theatre Performance, which means she’s not afraid of a challenge, a crowd, or a little drama!

Mel can help you unlock your potential and clarify your vision for Future You. Grab the FREE Starter Guide and start getting answers: https://www.becomingfutureyou.com/start 

It can be difficult to be around people you love, but don't necessarily get along with, around the holidays! That's why I invited NYT Bestselling Author Kristan Higgins and USA Today Bestselling Author Joss Dey, aka The Ladies, from the Crappy Friends podcast to come chat with me about navigating those difficult holiday situations.

Listen to Kristan and Joss on their podcast and buy their book: https://www.crappyfriends.net/ 

Grab the FREE Starter Guide and get clarity on Future You: https://becomingfutureyou.com/start 

The book is out! Grab an ebook or print copy of Becoming Future You: Be the Hero of Your Own Life at https://becomingfutureyou.com/book 

Prefer to get your motivational content on video? Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: http://bit.ly/jollytipsyoutube 

Ready to become Future You faster? Join the DIY Coaching Program and unlock your 5-star life: https://www.becomingfutureyou.com/unlock 

ABOUT MEL & BECOMING FUTURE YOU
#becomingfutureyou

Mel Jolly has been working with authors and creative entrepreneurs for nearly two decades. She is a marketing consultant and coach who works with women to help them rediscover their dreams, level up their enjoyment of life, and unleash their awesomeness.

Mel started out as a Library Assistant in Young Adult Services where she specialized in outreach to at risk teens at juvenile detention centers and group homes. Mel also holds a Bachelor of Fine Arts in Theatre Performance, which means she’s not afraid of a challenge, a crowd, or a little drama!

Mel can help you unlock your potential and clarify your vision for Future You. Grab the FREE Starter Guide and start getting answers: https://www.becomingfutureyou.com/start 

I achieved my dream of becoming a published author!! How did I do it? How did I get around my roadblocks and actually DO THE WORK? That's what we're talking about today! You can now get a print or ebook copy of Becoming Future You: Be the Hero of Your Own Life!  The audiobook will be out soon, but I don't have an exact date on it. Order your copy of the print or ebook at https://www.becomingfutureyou.com/book 

Grab the FREE Starter Guide and get clarity on Future You: https://becomingfutureyou.com/start 

The book is out! Grab an ebook or print copy of Becoming Future You: Be the Hero of Your Own Life at https://becomingfutureyou.com/book 

Prefer to get your motivational content on video? Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: http://bit.ly/jollytipsyoutube 

Ready to become Future You faster? Join the DIY Coaching Program and unlock your 5-star life: https://www.becomingfutureyou.com/unlock 

ABOUT MEL & BECOMING FUTURE YOU
#becomingfutureyou

Mel Jolly has been working with authors and creative entrepreneurs for nearly two decades. She is a marketing consultant and coach who works with women to help them rediscover their dreams, level up their enjoyment of life, and unleash their awesomeness.

Mel started out as a Library Assistant in Young Adult Services where she specialized in outreach to at risk teens at juvenile detention centers and group homes. Mel also holds a Bachelor of Fine Arts in Theatre Performance, which means she’s not afraid of a challenge, a crowd, or a little drama!

Mel can help you unlock your potential and clarify your vision for Future You. Grab the FREE Starter Guide and start getting answers: https://www.becomingfutureyou.com/start

I achieved my dream of becoming a published author!! How did I do it? How did I get around my roadblocks and actually DO THE WORK? That's what we're talking about today! You can now get a print or ebook copy of Becoming Future You: Be the Hero of Your Own Life!  The audiobook will be out soon, but I don't have an exact date on it. Order your copy of the print or ebook at https://www.becomingfutureyou.com/book 

Grab the FREE Starter Guide and get clarity on Future You: https://becomingfutureyou.com/start 

Prefer to get your motivational content on video? Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: http://bit.ly/jollytipsyoutube 

Ready to become Future You faster? Join the DIY Coaching Program and unlock your 5-star life: https://www.becomingfutureyou.com/unlock 

ABOUT MEL & BECOMING FUTURE YOU
#becomingfutureyou

Mel Jolly has been working with authors and creative entrepreneurs for nearly two decades. She is a marketing consultant and coach who works with women to help them rediscover their dreams, level up their enjoyment of life, and unleash their awesomeness.

Mel started out as a Library Assistant in Young Adult Services where she specialized in outreach to at risk teens at juvenile detention centers and group homes. Mel also holds a Bachelor of Fine Arts in Theatre Performance, which means she’s not afraid of a challenge, a crowd, or a little drama!

Mel can help you unlock your potential and clarify your vision for Future You. Grab the FREE Starter Guide and start getting answers: https://www.becomingfutureyou.com/start 

Take the FREE 1-hour training and stop sabotaging Future You: https://becomingfutureyou.com/sabotage 

Grab the FREE Starter Guide and get clarity on Future You: https://becomingfutureyou.com/start 

The book is out! Grab an ebook or print copy of Becoming Future You: Be the Hero of Your Own Life at https://becomingfutureyou.com/book 

Prefer to get your motivational content on video? Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: http://bit.ly/jollytipsyoutube 

Ready to become Future You faster? Join the DIY Coaching Program and unlock your 5-star life: https://www.becomingfutureyou.com/unlock 

ABOUT MEL & BECOMING FUTURE YOU
#becomingfutureyou

Mel Jolly has been working with authors and creative entrepreneurs for nearly two decades. She is a marketing consultant and coach who works with women to help them rediscover their dreams, level up their enjoyment of life, and unleash their awesomeness.

Mel started out as a Library Assistant in Young Adult Services where she specialized in outreach to at risk teens at juvenile detention centers and group homes. Mel also holds a Bachelor of Fine Arts in Theatre Performance, which means she’s not afraid of a challenge, a crowd, or a little drama!

Mel can help you unlock your potential and clarify your vision for Future You. Grab the FREE Starter Guide and start getting answers: https://www.becomingfutureyou.com/start 

OMG MY BOOK IS COMING OUT SO SOON! On Nov 22, you'll be able to get a print or ebook copy of Becoming Future You: Be the Hero of Your Own Life! Today, I'm sharing with you chapter 5 of the audiobook. The audiobook will be out soon, but I don't have an exact date on it. Order your copy of the print or ebook at https://www.becomingfutureyou.com/book 

Grab the FREE Starter Guide and get clarity on Future You: https://becomingfutureyou.com/start 

Prefer to get your motivational content on video? Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: http://bit.ly/jollytipsyoutube 

Ready to become Future You faster? Join the DIY Coaching Program and unlock your 5-star life: https://www.becomingfutureyou.com/unlock 

ABOUT MEL & BECOMING FUTURE YOU
#becomingfutureyou

Mel Jolly has been working with authors and creative entrepreneurs for nearly two decades. She is a marketing consultant and coach who works with women to help them rediscover their dreams, level up their enjoyment of life, and unleash their awesomeness.

Mel started out as a Library Assistant in Young Adult Services where she specialized in outreach to at risk teens at juvenile detention centers and group homes. Mel also holds a Bachelor of Fine Arts in Theatre Performance, which means she’s not afraid of a challenge, a crowd, or a little drama!

Mel can help you unlock your potential and clarify your vision for Future You. Grab the FREE Starter Guide and start getting answers: https://www.becomingfutureyou.com/start 

What do you do when someone says something nice to you?

Take the FREE 1-hour training and stop sabotaging Future You: https://becomingfutureyou.com/sabotage 

Grab the FREE journal and get clarity on Future You: https://becomingfutureyou.com/journal 

Prefer to get your motivational content on video? Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: http://bit.ly/jollytipsyoutube 

Ready to become Future You faster? Join the DIY Coaching Program and unlock your 5-star life: https://www.becomingfutureyou.com/unlock 

ABOUT MEL & BECOMING FUTURE YOU
#becomingfutureyou

Mel Jolly has been working with authors and creative entrepreneurs for nearly two decades. She is a marketing consultant and coach who works with women to help them rediscover their dreams, level up their enjoyment of life, and unleash their awesomeness.

Mel started out as a Library Assistant in Young Adult Services where she specialized in outreach to at risk teens at juvenile detention centers and group homes. Mel also holds a Bachelor of Fine Arts in Theatre Performance, which means she’s not afraid of a challenge, a crowd, or a little drama!

Mel can help you unlock your potential and clarify your vision for Future You. Grab the free journal and get started: https://www.becomingfutureyou.com/journal

I invited my friend, Tawdra Kandle, to come on the podcast today and talk about how she uses the principles of Becoming Future You to support strong relationships with her adult kids. Family relationships can be a challenge and Tawdra and I talk about the things Past Tawdra did that set her up for success and the things Present Tawdra is doing now to set her up for success in the future.

Grab the FREE journal and get clarity on Future You: https://becomingfutureyou.com/journal 

Prefer to get your motivational content on video? Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: http://bit.ly/jollytipsyoutube 

Ready to become Future You faster? Join the DIY Coaching Program and unlock your 5-star life: https://www.becomingfutureyou.com/unlock 

ABOUT MEL & BECOMING FUTURE YOU
#becomingfutureyou

Mel Jolly has been working with authors and creative entrepreneurs for nearly two decades. She is a marketing consultant and coach who works with women to help them rediscover their dreams, level up their enjoyment of life, and unleash their awesomeness.

Mel started out as a Library Assistant in Young Adult Services where she specialized in outreach to at risk teens at juvenile detention centers and group homes. Mel also holds a Bachelor of Fine Arts in Theatre Performance, which means she’s not afraid of a challenge, a crowd, or a little drama!

Mel can help you unlock your potential and clarify your vision for Future You. Grab the free journal and get started: https://www.becomingfutureyou.com/journal