What happens when you move to a brand new city with no plan, no network, and a quiet belief that something better is waiting? Spencer Norawong left LA for Orlando with no agenda — just a gut feeling and a willingness to show up. What he found was community, self-worth, and a way of moving through the world that makes everyone around him feel seen. This one is about friendship, shame, growing up Mormon, and the radical act of celebrating yourself.
Why making friends as an adult is hard — and what actually makes it work
How shame from religious upbringing quietly shapes the way you see yourself
Why Spencer never lets anyone stand alone at the edge of a group — and where that comes from
The difference between people-pleasing and genuine kindness
What it means to know your worth — and add tax
Adult Friendship – Why showing up once isn’t enough and the follow-through is everything
Coming to Terms With the Mormon Church – What stays, what goes, and how you untangle a belief system from your identity
Shame & Self-Rejection – The toxic cycle of not feeling good enough and how to start breaking it
Fresh Starts – Moving cities, reinventing yourself, and choosing who you want to become
Radical Inclusion – Why Spencer waits for everyone to catch up — and what that costs him
Moved from Orange County, CA to Orlando, FL to start over with intention
Found community through apps like Time Left, Meetup, and BumbleBFF — and kept showing up after the first event
Former Mormon who is still untangling faith, shame, and identity with curiosity rather than bitterness
Plans deeply thoughtful, intentional experiences for the people he loves
Believes the world is richer through connection and that being kind costs nothing
Struggling to make meaningful friendships after college or a big move
Processing a religious upbringing that left you with more questions than answers
Someone who gives a lot to others but hasn’t yet learned to receive
Rebuilding your identity after a major life change
Anyone who has ever felt like an outsider and decided to make sure no one else felt that way
“Know your worth and add tax.”
“The world doesn’t owe you anything — but you owe it to the world not to be a dick.”
“You’re not as weird as you think you are.”
“You can’t let the norm organize your life — it doesn’t work for everyone.”
“The only thing you can depend on is that things are going to change.” Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/snoreawong/
Deep conversations exploring the significant moments that shape who we become. Originally started as “Winning Wednesday” during COVID-19 as a remote networking tool and mid-week inspiration. Now evolved into “Becoming You” – stories of transformation available to binge at your convenience. Created and hosted by Katrina Fuhrman, The ConnectorQueen.
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