What’s your excuse for not networking? Tom Broxham drowned at age three, had near-drowning experiences at eight and thirteen, another one just last year — and he still gets back in the water every time. When he started using that story to help job seekers overcome the fear of networking, something clicked: it’s hard to say you can’t talk to a stranger when the person in front of you has survived drowning four times. Tom, a community connector and advocate for the Brockton Network, reframes everything you think you know about networking — starting with the fact that you’re probably already doing it and just don’t recognize it yet. What You’ll Learn: Why the fear of networking and the fear of water are the same fear — and how to face both Why networking isn’t the big event with 300 people — and where it actually happens How one cup of coffee becomes roots, then branches, then an entire network Why collecting 100 business cards at an event is the least effective networking you can do Why engaging on LinkedIn posts is more powerful than posting your own content Key Focus Areas: Drowning as Metaphor – How Tom’s near-drowning experiences became the most disarming networking story you’ll ever hear Networking Is Already Happening – Why hiking, hiking, a LinkedIn comment, and a one-on-one conversation all count — and why most people don’t recognize them as networking Roots and Branches – How one coffee meeting becomes the seed of an entire network if you tend it properly Quality Over Quantity – Why 100 cards from a big event is nothing compared to five real relationships built over time Start in the Shallow End – Tom’s framework for tackling any fear — break it down, breathe, go slow, and build from there Tom’s Approach: Community connector and advocate for the Brockton Network — focused on helping job seekers overcome the fear of networking Drowned at age three and had near-drowning experiences at eight, thirteen, and again as an adult — and learned to swim in his thirties anyway Uses his personal story to disarm the people who think their networking fear is too big to overcome Believes networking is organic, casual, and already happening in your life — the formal event is just one small version of it Advocates for meaningful LinkedIn engagement over passive posting — adding real value to conversations rather than collecting connections Perfect If You’re: Someone who avoids networking events because they feel overwhelming, transactional, or just not you A job seeker who’s been connecting on LinkedIn and asking for favors before building any relationship Someone facing a fear — professional or personal — that feels too big to start tackling A connector who wants a framework for turning one good conversation into a growing network Tom’s Philosophy: “It’s hard to say you can’t go talk to a stranger when someone’s overcome drowning.” “Networking for me is getting to know people — this right here is networking.” “From that one cup of coffee, all of a sudden you’ve got roots — and it just keeps expanding.” “It doesn’t matter how big your network is — it’s how close and tight the network that you have.” “Start in the shallow end — take your time, breathe, and tackle it one thing at a time.” ABOUT TOM BROXHAM: Community Connector | Brockton Network Advocate | Fear of Networking Coach | Helping job seekers and professionals build real, meaningful networks — one conversation at a time CONNECT WITH TOM: LinkedIn: / tombroxham CONNECT WITH KATRINA: LinkedIn: / connectorqueen