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This episode is a real conversation about motherhood, not just the “joy,” but everything. We talk about the emotional highs and lows, the challenges, the support (or lack of it), and how it all impacts your life, your career, and your sense of self.

I’m joined by Toluwase, who shares her personal experience navigating pregnancy, postpartum, and motherhood . We get into everything.

If you’ve ever wondered what motherhood really looks like, this one is for you.

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I had a great conversation with Mrs. Florence Abolaji Lawal about balancing career, marriage, and personal growth. We talked about the idea of “having it all” and how it often comes in seasons, the importance of setting priorities, and some of the common myths around women, leadership, and success. She also shared her perspectives on women’s empowerment, financial independence, and rediscovering yourself at different stages of life. It was a really nice conversation.

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Yes! We now have a community, and the first 20 people to join will get something special. Let’s get the conversation going, here’s the link to join: https://chat.whatsapp.com/K0FU2tNWdTu4Am9lYv50CU

On this week’s episode, I sat down with CheckedEdgar, and let’s just say… I was shocked to learn that he went on 72 dates in 52 weeks. And somehow, he’s still single.

We talked about everything, the good dates, the chaotic ones, and even the time a woman screamed that he stole her phone on their first date. We also got into what it really means to be single and searching in Lagos.

CheckedEdgar was honest about what men think about love, commitment, and vulnerability. If you’ve ever dated in Lagos, argued about “what are we?”, or wondered whether it’s you or the city… this one is for you.

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In this episode, Comfort Omovre, a relationship coach, and I unpack the question, “Is love ever enough?” We talk about heartbreak, healing, and the role friendship plays in romantic relationships. We also share our experiences with toxic dynamics, self-discovery after heartbreak, and learning to let go of the desire for validation. We share it all from the heart.

00:00 The Crisis of Faith in Love

02:52 Understanding Love and Healing

05:29 The Balancing Act of Life and Work

08:46 The Nature of Love: Choices and Actions

11:44 Friendship as the Foundation of Love

22:41 Reviving Romance in Long-Term Relationships

23:45 Understanding Anger in Relationships

26:02 The Complexity of Love and Conflict

27:54 Navigating Breakups and Emotional Turmoil

30:02 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Branding

44:53 Resilience Through Pain and Growth

47:20 Struggles with Mental Health and Self-Perception

50:12 The Power of Letting Go of Others' Opinions

51:35 Navigating Heartbreak and Personal Growth

52:24 Understanding the Roots of Relationship Failures

57:30 Cultural Influences on Self-Worth and Relationships

01:03:07 The Journey of Reinvention and Letting Go

01:09:33 Navigating Difficult Relationships

01:12:48 Understanding Love and Attachment

01:13:44 The Triangle of Love

01:18:07 Unlearning and Self-Discovery

01:23:00 Embracing Vulnerability and Growth

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I had a really chill conversation with Deborah about how she moved from food science into tech and is now working as an AI software developer. We talked about learning tech on your own, dealing with imposter syndrome, and why having the right community matters so much. She also shared some honest truths about tech, especially for women, and why it is never too late to start. If you have ever thought about getting into tech, you will definitely enjoy this episode.

01:28 Deborah's Journey in Tech

03:24 Understanding AI and Software Development

05:32 Navigating Career Transitions

07:43 The Importance of Networking

10:09 Work-Life Balance and Personal Reflections

23:30 The Journey to 1K Subscribers

23:32 Introversion and Social Dynamics

25:53 Transitioning from Food Science to Engineering

27:16 The Role of Mathematics in Tech

29:21 Curiosity and Self-Learning in Tech

43:20 Finding Free Resources for Learning Tech

45:11 Women Supporting Women in Tech

47:47 The Changing Landscape for Women in Tech

50:10 Overcoming Misconceptions About Tech

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In this episode, Aduragbemi Oladunjoye and I talk about content creation and what it really means to be visible in the digital space. We talk about the pressure that comes with being called a “content creator,” personal branding, and the balance between planning and spontaneity when showing up online.

We also talked about networking, self-promotion, and why advocating for yourself matters in competitive spaces.This episode is about visibility, growth, and learning how to show up fully, even when it feels uncomfortable.

00:00 The Journey to Content Creation

02:58 Understanding Content Creation and Digital Presence

06:03 The Importance of Personal Branding

08:58 Navigating Content Strategy: Planning vs. Spontaneity

11:54 The Numbers Game in Content Creation

14:58 The Pressure of Going Viral

17:55 Controversial Topics and Engagement

19:56 Culinary Preferences and Nostalgia

21:03 Reflections on Growth and Hard Work

22:01 2016: A Pivotal Year in Education

24:00 Transitioning from Education to Digital Marketing

26:56 Understanding Social Media Management

30:05 The Importance of Visibility in Career

31:58 The Role of Education in Professional Development

34:01 Navigating Digital Marketing Strategies

35:58 The Balance of Online Presence and Professionalism

39:04 Networking and Self-Promotion

43:39 The Challenges of Networking

44:30 Effective Networking Strategies

46:36 Building Connections at Events

48:43 The Importance of Horizontal Networking

51:01 Overcoming Timidity in Networking

52:05 Sharing Personal Journeys: Alopecia Awareness

01:05:08 Finding Courage to Share Your Story

01:09:09 Continuous Learning in Content Creation

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In this episode, I sit down with Ehiz Oriaifo to have an honest conversation about the journey from unemployment to entrepreneurship in Nigeria. We discuss the realities of building a creative business, using social media for marketing, navigating client relationships, and why diversifying income is key.

Ehiz shares his personal journey, the fears of leaving stability, lessons learned along the way, and what keeps him going. This conversation is for anyone trying to build something meaningful despite uncertainty.

00:00 Introduction and Personal Journey

02:31 The Role of Social Media in Business

04:02 Marketing Strategies for Reaching the Right Audience

08:03 The Challenges of Being a Photographer

15:00 Transitioning from 9-to-5 to Full-Time Entrepreneurship

20:58 Building a Portfolio and Collaborations

21:56 Technical Difficulties and Transitioning Focus

21:57 The Fear of Leaving Corporate Stability

23:23 Diversifying Income as a Creative

28:02 Navigating Family Conversations About Career Changes

30:36 Understanding Strengths in Entrepreneurship

34:32 The Joy of Capturing Moments in Photography

38:55 Balancing Worship and Photography in Church Settings

40:27 Introduction to Challenges in Nigerian Photography

43:48 Client Expectations and Wedding Day Woes4

5:37 The Emotional Toll of Entrepreneurship

51:26 Advice for Aspiring Entrepreneurs

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In this episode of the Becoming You podcast, I sit down with Tofunmi, an HR professional, and we get into it. She shares how she found her way into human resources, what the job market actually looks like right now, and how AI is changing the hiring process.

We talk about confidence in interviews, what HR people are really looking for, and some personal experiences that shaped how we both think about job hunting and hiring. From tailoring your CV to negotiating your salary and showing up well in interviews, Tofunmi gives the HR perspective most people never get to hear.

00:00 Introduction to Job Hunting Insights

07:36 Tofunmi's Journey into HR

15:30 Interview Experiences and Lessons Learned

19:20 The Power of Preparation in Interviews

22:17 Building Confidence and Communication Skills

26:06 Navigating Interview Dynamics

30:56 The Role of AI in Recruitment

38:46 Crafting the Perfect CV

47:06 Navigating Salary Negotiations

49:14 Understanding Your Worth

52:00 The Interview Process: Insights from an HR Perspective

54:42 The Emotional Toll of Recruitment

57:31 Learning from Recruitment Mistakes

01:00:24 Preparing for Future Opportunities

01:04:09 Final Tips for Job Seekers

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