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BecomingU episodes
- Are we too grown to be broke?
In this episode, Bukky and her cohost Dami have a lighthearted conversation about beauty standards, self-image struggles, and the complicated relationship between money and happiness.
They share honest takes on being broke, trying to stay cute on a budget, and the pressure to have it all figured out.
00:00
Navigating Adulting: The Chaos of Growing Up
03:06
Beauty Standards and Self-Image
05:54
The Role of Money in Adult Life
08:40
Investing and Financial Growth
11:30
Lessons from COVID: Missed Opportunities
14:29
The Struggles of Being Broke
17:21
Finding Purpose and Passion
20:07
The Reality of Career Choices
22:54
The Cost of Living and Financial Management
25:27
Friendship Dynamics and Financial Strain
28:09
Reflections on Personal Growth
31:03
Coping with Financial Stress
34:24
Final Thoughts on Adulting and Resilience
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52 min - Nepo vs Lapo : should we fight or embrace nepotism ?
We’ve all been hooked with the recent debate about Nepotism and its less privileged alter ego - Lapotism. But is nepotism a good privilege, or are good privileges nepotism? Join us as we talk about all things Nepo. I’m sure you’ll enjoy this one.
00:00
Introduction to Nepotism in Nigeria
02:52
Public Opinions on Nepotism
06:09
Understanding Nepotism: Definitions and Perspectives
08:49
The Impact of Nepotism on Society
12:06
The Nepo vs. Lapo Debate
14:55
The Role of Money in Nepotism
18:09
Nepotism and Its Unfair Advantages
21:02
Reflections on Nepotism and Personal Experiences
25:50
Understanding Nepotism: A Double-Edged Sword
34:30
The Impact of Nepotism on Society
45:41
The Hustle vs. Nepotism Debate
50:53
Reflections on Privilege and Opportunity
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53 min - Reality Check: Is University a Scam or Still Worth It?
In this episode of the podcast, we talk about the struggles of adulting, the reality of life after university, and how to navigate career choices. We share our own experiences, the lessons we’ve learned so far, and some advice for anyone entering university feeling unsure.
06:58 Expectations vs. Reality of Adulthood
13:13 Career Aspirations and Educational Journeys
22:18 Reality Checks After Graduation
31:21 Understanding Self and Life's Purpose
33:14 The Impact of Education and Environment
36:37 Navigating Career Choices in Nigeria
40:12 Harsh Realities of Adulthood
44:27 Survival, Stability, and Passion
55:31 Advice for University Students with Uncertainty
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1 hr 2 min - Vibes, Grace, Cruise… Nigerians’ Hidden Battle with Imposter Syndrome
In this episode, Bukky and Damilola discuss the pervasive issue of imposter syndrome. They share personal experiences and insights on how self-doubt and comparison impact one’s sense of self-worth. They explore the roots of these feelings, including cultural influences, and highlight the importance of community support. Ultimately, they emphasize the need for self-acceptance and recognising one’s achievements.
00:00 Sharing Weekly Highlights
08:00 Exploring Imposter Syndrome
11:56 Understanding Self-Doubt
16:04 The Impact of External Validation
19:57 The Roots of Imposter Syndrome
23:56 Navigating Comparison and Self-Worth
28:38 The Culture of Humility and Downplaying Achievements
30:22 The Role of Social Media in Self-Perception
37:46 Finding Validation in a Competitive World
51:38 Navigating Competition and Comparison in the Digital Age
54:01 Managing Imposter Syndrome: Personal Strategies
01:00:06 Celebrating Achievements and Self-Validation
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51 min - Am I who they think I am? The dilemma of a Nigerian adult.
In this episode of the BecomingU podcast, we’re talking about identity crisis, you know, those moments when you’re not even sure who you really are. We share our personal stories about feeling lost in adulthood, figuring ourselves out, and dealing with all the societal expectations that shape us.
00:00 — Introduction and Personal Updates
09:30 — Exploring Identity Crisis
18:25 — Generational Shifts in Identity
19:08 — Exploring Multiple Personalities
20:08 — Understanding Imposter Syndrome
31:03 — The Cost of Pursuing Dreams
34:15 — Growth and Self-Acceptance
37:17 — Impact of Societal Expectations
40:38 — Defining Freedom Beyond Societal NormsInstagram page - BecomingU_podcast
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45 min - Glow Up or Go Home - Battling Beauty Bias in Nigeria
In this episode of the Becoming You podcast, Bukky and Dami share personal experiences and discuss the societal pressures surrounding beauty standards. They explore the impact of colorism on self-perception, the influence of media, and the challenges faced by both dark-skinned and light-skinned individuals. The conversation emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance and the need for societal change to embrace all skin tones.
04:21Exploring Colorism and Personal Experiences
10:14
The Pressure of Beauty Standards
14:58
The Impact of Social Media on Skin Tone Perception
19:36
Navigating Opportunities and Discrimination
24:28
Cultural Differences in Colorism
27:48
Understanding Blackness and Identity
29:44
Beauty Standards and Skin Lightening
32:00
Cultural Influences on Beauty Norms
35:06
The Impact of Colorism in Society
38:51
Personal Experiences with Beauty Standards
41:17
Encouraging Self-Acceptance in Youth
44:28
The Dangers of Bleaching and Societal Pressures
47:40
Messages to Younger Generations
50:53
Navigating Relationships and Colorism
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57 min - ARE NIGERIAN ADULTS BUILT DIFFERENTLY?
In this episode of the BecomingU podcast, we talk what it really means to grow up in Nigeria. From communal living and moments of self-blame to the emotional pressure that comes with society’s expectations. We also reflect on how our religious upbringing shaped who we are today. It’s a conversation about the importance of community, the need to break out of survival mode, and how we can find our way back to prioritizing ourselves.
OUTLINE
00:00 Welcome Back to Season Two
00:04 The Gift of Communal Living in Nigeria
00:15 Navigating Self-Discovery and Unlearning
33:07 The Impact of Upbringing on Identity
35:10 Friendship Dynamics and Personal Growth
36:45 Gratitude Amidst Challenges
39:15 Future Conversations on Colorism
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42 min - This is BecomingU
BecomingU is a space for real conversations and growth. In this trailer, we’ll tell you what the podcast is about and what you can expect from each episode. Welcome to the journey.
3 min - ADULTING 140 - AFRAID TO TAKE THE FIRST STEP ?
Could this be the end of a season? In today's episode, we discuss the importance of taking action and materializing our goals as we wrap up the first season. It has been a great ride.
Thank you so much for sticking with the podcast. I'm not so good at goodbyes, so I'm just going to say, 'See you soon.' Enjoy the episode!
Welcome to another episode of the podcast ''Becoming You,'' where we discuss the complexities of adulthood. I'm your host, Bukola.
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Twitter — https://twitter.com/Bukola_Adeyemi_
You can also watch the podcast on YouTube — https://youtu.be/6oE7Y1m9VqE
I look forward to connecting with you 😊.
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25 min - ADULTING 139 - UPBRINGING: DO FAMILY VALUES SHAPE OUR PERSONALITY?
What role do family values play in our lives? Are we truly shaped by our childhood experiences? In today’s episode, my guest and I discuss how our upbringing has molded our personalities. We also contextualize this in the African parenting style and reminisce about childhood memories.
Welcome to another episode of the podcast ''Becoming You,'' where we discuss the complexities of adulthood. I'm your host, Bukola.
Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/adeyemi_buk...
Twitter — https://twitter.com/Bukola_Adeyemi_
You can also watch the podcast on YouTube — https://youtu.be/6oE7Y1m9VqE
I look forward to connecting with you 😊.
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About BecomingU
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BecomingU Podcast is a safe space for adults figuring it out. New episodes every Thursday.
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