Before You Know My Name

Today's episode speaks about the magic of the universe! How it just aligns so perfectly and mystically sometimes and you just have to be patient enough and hustle enough and trust it enough to be able to see it. I take you from a moment when a hater tried to put me down because I was just "sitting there" on their roster and in just a matter of a few years I was working on amazing sets. Listen up if you're looking for a little inspo today!

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Welcome to my future late night talk show story that I will tell! One of those, "what were you/WHAT WAS I thinking??" moments. Haven't heard enough of those on here, right?? No ad today, because sometimes we just need life without ads, amirite?? Enjoy <3

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TIME OUT! Let's take a TO and have a few morsels of sort of random conversation. There's more of a mini story in this one, about how I got amazing health insurance by being an actor... but more of a conversation about standing up for yourself, whether you're an actor, or whatever you are! People's looks and comments can be like daggers in your heart if you haven't had enough experience yet dealing with standing strong. However, NO ONE will take you seriously until YOU do first, and that can take years... particularly in a town like LA or NY that is LITTERED with actors and creatives reaching for goals. Some people who aren't committed do "ruin" it for those of us who do work hard and are disciplined. However, we can't wait around for people to take us seriously, because even when we are making money or have cold hard evidence of being an actor, they still might not.

Key takeaways:

• Stand up for yourself, no matter what.
• DO NOT wait for others to take you seriously.
• DO WHAT YOU WANT!
• Whatever profession you are, or want to be in, be disciplined, creative in your approach, determined and work hard and then just BE it. You are it, whether you're compensated or not.
• If you're someone who asks actors what they've been in as the first question, it's time to re-think that. Let's think even just a little more outside the box and get to know the person better on the inside, as opposed to judging them from superficial tendencies.
• YOU CAN EVEN GET GREAT HEALTH INSURANCE IF YOU'RE AN ACTOR!
• Sometimes life really shows up for you in the most unexpected ways.

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Mentioned/quoted in this podcast: 10,000 No's- Matthew Del Negro's podcast with one of my favorite people in Hollywood, Dan Bucatinsky: https://www.10000nos.com/episodes/dan-bucatinsky

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Ready for another post-breakup story? You know it! Coming at you from another one of my ‘nights in the trenches,’ however this one ends up with a bad middle...My cousin who’s a nurse sent me these exact words in a text, “Yeah :/ it looks like herpes to me, I’m sorry! Go to the dr. ASAP.” *cue heart stopping* Listen to hear how my cousin diagnosed me with herpes over the phone, even after I used a damn condom.

Lessons learned from this moment:

• If it itches for a week, go to the DR.
• Don’t ask your cousin over the phone if you have herpes.
• ALWAYS put a damn blanket down or something!
• Live your life.

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Today, friends, I give you a story from a time when I was collecting credits where I could, so said I would be a local hire in The Big Easy! I took it as a vacation and work week, HOWEVER what it turned into was a week from hell. Join me as we go on a journey that just keeps getting more cringe-y every second.

Lessons I learned from this:

• BE SUPERRRRR CAREFUL ABOUT LOCAL HIRE STUFF!

• DON'T TAKE SO MANY CHANCES WHEN TRAVELING FOR JUST ONE WEEK.

• JUST LEAVE THE DOG IN LA

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"Breakin' Up is Hard to do... " DON'T WE ALL KNOW IT! This story tells of how I handled a long-distance relationship with someone while still trying to be in LA Monday-Friday, and how the relationship ended. However, most importantly, I tell of how a moment of hurt/weakness from this life event, made me falter in my faith. Then, how life's mirror showed itself and made me dig my heels in deeper and decide to stay, and then what that meant for my near future after that decision.

Lessons learned from this momentous occasion:

• LET IT GOOOO (yes, cue music)
• Rock bottom, means you've only got up to go!
• Everyone's mid-20's are a shit storm.
• The universe will clear-out your life and take no prisoners if/when it needs to.
• Your next success story might only be a month or two away!

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It pains me to admit this, but as clear as the title is, this was a doozie…. Doing a show at UCB for more than six months, and applying for us to get into the largest sketch festival in the world, gave me a sense that I was helping the group move forward, when really I took a huge step back. Here to freely admit I have tons of flaws and mistakes like everyone else!

Lessons learned from this moment:

• Accept my mistakes and flaws.
• Forgive myself as quickly and as simply as possible, always.
• Sleep overnight on every email.

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How a moment of complete darkness turned into a much-needed opening up of me and therefore let the light, that I so desperately needed at the time, peak through. This story is a throwback to my time in college and auditioning for my first professional show as a young adult.

Lessons learned from this moment:

• Trust my intuition like my life depends on it, because it does.
• Getting to see first hand at a young age that I did every single thing that I could, and in the end this should have been mine, but in a different world.
• If I'm not processing grief or hardship, when another comes along I won't be able to handle it because I'm already too backed up.

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I thought it wise to add in my story here, during this movement, of how race was introduced to me at ten years old as an actor. This story features a moment where I was told I didn't receive something because a person of color did instead, and how damaging that can be to our society as a whole; no one wins with that mentality.

Easy links to some resources I've used/taken action on, in support of the Black Lives Matter movement:

Graphic artist, Jessika Savage is donating all proceeds for this shirt/sticker design to the ACLU:

https://jessikasavage.threadless.com/designs/united-we-skate

Louisville, KY major's e-mail:

[email protected]

*demand justice for Breonna Taylor's murderers

Phone numbers and e-mail addresses for Los Angeles City Council members:

https://www.lacity.org/government/popular-information/elected-officials/city-council

*demand they work with the mayor to defund the LAPD (this doesn't mean take away their money in it's entirety)

Make art, because the people who died can't anymore. My example has some names of people of color, who identified as members of the LGBTQA+ group, who were murdered, simply for being themselves:

https://www.instagram.com/p/CBq8KvQpTet/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Sign (+ donate) to help this campaign that reinstates laws that protect LGBT people's right to healthcare, super quick!

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#takeactiontoday

I promised JUICE! And here's a taste...Here I delve into a night in my life that I'm not too proud to talk about, but should be hilarious for you. My friends tell me this story is their most favorite to hear, and even one of my friends tells it at parties. NSFW or kids, or the faint of heart. Let's do it!

Lessons learned from this moment:

• Don't do any of this, ever again...

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