Being The One

Are you gung ho about something at first but then lose interest quickly? You likely compulsively buy self-help books but never finish them. Maybe you've bought online courses but you're always falling behind. If you struggle to stay motivated learning a new skill or remain hopeful while looking for love, then this episode is for you. You'll learn how to finish things and how to put yourself out there. Teach yourself the skills needed to find your person: https://www.gabriellevaldes.com/blog

When you first start using dating apps, you might feel like the conversations are dry and rigid. And if you've been on the apps for a while now, it feels like you have to pull teeth to get a response back. Why is it so hard to really connect with people? Listen to this episode whether you're struggling to get to know someone you just matched with or a crush you've been seeing for a while now. I share questions you can ask someone to get to know who they really are.

Times ticking and you feel the pressure to find someone. You don't understand why it's so hard for you... your friends make finding love look so easy. Deep down you worry that something is wrong with you. This episode helps you understand yourself more so that you stop feeling ashamed for being single. Trust me. There's nothing wrong with you! In fact, your dating process is different (and that's a good thing). Learn more: https://www.gabriellevaldes.com/blog

And I'm back! If we haven't met yet, I'm Gabby Valdes. I'm a dating coach that helps singles looking for love find someone to share their life with. Tune in every week for a new episode. You'll learn how to find your person and ways to overcome rejection - and everything in between. It's going to be a great season! Can't wait? Start learning how to find your person on my new blog now.

Online dating can be overwhelming. You might even burn yourself out before you start talking to anyone. This episode is for you if you dislike online dating or if you're already burnout. This episode will help you find success on the apps and get you excited about online dating again.

Listen to this episode to find out if you're being love bombed or if they are genuinely interested in you. You will learn the difference between love bombing and healthy love, how to figure it out yourself and how to avoid being swept up in it.

We first learn how to love from our caregivers. This was when I first learned that love was distant, unavailable and inconsistent. This carried over well into my adult life. I crafted a story that I was unloveable and unworthy because of it. This story had serious consequences. I was repulsed by healthy love and instead chased emotionally unavailable people. This episode helps you learn how to accept healthy love so that you can break the unavailable cycle for you (and your future kids) once in for all.

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Before being best friends, Dustin and I thought about becoming romantic partners. We get real and share our story to show you the difference between friendship and romance. This episode is packed with tools that help you navigate unspoken attractions, the friend zone, red flags and how to respectfully let someone know that you aren't interested in them.

Connect with Dustin:

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-big-believer-podcast/id1500071696

https://thepersonalfinanceplaybook.com/

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It's hard to love again when things end with the person you thought was the one. I've been there. I share my story about how I found and passionately pursued "the one" only to have him abruptly break up with me. This episode helps you finally accept the breakup and learn how to move on.

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Starting new relationships can be scary especially when they always end up in heartbreak. You're probably jaded and thinking "what's the point anyway?" This episode will help you start dating or start a new relationship when you're afraid that the relationship will eventually end.