In today’s episode of Beloved, we explore one of the deepest unspoken wounds:👉🏽 What happens when your value has always felt conditional?

We talk about:

* 💔 How father wounds distort identity

* 🧠 Why performance becomes a coping mechanism

* 🪞 How to recognize when you're tying your worth to achievement

* 🛠️ How God lovingly rebuilds identity with truth

* ✍🏽 Real stories from my own life — from sabotaged dreams to hard-earned clarity

* 🙏🏽 How to reframe your self-worth through God’s eyes

Through personal reflection and Scripture, I invite you to ask a simple but life-changing question:“Who told you that you weren’t enough?”And then, even more importantly: “What does God say instead?”

Affirmation from the episode:

“I am not what I do. I am not who left. I am not what I lack. I am loved because I belong to God.”

Verse of the week:

“See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are.”– 1 John 3:1

🌱 Let’s Go Deeper:If this episode stirred something in you and you want to explore your healing journey further, you can book your 1-to-1 sessions or simply connect with me at [email protected].

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🕊️ Stay rooted in truth, wrapped in grace — and remember:You are beloved.

Have you ever looked in the mirror and thought, "I don’t even know who I am anymore?"

In this deeply personal episode, we explore a question many of us carry quietly: Who am I, really?

Whether you’ve spent years becoming who others needed you to be — the achiever, the fixer, the “good one” — or you’ve simply lost sight of yourself in the noise of life, this episode is your invitation to come home to the truth of who you are.

I also share my own story of becoming a doctor — not because it was my dream, but because it was expected of me — and the painful yet freeing journey of walking away from the version of myself that was never truly mine.

You’ll learn:

* Why identity becomes distorted through unmet needs and performance-based love

* How identity confusion shows up in our everyday lives

* What the Bible actually says about your God-given identity

* How to begin the healing process of rediscovering the real you

With reflection prompts, affirmations, and biblical truth woven throughout, this episode is for anyone who’s ever felt invisible, uncertain, or worn out from trying to be enough.

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🌱 Let’s Go Deeper:If this episode stirred something in you and you want to explore your healing journey further, you can book your 1-to-1 sessions or simply connect with me at [email protected].

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🕊️ Stay rooted in truth, wrapped in grace — and remember:You are beloved.

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Theme: Overdependence on Romantic Relationships

Do you lose yourself in every relationship?Have you ever thought, “I don’t even know who I am without him”?Does being single feel like being invisible — or worse, unworthy?

In this episode of Beloved, we’re diving into a sensitive but powerful conversation: what happens when a romantic relationship becomes your entire identity. Especially for women carrying unhealed father wounds, it’s all too easy to substitute romantic love for the affirmation we never received growing up.

I open up about my own experience — times when I abandoned routines, gave up my boundaries, and poured everything into relationships that didn’t value me, because I didn’t know who I was outside of being “his.”

Together, we’ll explore:

* Why this pattern often starts with a broken father bond

* Signs that you’ve placed your identity in being “chosen” rather than being whole

* Biblical truth that re-centers your identity in Christ, not in your relationship status

* A step-by-step guide to reclaim your voice, passions, boundaries, and sense of self

You are more than someone’s partner.You are God’s beloved — complete, called, and deeply seen.

📖 Featured Scriptures:

* 1 Peter 2:9 – “You are a chosen people, a royal priesthood…”

* Isaiah 43:1 – “I have called you by name; you are mine.”

* Colossians 2:10 – “You are complete in Him.”

💬 Affirmation:

“I am whole without being someone’s other half.”

🛠️ Ready to Heal? Let’s Talk.

If this episode spoke to something deep in you — you’re not alone. I offer faith-based mentorship sessions for women navigating identity, self-worth, and healing from father wounds.

👉 Book a session today!📩 Have a question? Let’s talk: [email protected]

🌸 Stay Connected:

Subscribe on Substack to stay up to date and connected.Next episode: Who Am I Really? — we’ll begin exploring how father wounds impact our sense of identity and value.

Do you only feel beautiful when someone compliments you?Do you feel invisible until a man pays attention to you?This episode tenderly explores the ache behind those questions — and where it truly comes from.

In Episode 8 of the Beloved: Healing Father Wounds Series, we walk through the journey of craving male validation and the deeper roots tied to father wounds. Sharing one of my own stories with raw honesty, I reflect on moments where I betrayed my values in hopes of being chosen — and how God began to lovingly rewrite my sense of worth.

This episode covers:

* 💔 The root of seeking male affirmation

* 🛑 12 signs you may be trapped in the pattern

* 🔎 Subtle ways women seek validation without realizing it

* 📖 What Scripture says about your beauty and worth

* 🛠️ How to begin breaking free and healing with God’s love

* 🙏 Identity-anchoring affirmations & boundary-setting practices

* 💬 Personal stories of heartbreak, pressure, and God’s gentle truth

Whether you’ve been chasing attention, shrinking yourself, or questioning your worth when you’re not “chosen,” this episode is an invitation into healing — not through performance, but through the tender voice of your Heavenly Father.

You are not invisible.You are not forgotten.You are already deeply seen and known by God.

✨ Key Verses:

* “You are altogether beautiful, my love; there is no flaw in you.” – Song of Songs 4:7

* “Because you are precious in my eyes, and honored, and I love you…” – Isaiah 43:4

* “Am I now seeking the approval of man, or of God?” – Galatians 1:10

* “Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you.” – Jeremiah 1:5

📬 Connect or Work with Cherise:

If this resonates and you’re ready to start your healing journey, book a 1:1 mentorship session or reach out for a free 10-minute discovery call at:📧 [email protected]

🔔 Next Episode:

We’ll continue exploring how father wounds affect our romantic lives — next time, we’ll look at overdependence in relationships. You don’t want to miss it.

Affirmation:

“I was made for calm, steady love. My heart is safe with God.”

If you are:

* Ready to start your healing journey? Schedule a session today!

* Not quite sure? Reach out for a free discovery call at [email protected].

* Subscribe to the newsletter to be the first to know what’s coming up, and to receive recaps and resources.

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If you learned that needing people leads to pain, you might have built your life around staying safe — by staying distant.

This episode explores:

* The root of avoidant attachment and emotional self-protection

* Why avoidants are often mistaken for secure individuals

* The anxious-avoidant trap in relationships

* God’s invitation to replace the heart of stone with one that feels

You don’t have to keep hiding. Let this episode be your gentle nudge toward softening.

✨ Affirmation: “I can be loved without hiding.”📖 Featured verses: Ezekiel 36:26 & Psalm 62:8

Key Takeaway:You don’t have to be the strong one all the time.Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you.” – 1 Peter 5:7

If you are:

* Ready to start your healing journey and looking for a mentor? I would be honoured to walk alongside you. Book a session today and let’s get started!

* Not quite sure? Reach out for a free discovery call at [email protected].

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Have you ever started pulling away just when things feel good?Like when someone treats you with gentleness and consistency, but instead of resting in it… you feel uneasy?

This episode explores why peace can feel unsafe — especially if you’ve grown up associating love with chaos, anxiety, or unpredictability.

We’re talking about nervous system responses, self-sabotage, and why it’s not your fault — but it is your time to heal.

In this reflection, you’ll hear:

* Why calm love can feel unfamiliar and threatening

* How fear convinces us to sabotage safety

* The core fear that peace is just the calm before the storm

* What the Bible reveals about God’s steady, unshifting love

* Simple, gentle ways to begin receiving healthy love — first from God, then from others

You’ll be reminded that God doesn’t push you away when you’re afraid — He draws you closer. His love becomes the blueprint for the kind of relationships you were made for: ones where you don’t have to earn affection, brace for pain, or test your worth.

Affirmation:

“I was made for calm, steady love. My heart is safe with God.”

Key takeaway:God did not create you with a spirit of fear.For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control. - 2 Timothy 1:7

If you are:

* Ready to start your healing journey? Schedule a session today!

* Not quite sure? Reach out for a free discovery call at [email protected].

* Subscribe to the newsletter to be the first to know what’s coming up, and to receive recaps and resources.

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This episode addresses the fear of abandonment and the anxiety that arises in relationships due to father wounds. We discuss how to find security in God's constant presence and love.

This episode explores:

* Identifying signs of anxious attachment

* Understanding the impact of inconsistent paternal presence

* Finding solace in God's unwavering commitment

Scripture References:

* 1 John 4:18

* Psalm 34:18

* Hebrews 13:5

Key Takeaway:I am loveable because I was created in love not because someone stays.

Affirmation:I do not have to fear losing love. God’s presence is my anchor.

If you are:

* Ready to start your healing journey? Schedule a session today!

* Not quite sure? Reach out for a free discovery call at [email protected].

* Subscribe to the newsletter to be the first to know what’s coming up, and to receive recaps and resources.

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Summary:In this episode, we explore the recurring pattern of being drawn to emotionally unavailable or abusive partners. We delve into how father wounds shape our understanding of love and relationships, and how God's unwavering love offers a path to healing.

Key Takeaways:

* Understanding the link between father wounds and attraction to unavailable partners

* Recognising patterns of emotional unavailability

* Embracing God's unconditional love as a foundation for healthy relationships

Scripture References:

* Psalm 27:10

* Romans 5:8

* 1 Corinthians 13:4–7

Calls to Action:

* Schedule a free 10-minute discovery call for 1-to-1 coaching by emailing [email protected] and I’ll get back to you within 24 hours.

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Welcome to Episode 3 of the Daddy Issues: Healing Father Wounds series! In this episode, we dive deep into how unresolved father wounds can distort our relationship with God. These emotional wounds can create barriers to experiencing God’s true love, trust, and intimacy. Lets breaks down 6 specific ways father wounds affect our faith and offers practical steps for healing, with powerful scriptures to guide you on your journey toward restoration.

Key Takeaways:

* How a father wound can make it hard to believe God is truly loving.

* Why you might struggle with God's goodness and timing.

* The connection between perfectionism and feeling like you need to earn God's love.

* How a father wound can create fear of God's judgment and punishment.

* Why you might struggle with trusting God's love and care.

* How a father wound can hinder your ability to trust God completely.

Path to Healing:

* Name the wound: Identify where your father wound is affecting your faith.

* Grieve what was missing: Acknowledge the pain and release it.

* Discover the true Father: Know God’s heart for you through His Word.

* Watch your inner dialogue: Listen to God's voice of grace, not shame.

* Allow God to reparent you: Let God be the Father you needed.

Healing Scriptures:📖 1 John 3:1 – "See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are!"📖 Jeremiah 29:11 – "‘For I know the plans I have for you,’ declares the Lord, ‘plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.’"📖 Romans 8:38–39 – "For I am convinced that neither death nor life... will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord."

Upcoming Course Alert:If this episode resonated with you and you want to go deeper, be sure to check out the Healing Father Wounds Programme launching in June. It's a faith-based course designed to guide you through the healing process and deepen your relationship with your Heavenly Father.

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When you grow up with an absent, harsh, or emotionally distant father, you often only learn what a father shouldn’t be.

But Scripture doesn't leave us guessing. God shows us—through His Word and His nature—exactly what a good father looks like.

In this episode of Daddy Issues: Healing from Father Wounds, I walk through 10 biblical traits of a good father that can help rewire your understanding of love, protection, discipline, and identity.

It’s not just a list. It’s a mirror of the Father who has always loved you—and an invitation to heal.

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🕊️ Details for The Healing Father Wounds Course (June enrollment):

Find out more and reserve your spot now!

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