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Benefit of the Doubt: Giving People Grace… Or Just Making Excuses?


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Welcome back to Get Psyched, today we unpack the complexities of giving the benefit of the doubt, exploring when it helps and when it harms. We dive into the psychology of trust, expectations, and how we navigate our relationships with others (and ourselves).

Here’s what we’ll cover:

🎙️ Expectation Hangover: The all-too-familiar feeling of expectation hangover. Why do we build up hopes only to be let down, and how does the benefit of the doubt come into play when those expectations crash?

🎙️ Room for Self-Reflection: How can giving people the benefit of the doubt also be an opportunity for self-reflection?

🎙️ When is the Benefit of the Doubt Okay?: Is there a time when giving the benefit of the doubt is genuinely helpful? We discuss the healthy boundaries and situations where believing in the best intentions can foster better relationships and personal growth.

🎙️ When Does the Benefit of the Doubt Get Shadowy?: On the flip side, is there a point where benefiting the doubt crosses into denial or just tolerating bad behavior?

🎙️ Confirmation Bias: Do you tend to see what you want to see? We dive into confirmation bias, and how it can influence your decision to give the benefit of the doubt, sometimes to your own detriment.

🎙️ Building Trust: How does giving someone the benefit of the doubt play into the bigger picture of building trust?

🎙️ Believing in Best Intentions: Finally, we chat about the power of believing in people’s best intentions and how this can lead to more positive interactions—without setting yourself up for disappointment.

Whether you're trying to navigate your own expectations or learn how to give others grace, this episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to better understand the psychology of trust and the benefit of the doubt in their lives. Tune in for insightful tips, personal anecdotes, and a few laughs along the way!

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