By Lindsey Locke
How are you... really? Lindsey and Amy sit down and have an honest check-in. Both therapists, Amy and Linds process the here and now, sharing what the process of opening up really looks like. While
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In this episode, we’re diving into something we all struggle with from time to time: self-worth and self-esteem. Have you ever had a moment when you just feel… not enough? You're not alone! We’re breaking down what self-worth really means, why it sometimes takes a nosedive, and how to get it back on track—without the guilt or shame.
Today, the gals explore:
🎙️ What exactly is self-worth (and why it’s so important to your happiness and success)?
🎙️ The sneaky ways we lose our self-esteem, sometimes without even realizing it.
🎙️ How to spot and challenge those negative beliefs that drag us down (hint: they’re not even true!).
🎙️ Finding the glimmers of positivity—those tiny sparks of joy that remind you of your value.
🎙️ Why learning to embrace your "enough-ness" is key, especially on those days when you feel totally worthless.
This episode is all about giving you the tools to reclaim your confidence, step away from those negative thought patterns, and show yourself some much-needed self-compassion. It’s like therapy in your earbuds, but with a little more fun and a lot more practical tips. Whether you're trying to shake off a bad day or build lasting self-love, we've got your back!
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The holiday season is here, which means family gatherings, festive meals—and yes, those extra conversations that can test your patience. But don't worry, we've got your back! In this episode, we're talking all about how to set boundaries with family in a way that protects your peace and keeps things light and loving.
Today, the girls explore:
🎙️ How to set boundaries with love (and a smile): Tips for staying calm, kind, and firm—even when Aunt Karen starts asking about your relationship status.
🎙️ Navigating tricky family conversations: From unsolicited advice to "that" question, we share strategies for keeping your cool during those festive chats.
🎙️ Go-to boundary-setting phrases: What to say when you need to set limits without causing a scene (or rolling your eyes).
🎙️ Exit strategies that work: How to gracefully exit a conversation that’s going nowhere—because we all know sometimes it’s just better to bow out!
Whether it’s your first holiday season with new boundaries or you’re a seasoned pro, we’re here to help you sail through the family gatherings with your peace of mind (and your humor) intact.
Get ready for some laughs, light-hearted tips, and practical strategies to make this holiday season the most peaceful—and fun—one yet!
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Spooky season continues with part two, and Amy's new term: "zombie-ing!" The girls dive into what this is, how to respond to a zombie, and what to do if you actually want to rekindle an old flame. Listen is as the gals explore:
🎙️ Zombie-ing Explained: How to respond to a "you up" text—without losing your brain!
🎙️ Self-Worth vs. That of a Flea: Discover why you’re worth more than the last lonely flea at the thrift store.
🎙️ Priority Over Convenience: Because “Netflix and chill” shouldn’t be your life’s motto!
🎙️ How to Zombie Without Being a Douche: Master the zombie life without leaving a trail of eye-rolling mortals in your wake.
As always, if you loved today's show please be sure to leave a 5-star rating and review! Appreciate you always!
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Welcome to our latest episode, where we dive into the haunting phenomenon of ghosting! We’ve all been there—it’s a gut-wrenching experience that leaves us questioning our self-worth and wondering what went wrong. This spooky season, let’s navigate this frustrating reality together and explore how to handle it with grace.
In this episode, we cover:
🎙️ What is Ghosting? Understand the emotional impact of being ghosted and how it feels to be left in the dark.
🎙️ The Psychology Behind Ghosting: Why do people choose to ghost instead of communicating openly? We discuss the reasons behind this behavior.
🎙️ Navigating the Ghosting Experience: Tips and strategies for coping with being ghosted, including how to find closure and move on.
🎙️ Stopping the Ghosting Cycle: Learn how to break the habit of ghosting others and foster healthier communication in your relationships.
Join us for an insightful discussion that shines a light on this chilling topic and helps you navigate your own experiences with ghosting. As always, if you liked today's episode, we'd love you forever if you left a 5-star rating and review! Until next week, boo!
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Keywords: ghosting, how to deal with being ghosted, why do people ghost, ending ghosting behavior, relationship communication
As usual, the girls are on one, and having some fun exploring what it really means to do “villain sh*t.” What do you do when you find yourself as the villain in someone's story? We'll explore that and more:
🎙️ The Experience of the Villain: Why this person might actually need your compassion most.
🎙️ Radical Acceptance: We’ll talk about why accepting every bit of yourself—yes, even the messy parts—is such a game changer for personal growth.
🎙️ Connecting to What’s Inarguable About You: It’s time to celebrate those core traits that make you, well, you! We’ll explore how to embrace those unchangeable aspects.
🎙️ Lindsey’s EMDR Experience: Lindsey will share her journey with EMDR therapy and how it helped her confront her experience as being the villain in a powerful way.
🎙️ What "Villain Shit" Really Means: We’ll unpack how embracing your inner villain often leads to meaningful inner child work and healing.
As always, if you make it to the end of the show and the show notes, we love and appreciate you more than you know. While you're here be sure to leave the show a 5-star rating and review. Xo!
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The girls are BACK, and today we're diving into the wild world of saying sorry. Spoiler alert: it’s trickier than it sounds! Here’s what we’ll be chatting about:
🎙️ Why Your Apology Sucks: We’ll break down the common mistakes that turn your “I’m sorry” into a flop and how to spot them.
🎙️ Outcome-Based Apologies: Let’s get real—if all you're worried about is the outcome or being forgiven, you're missing the mark.
🎙️ Off-Loading Responsibility: We all know that friend who can’t seem to take the heat. We’ll talk about how shifting blame just makes things worse—and what to do instead.
🎙️ Keeping Score: Tired of that “I did this, you did that” vibe? We’ll explore why keeping tabs on past wrongs is a total relationship killer.
So, grab your headphones and join us for some laughs, real talk, and practical advice on turning your apologies into genuine moments of connection. Trust us, you won’t want to miss this one!
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The girls are at it again. In today’s episode, we’re diving into the wild world of dating and chatting about the best and worst dating advice we’ve come across. Whether you’re all about dating for marriage or just figuring things out, we’ve got some real talk for you!
Today, the gals explore:
🎙️ Intentional Dating: Let’s talk about how to date with purpose—no more wasting time!
🎙️ Dating for Marriage: Why is this title so stigmatizing?
🎙️ Take Your Time: Seriously, there’s no rush! We’ll chat about why patience pays off.
🎙️ The “Cool Girl” Trap: We’ll unpack the whole emotional unavailability thing and why it can be a dating killer.
🎙️ Attachment Styles: Two therapists talking about how your attachment style affects your dating... shocker!
🎙️ Evaluating Your Dates: Let’s get real—how do you figure out if you’re a good date or if this date is a good fit?
🎙️ Over-Functioning in Dating: We’ll explore why doing too much can backfire in relationships.
As always, we love you all and thank you so much for listening! If you're feeling awesome, please leave a 5-star rating and review. Until next week, enjoy!
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The girls are back and today explaining the do's and don'ts of reframing your thoughts. While poking a little fun at one another, Linds and Amy give you tangible tools for effective reframes and explore:
🎙️ What’s CBT Anyway?: A dive into Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Linsey's spicy opinion.
🎙️ CBT vs. Gaslighting: Let’s break down the differences between helpful reframing and the sneaky tactics of gaslighting.
🎙️ The Magic of Reframing: Discover how changing your perspective can really boost your mood and mindset.
🎙️ When Reframing Goes Awry: We’ll talk about times when reframing might just be a way to dodge uncomfortable feelings.
🎙️ Thinking vs. Feeling: Why it’s super important to connect with our emotions rather than just overthink everything.
🎙️ Getting to Know RAIN: We’ll introduce you to the RAIN technique—Recognize, Allow, Investigate, Nurture—for handling those tricky emotions.
As alway, we'd love to hear from YOU! Any topics you'd like to hear us riff on, be sure to shoot us a DM. Ways to connect below!
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Get Psyched is back, and we're setting the record straight on some common therapy myths. Join us as we dive into:
🎙 Being a Therapist in the Wild: What life is like for a therapist outside the office—spoiler: it's not all serious!
🎙 Top Therapy Myths Debunked: We’re breaking down the biggest myths about therapy so you know what’s up.
🎙 You Have to Be in Crisis to Seek Therapy: Why you don’t need to hit rock bottom to start therapy.
🎙 Therapy is Only for Major Problems: When it makes sense to see a therapist, even if things aren’t falling apart.
🎙 I Just Want to Feel Good All the Time: Why expecting constant happiness is unrealistic, and how therapy helps with managing emotions.
🎙 You Have to Be “Ready” for Therapy: Why you don’t need to have everything figured out before starting therapy.
Tune in for some real talk and get the scoop on how therapy can really help you, no matter where you’re at.
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In this episode, we're tackling a big one: why asking for help can feel so darn tough and how we can make it a little easier. Whether you're finding it hard to reach out or just want to get better at asking for what you need, we’ve got some great tips and insights for you.
Here’s What We’re Chatting About:
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