BETTER! with Dr. Stephanie Estima | Strength, Body Composition & Perimenopause

BETTER! with Dr. Stephanie Estima | Strength, Body Composition & Perimenopause

By Dr. Stephanie Estima, Perimenopause & Women's Fitness ExpertAlternative HealthHealth & FitnessNutritionFitness
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BETTER! with Dr. Stephanie Estima | Strength, Body Composition & Perimenopause episodes

  • Why Your Tendons Get Injured in Perimenopause (and How to Reverse It) with Dr. Keith Baar

    If you’re a woman lifting weights, your muscles aren’t the only tissue adapting. Your tendons and ligaments are training right alongside them, and they respond to load very differently.

    Dr. Keith Baar is a professor of physiology at UC Davis and head of the Functional Molecular Biology Laboratory. He joins Dr. Stephanie Estima for a deep dive into tendon and ligament science. Whether you’re trying to stay injury-free as you build strength or you’re frustrated and want a smarter way back from an injury, this conversation gives you a framework for both.

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    TOPICS COVERED

    • Tendon and ligament injury prevention for women who lift
    • Why lifting heavy isn’t always best for tendon health
    • Low-load, long-duration (3LD) isometrics explained
    • The 10-minute tendon training window and 6 to 8 hour recovery gap
    • Isometric exercises for tendinopathy and injury rehab
    • Overcoming vs. yielding isometrics
    • Why RICE and rest can backfire after a tendon injury
    • Tendon structure: stiffer near bone, softer near muscle
    • Estrogen, testosterone, and sex differences in ACL and muscle injuries
    • Birth control, menopause hormone therapy, and tendon health
    • Flat shoes vs. heels and knee osteoarthritis
    • BPC-157, peptides, whey, and collagen for tendon health

    RESOURCES MENTIONED

    • Sinewus https://sinewus.com
    • Keith’s UC Davis faculty page: https://health.ucdavis.edu/basic-sciences/physiology/team/faculty/baar
    • Effect of Estrogen on Musculoskeletal Performance and Injury Risk  https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/30697162/
    • Stress Relaxation and Targeted Nutrition to Treat Patellar Tendinopathy https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/30299199/
    • Effects of Different Loading Programs on Finger Strength in Rock Climbers https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/39560837/
    • Effects of stress shielding on the mechanical properties of rabbit patellar tendon https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/8445894/
    • The R.I.C.E Protocol is a MYTH: A Review and Recommendations https://thesportjournal.org/article/the-r-i-c-e-protocol-is-a-myth-a-review-and-recommendations/
    • Effects of high heel wear and increased weight on the knee during walking https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25532875/
    • Relationship between knee joint laxity and knee joint mechanics during the menstrual cycle https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/18728055/
    • Effect of low-repetition jump training on bone mineral density in young women https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/16269526/

    BIO

    Dr. Keith Baar is a distinguished professor and the head of the Functional Molecular Biology Laboratory at the University of California, Davis. With a Ph.D. in Physiology and Biophysics, Dr. Baar has dedicated his career to the intricate study of muscle development and adaptation. His research primarily focuses on understanding the molecular mechanisms behind muscle growth, repair, and the maintenance of muscle mass and function.

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    1 hr 26 min
  • How To Build Round & Strong Glutes with Bret Contreras, PhD. aka the Glute Guy

    Bret Contreras covers glute training: exercise selection (squats, RDLs, step-ups, split squats, single-leg work, abductions, kickbacks, bridges), hip thrust technique (foot placement, full extension, setup errors, machine issues), and prioritizing glute growth over quads/hamstrings.

    TOPICS COVERED

    • Glute Rapid-Fire Begins
    • Hip Thrust Mistakes
    • Pelvic Tilt and Myths
    • Myth of Light Glute Training
    • No-Equipment Glute Options
    • The Hip Dips Question
    • Aesthetics and Glute Goals
    • Why Hip Thrusts Recover Well
    • Growing Glutes Without Legs
    • Hip Thrust Variations
    • Recovery and Training Frequency
    • Managing Maximum Recoverable Volume

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    RESOURCES MENTIONED

    • Website: https://bretcontreras.com
    • Instagram (@bretcontreras1): https://www.instagram.com/bretcontreras1
    • YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/bretcontreras1
    • Periodization of Strength Training for Sports by Tudor Bompa
    • The Westside Barbell Book of Methods by Louie Simmons
    • The impact of resistance training on gluteus maximus hypertrophy: a systematic review and meta-analysis - https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC12018462/
    • Glute Lab: The Art and Science of Strength and Physique Training by Bret Contreras - https://www.porchlightbooks.com/products/glute-lab-bret-contreras-9781628603460
    • The Science & Practice of Hip Thrusts (Research & EMG Studies) by Bret Contreras - https://www.bcstrength.com/pages/about-the-inventor
    • Advanced Techniques in Glutei Maximi Strengthening by Bret Contreras - https://bretcontreras.com/ebook-2/
    • Glute Medius Hip Thrust https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rvw9cpZ2Z1Q

    BIO
    Bret Contreras “The Glute Guy” PhD, CSCS is a prominent strength and conditioning specialist, researcher, and bestselling author. He is best recognized for inventing the barbell hip thrust and developing cutting-edge glute-training methodologies.He authored the bestselling book Glute Lab, Bodyweight Strength Training Anatomy, and coauthored Strong Curves. Contreras holds a Ph.D. in Sports Science and has contributed to over 50 peer-reviewed published studies.

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    Subscribe: The Mini Pause — My weekly newsletter packed with the most actionable, evidence-based tools for women 40+ to thrive in midlife.

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    1 hr 14 min
  • Skinny Is Where You Go to Die: Muscle Power & Myokines for Ageing Women with Dr. Paul Taylor

    Your muscles aren't just for moving — they're an endocrine organ, releasing hundreds of signalling molecules called myokines every time you contract them. Dr. Paul Taylor breaks down the science of myokines, why muscular power (not just strength) is the strongest predictor of how long you'll live, and why the pursuit of "skinny" is costing women their healthspan.

    RESOURCES MENTIONED

    • Death by Comfort: How Modern Life Is Killing Us and What We Can Do About It by Dr. Paul Taylor
    • The Hardiness Podcast with Dr. Paul Taylor
    • Dr. Paul Taylor's website
    • Frank W. Booth et al., "Lack of Exercise Is a Major Cause of Chronic Diseases", Comprehensive Physiology, 2012
    • Physical Activity Patterns and Biomarkers of Cardiovascular Disease Risk in Hunter-Gatherers, Hadza hunter-gatherer study using continuous heart-rate monitoring
    • Ultra-Processed Food Exposure and Adverse Health Outcomes: Umbrella Review of Epidemiological Meta-Analyses, The BMJ, 2024
    • Mark Seery, "Challenge or Threat? Cardiovascular Indexes of Resilience and Vulnerability to Potential Stress in Humans", University at Buffalo
    • COSMOS-Mind: Effects of Cocoa Extract and a Multivitamin on Cognitive Function, randomized clinical trial in older adults
    • Biosphere 2: Calorie Restriction and Physiologic, Hematologic, Hormonal, and Biochemical Changes
    • The Good, The Bad & The Ugly of Cold Water Exposure with Professor Mike Tipton, The Hardiness Podcast
    • Muscle Power Versus Strength as a Predictor of Mortality in Middle-Aged and Older Men and Women, Mayo Clinic Proceedings, 2025

    BIO
    Dr. Paul Taylor is a Psychophysiologist, with a PhD in Psychology, separate master's degrees in Exercise Science and Nutrition and a postgraduate qualification in Neuroscience. As Director of Paul Taylor Consulting, he has conducted published research that shows that his programs have proven benefits for increasing hardiness, cognitive function and employee wellbeing, whilst reducing burnout across multiple industries. More at paultaylor.biz/about

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    TOPICS COVERED

    • Myokines: what they are and how muscle contraction releases them
    • Muscle as an endocrine organ/exercise as medicine
    • The molecule of hope (irisin) and the myokine-brain connection
    • Being sedentary as "an active depressant"
    • Muscular power vs. strength vs. size for longevity
    • Two major waves of aging (40-44 and 60) and accelerated muscle loss
    • Sarcopenia, falls risk, and mortality in older adults
    • Hormesis and the case for reintroducing discomfort (Death by Comfort)
    • Cold plunge and cortisol: debunking the myth for perimenopausal and postmenopausal women
    • Cortisol response vs. threat response vs. challenge response
    • Chronic stress, amygdala hypertrophy, and frontal lobe shrinkage
    • Ultra-processed foods and the 80/20 rule
    • Protein requirements in perimenopause and menopause (1.6-2g/kg body weight)
    • Debunking low-protein "longevity diet" claims and Blue Zone research
    • Grip strength, VO2 max, and muscular power hazard ratios vs. smoking risk

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    1 hr 36 min
  • Perimenopause Doesn't Cause ADHD, It Unmasks It: Reclaim Your Brain with Dr. Jolene Brighten

    Dr. Jolene Brighten explains why ADHD in women is so often missed, misdiagnosed, or dismissed as personality. She covers the five hormonal life stages that make ADHD symptoms worse, why perimenopause "unmasks" ADHD rather than causing it, and the food and exercise protocols that actually support an ADHD brain.

    Get Dr. Brighten’s Book, ADHD & Women: https://drbrighten.com/adhd-and-women/

    🎤 TOPICS COVERED

    • ADHD in women: symptoms, diagnosis, and why it's missed for decades
    • Why ADHD looks different in women versus men
    • Perimenopause and ADHD: why symptoms get worse in midlife
    • The five hormonal stages that worsen ADHD (puberty, pregnancy/postpartum, perimenopause, postmenopause, premenstrual phase)
    • Executive dysfunction explained: time blindness, task paralysis, and emotional dysregulation
    • ADHD masking in women: people-pleasing, perfectionism, and burnout
    • Estrogen, progesterone, and the ADHD brain: how hormones affect dopamine and focus
    • PMDD and ADHD: the connection between your cycle and your symptoms
    • Progesterone sensitivity and hormone replacement therapy for ADHD women
    • PCOS, PMOS, and the androgen-ADHD connection
    • ADHD and genetics: is ADHD hereditary
    • Nutrition for ADHD: gut health, protein, and the three foods Dr. Brighten recommends weekly
    • Exercise and the ADHD brain: lactate, BDNF, and why movement improves focus
    • Best workouts for ADHD: strength training, sprints, and mobility work
    • Creatine, saffron, bacopa, and other supplements for ADHD
    • Sleep and ADHD: delayed sleep phase syndrome and the default mode network
    • Late-diagnosed ADHD in women: why so many women are diagnosed in their late 30s and 40s

    📎 RESOURCES MENTIONED

    • Number of ADHD Patients Rising, Especially Among Women - https://www.epicresearch.org/articles/number-of-adhd-patients-rising-especially-among-women/
    • ADHD link to severe premenstrual disorder uncovered in women - https://www.qmul.ac.uk/news/latest-news/2025/science-and-engineering/se/adhd-link-to-severe-premenstrual-disorder-uncovered-in-women.html
    • Genetics of attention deficit hyperactivity disorder - https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6477889/
    • Crocus sativus L. Versus Methylphenidate in Treatment of Children with Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder: A Randomized, Double-Blind Pilot Study - https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/30741567/
    • Moderate Exercise Tied to Improved ADHD Symptoms in Young Men - https://www.patientcareonline.com/view/moderate-exercise-tied-improved-adhd-symptoms-young-men
    • Adult attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder and clinical correlates of delayed sleep phase disorder - https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0165178119324564
    • Methylphenidate and Its Impact on Redox Balance and Behavior - https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC12565610/
    • Creatine Promotes Endometriosis by Inducing Ferroptosis Resistance via Suppression of PrP - https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11481182/
    • Website: https://drbrighten.com
    • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drjolenebrighten
    • YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DrJoleneBrighten
    • Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drjolenebrighten

    BIO
    Dr. Jolene Brighten is an internationally recognized expert in hormones, women’s health, and ADHD across the female lifespan. A board-certified naturopathic endocrinologist, nutrition scientist, certified menopause specialist, and sex counsellor, she is widely known for translating complex hormonal science into clear, clinically relevant care for patients and the doctors who treat them. She is the bestselling author of Beyond the Pill and Is This Normal, and is the host of The Dr. Brighten Show, a top-rated women’s health podcast. More at drbrighten.com

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    1 hr 24 min
  • Hypermobile? Yes, You Can Strength Train (Here's How to Do It Safely)

    If you can touch your thumb to your forearm, your elbows bend backward when you lock them out, or you've spent your life being called "double-jointed" like it's a party trick — this episode is your explainer.

    Dr. Stephanie walks through what hypermobility actually is, the three-tier spectrum from simple joint laxity to Hypermobility Spectrum Disorder to hEDS, and why the standard fitness advice (more stretching, more mobility work, taking it easy) is often exactly backwards for this population. The real issue was never flexibility — it's instability.

    Dr. Stephanie also explains safe strength training when your passive stabilizers can’t protect your end range, why controlled range is better than maximum range, and the specific training variables (tempo, isometrics, balance work) that build the neuromuscular control hypermobile bodies lack. She also covers nutrition considerations (protein, vitamin C, collagen timing) and recovery pacing, and reframes the idea that losing muscle while hypermobile makes you safer.

    TOPICS COVERED

    • What hypermobility is and how it's screened (the Beighton score)
    • The three tiers: joint hypermobility, Hypermobility Spectrum Disorder (HSD), and hypermobile Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome (hEDS)
    • Why hypermobility itself isn't the problem — instability is
    • Passive stabilizers vs. active stabilizers, explained
    • Why estrogen increases ligament laxity (and why women are more affected than men)
    • Proprioceptive deficits: why hypermobile joints don't send a clear "too far" warning signal
    • Why strength training is a primary treatment strategy, not a nice-to-have
    • Training in controlled range (about 80-90% of passive range) instead of maximum range
    • Practical cueing for squats, presses, and overhead work
    • Controlled eccentrics, isometrics, and balance/proprioceptive training
    • Why passive static stretching is generally counterproductive for this population
    • Joint-by-joint programming (why shoulders and hips need the most attention)
    • Nutrition: protein targets, vitamin C, and collagen peptide timing
    • Recovery: pacing over pushing, sleep, and how to tell soreness from a warning sign
    • Why chasing "skinny" is especially risky for hypermobile women in midlife

    RESOURCES MENTIONED https://drstephanieestima.com/podcasts/ep488

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    Subscribe: The Mini Pause — My weekly newsletter packed with the most actionable, evidence-based tools for women 40+ to thrive in midlife.

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    35 min
  • No Time for the Gym? How to Rack Up Movement Minutes and Protect Your Bone Density with Katy Bowman

    What if the guilt you feel for skipping the gym is based on a flawed concept? Biomechanist Katy Bowman challenges the notion that exercise is merely a modern, recent way to meet our body’s movement needs. She introduces her ”movement diet” framework, which includes movement calories (volume), movement macronutrients (walking, carrying, climbing, hand use, big-body work, active rest), and movement micronutrients (joint work often overlooked).

    Katy also encourages playing cards on the floor instead of the couch, sprinting with your kids at the park instead of on a track, why bunions and hallux valgus develop from years of subtle gait compensation, not "just aging," and why fixing the small stuff often matters more than adding another workout. Remember your bones and joints don’t distinguish between loads from a barbell and carrying groceries; they only care that the load occurred.

    🎤 TOPICS COVERED

    • Exercise vs. physical activity vs. movement (the three circles)
    • Fitting movement into an exhausted evening
    • The movement diet: macros, micros, and why movement is a nutrient
    • The Movement Pyramid, bottom to top
    • Should you push through pain, or back off?
    • Why "it's just age” is usually a movement-pattern problem
    • Driving, automatic transmissions, and the pelvic floor connection
    • Hadza activity levels vs. modern sedentary life
    • Finding movement inside a "fixed" daily schedule
    • Katy's own movement diet, and "Night Bitch"
    • What bone actually needs: a biomechanist's view on bone density
    • "Loads, not modes": Katy's rowing routine and the vitamin D/tofu analogy
    • Reframing sprinting: racing your kids at the park
    • Movement snacks and redesigning your environment
    • "Convenience isn't saving you time — it's saving you movement"
    • Feet, bunions, and how gait patterns form
    • Not "over the hill": choosing uphill in midlife

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    1 hr 25 min
  • The Physiology of Grief: What Loss Actually Does In Your Body with Mary-Frances O'Connor, PhD.

    Falling in love triggers a specific hormonal cascade: oxytocin, dopamine, the whole cocktail that makes you feel like you can't think about anything else. What almost nobody talks about is that losing someone runs that same system in reverse.

    Mary-Frances O’Connor, director of the Grief, Loss, and Social Stress Lab, discusses how grief can be understood as a hormonal “withdrawal” from the bonding chemistry of love, debunks the myth of five linear stages, and clarifies the difference between acute “grief” and the longer-term trajectory of “grieving.”

    Prof O’Connor explains common emotional, cognitive, and physical manifestations, why the brain both knows a loved one is gone yet still expects them, and how grieving involves intense learning and identity updating. This episode also covers health risks after bereavement, the importance of preventive care and supportive companionship, practical ways to honour loved ones, and how reflecting on mortality can shape meaning.

    🎤 EPISODE OVERVIEW

    (0:00) Intro & Rapid-Fire Questions
    (4:44) Defining Grief vs. Grieving
    (6:15) Grief Beyond Death: Divorce, Empty Nests & Identity Loss
    (10:17) The Neurobiology of Love, Bonding & Loss
    (13:55) Acute Grief and the 21x Heart Attack Risk
    (21:13) The Broken Heart Phenomenon & the Case for Bereavement Care
    (30:42) Platitudes and How to Actually Support Someone Grieving
    (41:02) The "Gone But Everlasting" Theory & Grief as Learning
    (47:35) Purple Towels: Identity, Continuing Bonds & Facing Our Own Mortality
    (1:15:56) After Party with Dr. Stephanie

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    1 hr 18 min
  • How Nitric Oxide Controls Blood Flow, Energy & Hormone Function with Cathy Eason, MS, BCHN

    If you’ve got a cupboard full of supplements you bought with good intentions but never used, this episode is for you. Cathy Eason, Chief Science Officer at Berkeley Life, talks about nitric oxide, a molecule that affects almost every body system, including blood flow, blood pressure, digestion, energy production, and sexual arousal.

    She explains why nitric oxide production declines in your 30s and how it’s linked to perimenopause. Eason also discusses the research behind using dietary nitrates (like beets and leafy greens) to support nitric oxide production and when supplementation might be necessary. 

    This episode covers practical aspects like testing nitric oxide status at home, the connection between oral health and nitric oxide, and how the protocol differs for daily energy needs versus intense training. Eason also advises caution with nitric oxide supplementation, especially for those on blood pressure medication, and why she moved away from arginine/citrulline supplements.

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    🎤 EPISODE OVERVIEW

    (0:00) Intro/Teaser
    (05:33) How Nitric Oxide Opens Blood Flow (Vasodilation 101)
    (11:04) Blood Pressure, Arterial Stiffness & the Research
    (15:49) Digestion, Gut Motility & Hypertension Safety
    (24:01) Oral Health, Fluoride & the Nitrate Recycling Pathway
    (29:34) Dietary Nitrate Sources: Beets, Ferments & Histamine Considerations
    (34:19) Arousal, Desire & Blood Flow to the Genitals
    (39:48) Closing the Research Gap: Female Sexual Function Data
    (41:08) Performance & Recovery: From the Soccer Field to the Gym
    (46:43) Muscle Force, DOMS & Timing Your Dose Around a Workout
    (51:10) Testing Your Own Nitric Oxide & Finding Your Pattern
    (59:28) Choosing a Supplement: The Ophelia & Emily Protocol
    (1:19:48) After-Party: Final Thoughts with Dr. Stephanie

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    1 hr 18 min
  • Your Brain on AI: How to Build Your Memory Muscle Before You Borrow It with Jim Kwik

    For over 30 years, Jim Kwik has coached Hollywood, professional athletes, political leaders, and Harvard University on how to learn faster and think sharper — and in this episode, he tackles the question sitting underneath so much of modern life: what happens to your mind muscle when every cognitive task gets handed off to ChatGPT, Claude or Gemini?

    The good news: your brain, like your muscles, adapts to the demands placed upon it at any age or stage. Jim explains why frustration and failure aren’t obstacles to brain training, shares his personal top ten list of brain-building habits, ranging from racket sports to language learning and volunteering.  He also delves into an MIT study examining the impact of ChatGPT and introduces his own framework for using AI as a genuine cognitive partner, rather than a replacement for human brain power.

    🎤 Episode Overview:

    (0:00) Intro/Teaser
    (5:09) Can You Strength Train Your Brain?
    (7:46) Why Frustration Is the Whole Point
    (12:09) Racket Sports and the Longevity Connection
    (17:19) Ten Daily Habits for a More Resilient Brain
    (25:25) Cognitive Flexibility and the Echo Chamber Problem
    (30:35) Digital Dementia, Digital Deduction, and the Escalator Problem
    (36:29) Build Before You Borrow: Jim's Rule for Using AI
    (41:03) Kids, Screens, and Digital Addiction
    (48:01) Small Choices, Consistency, and Limitless Daily
    (56:35) After Party with Dr. Stephanie

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    56 min
  • Pilates Girls, You're Losing Bone. The Exercise Science of Building Bone After 40 with Prof Belinda Beck

    For decades, women with low bone density were told to take it easy; Professor Belinda Beck's research proved the opposite: high-intensity resistance and impact training safely rebuilds bone, even in women who had been told their bones were too fragile to lift heavy.

    Belinda covers the full arc of bone health, from how peak bone mass is set in the teenage years, to what actually happens to bone when estrogen declines through perimenopause and menopause, to why so many popular "safe" exercises, including walking, cycling, and Pilates, simply don't provide enough stimulus to protect bone.

    They dig into the physiology of bone remodelling, the real evidence (and lack of it) behind weighted vests, how to read a DEXA scan, and practical calcium and vitamin D guidance. Belinda also shares the story behind LIFTMOR itself, including how her research team was once considered reckless for asking postmenopausal women to lift heavy, and how those same women ended up stronger, more confident, and more independent than they'd been in decades.

    EPISODE OVERVIEW

    (00:00) Introduction & Rapid Fire
    (05:15) Bone 101: Structure, Types & What Determines Density
    (11:52) How Bone Forms: Peak Mass, Sex Differences & Sesamoid Bones
    (17:12) Diet Culture, Dairy Myths & Caloric Restriction
    (23:42) Debunking the Kids & Weightlifting Myth
    (28:31) Runners, Multi-Sport & Varying the Stimulus
    (34:51) Wolff's Law & How Bone Adapts to Load
    (42:22) Best & Worst Exercises for Bone, Weighted Vests & Pilates
    (50:08) Estrogen, Perimenopause, Menopause & Building Your Baseline
    (1:04:16) The LIFTMOR Trial, ONERO & Getting Your Life Back
    (1:16:16) The After Party: Final Thoughts with Dr. Stephanie

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    1 hr 15 min

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