Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends

My beloved teacher and friend Scott visits my podcast every Winter Solstice and I'm so grateful. Scott is a Reiki Master teacher and a Teacher and Minister in the Temple of Witchcraft. On this episode we talk about Divine Will and connecting to our body to hear the guidance for our path. When our paths diverge with friends how do we release with love and curiosity? And when setting out to do spell work Scott has an amazing tarot / oracle card spread to check in before embarking on working magick.

Please visit with us in our other episodes--I love the progression of a friendship with two growing people over time! Episodes 144, 118, 60 and 14!

Connect with Scott!

Website: Contains Services and Classes! StarAndStoneLLC.com

Patreon Where the online magick happens! Patreon.com/ScottKSmith

Redbubble Page: Likes and follow are helpful! https://www.redbubble.com/people/StarStoneLLC/shop
Everything Else Linktr.ee/scott_k_smith

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Jana Barrett is an astrologer and mystic! Joining me for the second time to deep dive into Pisces King Kurt Cobain's birth chart! If you're curious about astrology and just a beginner we do our best to explain AND if you're an astro nerd like us we DEEP DIVE into all the juiciest placements of this king of our hearts. Listen if you want, but take a peek at his chart with us. Video episode available on you tube (Self Care Party) or Spotify podcasts.

Jana's link tree: https://linktr.ee/feelingloudly

Jana on Instagram: @feelingloudly

Support the podcast: Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!)
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Venmo: @bevinb
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Leah has taught me so much about dyads--relationships with others, the world around me, and my soul. One of the most essential things in the creation of the world of our dreams is our individual growth. Creating our own path, pursuing our desires, and not letting the judgment of others slow us down or stop us. Leah's relationship with disgust as a concept is gorgeous. I hope you enjoy this conversation, our previous conversations and her podcast Magical Baddies! Links below.

Episode 109: What even is reality? https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/bevin/episodes/109--Leah-Garza-What-Even-is-Reality-e18l8o2

Episode 133: Make the world better by becoming more YOU https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/bevin/episodes/133--Leah-Garza-Make-the-World-Better-by-Becoming-More-YOU-e1hqiv1

Magical Baddies podcast: https://magicalbaddies.podbean.com/

Leah's Website: https://crystalsofaltamira.com/

Leah's Email list (to find out about upcoming class enrollment): https://crystalsofaltamira.com/links (scroll to bottom of page)

Leah's Instagram: @crystalsofaltamira

Bevin on Instagram: @bevinsparty @fatkiddanceparty

Support the podcast:

patreon.com/fkdp

https://www.buymeacoffee.com/bevin (safe and secure way to buy me a snack!)
Venmo: @bevinb
Cash App: $BevinBoss

Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_share

Buy my aerobics video! ⁠fatkiddanceparty.com/video4pack⁠

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You get to have the holiday experience you want to have! Going home can be stressful! I have some tools and suggestions that can help you have the holidays you want to have! I hope you get to eat delicious food and spend time with people who nourish you inside and out!

Support the podcast!

Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!)
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/bevin (safe and secure way to buy me a snack!)
Venmo: @bevinb
Cash App: $BevinBoss
Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_share
Tee shirts: https://genuinevalentine.com/collections/fat-kid-dance-party
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I've attended dozens of funerals for loved ones. And I have not attended funerals for dozens of loved ones. I have some experience using funerals (or choosing not to) as part of my grieving process and want to help you by sharing my experience. Being intuitive and connected easily with others' emotions doesn't exactly resonate for being in crowds of mourning folks. Please click this post about spiritual hygiene to learn more about protecting your energy in those and ALL environments. We are like energetic katamari!

https://queerfatfemme.com/2023/10/10/simple-self-care-spiritual-hygeine/

Also here's the sweatshirt I'm wearing it's so cute!

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SUPPORT THE PODCAST (Bring My Flowers Now While I'm Living I love you! Thanks to everyone who supports this free podcast!)

Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!)
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Venmo: @bevinb
Cash App: $BevinBoss
Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_share
Fatkiddanceparty.com/classes
Instagram: @fatkiddanceparty @bevinsparty

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At the top of this episode I talk about why I haven't been producing as many podcasts as I once was. Responding to a listener and community member question about how I have been creating ease, joy, play and rest for the past four years. I employ a lot of spiritual practices and success mindsets so that what I do is intentional and not just busy work. We are socialized to toil and we don't have to live like that!

As with everything I create: please take what you like and leave the rest! I love you!

I reference my teacher Leah Garza many times on this episode she was with me on Episodes 133 & 109.

Please buy a pet portrait from my friend Kendrra Thoms (Episode 117) who is the reason my blog looks so cute. https://kendrrathoms.com/

My blog is QueerFatFemme.com go visit explore the tags and find some fun stuff that can help you create shortcuts in life!

Support the podcast! If you find value in my work I would love to keep doing it! I need help from folks to make it possible!

Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!)
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/bevin
Venmo: @bevinb
Cash App: $BevinBoss
Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_share
Tee shirts: https://genuinevalentine.com/collections/fat-kid-dance-party
Fatkiddanceparty.com/classes
Instagram: @fatkiddanceparty @bevinsparty
You Tube Channel:
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Email list: http://eepurl.com/dyX3db
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In 2013-2014 I supported my ex-fiance through her treatment for breast cancer. I talk about my experience, what I learned, what I wished I would have done and how caregivers can learn to take care for themselves, too. I hope this helps anyone out there dealing with the uncertainty of a cancer diagnosis for a loved one. And I hope you have the best of all possible outcomes!

Here is a list of my blog posts about cancer experience: https://queerfatfemme.com/tag/cancer/

Support the podcast:

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Bevin on Instagram:
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Jess Morgan Grace is a psychic medium, astrologer, queer parent and a dynamic, fascinating human! We share a maternal concern for psychic medium Tyler Henry and passion for protecting our energy field. If you work with your spiritual senses you will want to take notes about JMG's must-practices so you can develop your own self care rituals. JMG pursued non-gestational parenthood through foster and adoption and shares that experience, and their experience dating while psychic.

JMG on IG: https://www.instagram.com/jessmorgangrace/

Book a Session with JMG: https://www.jessmorgangrace.com/

https://www.theninthhouseshop.com/pages/threshold-retreat-intensive

The free Spiritual Hygeine lesson I reference in the episode: https://www.patreon.com/posts/aquarius-season-48096791

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Michael Anthony returns to the podcast with a new name, pronoun update and a metaphysical perspective on Twin Flames! This isn't the buttery you tube clickbait version promising a Cinderella / Prince Charming union, it's a holistic approach to soul growth and development. We all deserve to freely express ourselves, our truth, our sovereignty and receive love. Happy LGBTQIA+ Pride 365 days a year! Let's learn how to love ourselves so much exactly as we are so that it is easy to love everyone else exactly as they are!

The primary work he cites is Todd R. Diviney: Expansion for Ascending Consciousness https://amzn.to/42HtWUQ

Michael Anthony previous episodes:

Episode 83. Love and Connection: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/bevin/episodes/83--Mags-Ickes-Freedom-and-Connection-euhmrf

Episode 24. Coming Out, Polyamory and Serving under Don't Ask Don't Tell: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/pod/show/bevin/episodes/24--Magaly-on-Coming-Out--Polyamory-and-Serving-in-the-Military-Under-Dont-Ask-Dont-Tell-eavlc7

Michael Anthony on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/michaelanthonygendersorcerer/

Bevin on Instagram: @bevinsparty @fatkiddanceparty

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Bianca is a Zoom-based personal trainer with a big heart and great cheerleading! As I have experiienced and shared on this podcast, sometimes those of us with big cheer to offer also have mental health struggles! As her friend I've witness Bianca develop exceptional self awareness and not only learn but use tools to regulate and recover. This episode is chock full of ideas for how to get back to center, how to define success for ourselves and how Bianca pivoted from nursing to personal training!

Virtual Personal Training on Zoom with Bianca starts with a 1-hour intro appointment to get acquainted. All follow up workouts are 30-minutes in duration from warmup to cooldown. This is a radically inclusive space for anyone who's healing their relationship with movement. Calling all Shes, Theys, Gays, and the Weirdos in Between! Let's boogie. 
Instagram: @hi.biancarusso

Website: www.biancarussofitness.com/

Schedule Consult: bit.ly/talk-with-bianca

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