Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends

Listener question! Spice Girls as femme icons problematic or empowering? I could talk for eight hours about the invisible handcuffs of shame! About hegemonic beauty standards! About femme as a playground for gender expression, the natural evolution of self expression and not putting limitations on our purpose! Let's play in gender and unlearn the confining shame that hides our gifts!

Should you have questions for further discussion send me an email fatkiddanceparty at gmail!

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Chrissy is my psychic! She's also a dear friend and from the chosen Millenial micro generation that's incarnated to lead our world! I love hearing how she evolves!

We talk her recent one year Al Anon anniversary (she's on step six now)! Her duolingo streak! Our thoughts on prayer & how much it can help if you're willing. Designing, evolving a Patreon & building community.

Get to know me and Chrissy more through our previous episodes! 29--her background, 137--how to avoid demonic possession, 53--early C19 pandemic predictions!

Learn how to start a Patreon & Discord community: Episode 139

Book a one on one with me by emailing fatkiddanceparty at gmail dot com!

Book with Chrissy Tolley: https://chrissytolley.com/book-now

Join her substack: https://chrissytolley.substack.com/

Chrissy on IG & Threads: @chrissytolley

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Habits are the building blocks of our lives! For 2024 I wanted life to be different. I knew I had to be the one to change in order to get different results. I started calling it a "capacity building season" because it felt like a mess but that's how you get going! I knew my systems and priorities were going to need tinkering to actually help with that. I also talk about habit stacking and morning, lunch and evening routines to help you noodle on what can best serve you!

This is my post about habit stacking my afternoon walk with spiritual practices: https://www.patreon.com/posts/practical-magic-78190633

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Robin Doxey is an Akashic Records Reader, a powerful Seer and Healer. We talk about seeing the world through a compassionate lens, serving from divine energy, energetic hygiene, soul contracts, taking risks and living our truth. She shares her story coming out as psychic, choosing to offer her gifts to the world with increased openness and so much more!

My friend and Laughter Yoga instructor Claire invented a party called a Cenquentenera! Making lemons out of lemonade she needed a big party to look forward to after a lot of grief. She shares the process of doing something unconventional and spectacular! We also talk about body image issues after unexpected chronic illness related weight change and the joys of choosing to laugh and dance anyway!

Claire on IG: @clairecoughlinpowell

Let's take intentional risks for community, friendship and the right people! Don't waste your protocols on the wrong people, though. I talk about my personal Covid-19 protocols, where I'm willing to compromise and where I'm not, dating standards, observing behavior vs obsessing over potential, seeing endings as learning lessons vs failure, maintaining sense of self while in early love Feels & more!

Audio Episode 161. Elysia the Naughty Faery has a compelling story of spiritual development and following the jolly freefall of alignment. We talk candle magic, her amazing lunchtime of life love story, the Goddess/Saint Brigid and the upcoming Imbolc holiday! She is my local candlemaker! I love visiting her store in Port Townsend and you can visit her online store! Candle store on etsy: https://www.etsy.com/shop/thenaughtyfaery/(Use code BevinLove10 for 10% off through the end of Feb 2024)Instagram & FB: TheChandleryPTIf you're visiting Port Townsend stay at The Washington Suites: https://www.thewashingtonpt.com/SUPPORT THE PODCAST!

Listener question! Is true love a scam? Is romantic love overrated or the meaning of life? Is true monogamy not possible? I reflect on romance, my gay divorce, healing co-dependency, my faith in divine timing, how I perceive love as the most worthwhile risk and a learning ground for our soul. I reflect on monogamy as behavior and polyamory as a method of being honest with myself about how I love multiply, without necessarily needing the behavior of non-monogamy.

I did not mention on air but want to point you to my podcast episode 55. (Solo) You're Not too Old and It's Not Too Late for Love! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/bevin/episodes/55--Solo-Romance-Youre-Not-Too-Old-And-Its-Not-Too-Late-Part-Two-ek4vs1/a-a3bckv3

Support the podcast!

Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!)
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/bevin (safe and secure way to buy me a snack!)
Venmo: @bevinb
Cash App: $BevinBoss
Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_share
Tee shirts: https://genuinevalentine.com/collections/fat-kid-dance-party
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Instagram: @fatkiddanceparty @bevinsparty
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Manduh is a powerful medium, Reiki practitioner, oracle and tarot card reader and delicious baker! A multi-passionate entrepreneur, and since recording this episode three weeks ago is now full time devoted to offering her unique gifts to the world! Her backstory is one of overcoming and there's a content warning on this episode about suicide and CSA if those aren't things you're up for listening about. Like all healers, she has walked through the storms and can now heal through her experience. Manduh also loves Christmas and the Muppets as much as me and she's part of leadership for our Glowing Goddess Sisterhood.

Manduh on Instagram: @manduh.dawn @manduhsreikibakery

You can DM her to get a reading, a healing or buy a cake (she ships!)

Manduh on FB: https://www.facebook.com/CakesByManduh/

Goddess Sisterhood: https://sites.google.com/view/goddess-sisterhood/home

SUPPORT THE PODCAST: Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!)
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For anyone else dealing with the arctic freeze! I grew up in California and it was a big shock moving to Philadelphia as a young adult. I teach my tips and tricks and foolish choices so you can have a better shot at staying warm. I also talk through the values balance of shopping for winter gear as a plus size babe while also not wanting to support sweat shop labor! All that and four years living through Pacific Northwest winters in an RV I have some thoughts!

Here are the gloves I mention in the podcast: https://amzn.to/48V5Idn (I bought them for my mom, too, she loves them)

Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!)
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